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The Truth About Downsizing and Decluttering: What No One Tells You, but You Need to Know

When I look back on my own downsizing journey, there are so many things I didn’t know that I wish I had known at the time.

While I did get really good at figuring things out over time, it sure would have made the process a lot easier had I known then what I know now. Today’s video tells the truth about downsizing and decluttering—what no one tells you but what you need to know.

With the ever-increasing popularity of downsizing and decluttering across all ages and demographics, it’s important for you to know what to expect before you embark on this life-changing decision.

So, if you are considering a decluttering and downsizing journey and want to know the good, the bad, and the ugly about the process so you can be better informed, please read till the end of my blog to learn from my successes as well as my mistakes.

THE GOOD: The Surprising Benefits of Decluttering and Downsizing My Life

After decluttering and downsizing, one of the biggest surprises was how simple my life had become.

Having broken free of the burden of clutter and a home filled with too much stuff, my smaller environment was organized and peaceful, and I knew where everything was.
I was no longer wasting time looking for things.

Living in a smaller home with much less stuff suddenly just made sense!
I had more time, money, freedom, and energy to do all the things I had been wanting to do. I could now focus on what mattered to me because nothing was holding me back. I was in control of my own life. I had all I wanted, all I needed, and I had never been happier.

I also realized how little I actually needed and how the quality of my life had improved.
My only question was: Why hadn’t I decluttered and downsized sooner?

THE BAD: The Daily Challenges You Face During the Downsizing and Decluttering Journey

Note that these so-called challenges also became opportunities each day to learn, grow, and become stronger in my resolve to simplify my life.

The Emotional Roller Coaster: Uncertainty and Fear of the Unknown

Each day seemed to bring on a new emotion:

Overwhelm, stress, peaceTears, sadness, joyIndecisiveness, decisiveness, clarity

At any given moment, I was filled with self-doubt:

What if I need it someday?How can I possibly let go of my sentimental items? What do I need to do to stay motivated when I want to give up? Is it worth all this time and effort?

Acknowledging these complex emotions is critical to your decluttering and downsizing success. They’re perfectly normal. Anyone who declutters and downsizes experiences many similar emotions.

The key to success is not to dwell on the emotions and things that hold you back.
Instead, constantly remind yourself of WHY you want to downsize and declutter.

Whether it’s to save money, live a simpler life, or have more freedom, shift your focus to one small area, like a drawer, and make one small decision at a time.

This mindset shift is magical because it will help you get unstuck so you can move forward.

THE UGLY: What NOT to Do When Downsizing and Decluttering

Here are 5 big mistakes I made during my journey to owning less. Avoiding these can save you a lot of time, trouble, and heartache:

Trying to do it all at once.
This is not only impossible but also unwise. Take the time upfront to create a plan and implement your project one area at a time. Set realistic goals, timelines, and intentions for where you’ll live and where your excess items will go.Trying to do it alone.
After one exhausting month of decluttering solo, I realized I needed a team. Having support allowed me to create a workable plan and even enjoy the process.Bringing too much stuff to your smaller home.
Overpacking a smaller space is a common mistake. Be mindful of the limited storage in your new home and make thoughtful decisions about what to bring.Waiting too long to downsize and declutter.
I delayed my move by five years, which led to unnecessary stress, wasted resources, and missed opportunities for joy. Living with less has added years to the quality of my life.Continuing to accumulate more.
Breaking the cycle of over-accumulation is essential. Learning to say no and understanding your relationship with “more” is critical for living a simpler, more meaningful life.Misconceptions About Decluttering and Downsizing

“Downsizing is stressful and overwhelming.”
While there’s an element of stress, with the right mindset and tools, the process can be smooth, enjoyable, and even fun.

“Decluttering and downsizing means sacrificing comfort.”
This is not true. A thoughtfully downsized home can still reflect your personal style and provide comfort.

“Downsizing is for extreme minimalists.”
Downsizing isn’t about extremes—it’s about living a more balanced life with things that serve a purpose and bring joy.

My Top 5 Secrets for Successful Decluttering and DownsizingStart small.
Complete one area at a time to build momentum and motivation.Sort into categories.
Use three piles—keep, donate, discard—to help you be more intentional and decisive.Acknowledge the emotional aspect.
Letting go can be painful, but remember: memories live in your heart, not in objects.Focus on clarity and freedom.
A clutter-free home lets you focus on what matters most: relationships, passions, and personal growth.Declutter your mind.
Downsizing isn’t just about your space—it’s about achieving mental clarity and surrounding yourself with what truly matters.

The freedom that comes with decluttering and downsizing is available to anyone, regardless of age, income, or lifestyle. It’s not just for minimalists—it’s for everyone who wants to live a more intentional and fulfilling life.

Remember, downsizing isn’t just about getting rid of things. It’s about living a life aligned with your values and goals . It’s about freedom, clarity, and simplicity.

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From Chaos to Calm: Creating a New Year Sanctuary

Hi, I’m Rita Wilkins, the Downsizing Designer, and welcome to this extended companion blog to my “Five in Five” video series. As the New Year begins, many of us feel inspired to reset and refresh. What better way to start than by transforming your home into a sanctuary—a peaceful retreat from life’s chaos? Decluttering isn’t just about organizing your space; it’s about creating an environment that nurtures your well-being and reflects your goals. 

In this blog, we’ll explore how decluttering, guided by the “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook, can help you create a home that fosters calm, clarity, and intention. 

Why Your Home Reflects Your State of Mind 

Your physical space often mirrors your mental and emotional state. A cluttered, disorganized home can contribute to stress, overwhelm, and even decision fatigue. Conversely, a clean and organized space provides: 

Peace: A calm environment promotes relaxation and reduces anxiety. Focus: A clutter-free space helps you concentrate on what truly matters. Motivation: An orderly home inspires productivity and creativity. 

By creating a home sanctuary, you’re setting the tone for a more peaceful and purposeful life in the New Year. 

The Benefits of a Room-by-Room Approach 

Transforming your entire home at once can feel overwhelming, but taking a room-by-room approach makes the process manageable and effective. The Minimalist Essentials workbook breaks down decluttering into specific areas, allowing you to focus on one space at a time. This method ensures consistent progress and helps you stay motivated. 

Start with High-Impact Areas 

To make the most immediate difference, begin with areas you use daily, such as: 

The Bedroom: A tidy bedroom promotes restful sleep and sets the tone for your day. The Kitchen: An organized kitchen makes meal preparation more enjoyable and efficient. The Living Room: A clutter-free living room encourages relaxation and quality time with loved ones. 

Each space you transform will inspire you to keep going. 

Tips for Creating a Sanctuary 

Here are some practical tips to turn your home into a sanctuary, using tools and strategies from the workbook: 

1. Clear Surfaces for Instant Calm 

Start by decluttering surfaces like countertops, coffee tables, and nightstands. Removing visual clutter creates an immediate sense of order and calm. 

2. Use Room-Specific Checklists 

The workbook includes tailored checklists for every room, ensuring you don’t overlook any details. These checklists help you declutter systematically, from drawers to closets to shelves. 

3. Keep Only What Serves You 

Ask yourself: Does this item serve a purpose or bring me joy? Let go of items that don’t align with your current needs or values. 

4. Incorporate Minimalist Decor 

Simplifying your decor can enhance the sanctuary feel. Choose neutral colors, natural materials, and fewer decorative items to create a clean, serene look. 

5. Create Functional Zones 

Organize your space into zones for specific activities, such as reading, working, or relaxing. Functional zones make your home more efficient and enjoyable to use. 

Decluttering as a New Year’s Ritual 

Decluttering isn’t just about tidying up—it’s a transformative act of self-care. By clearing out the old, you make room for new opportunities, experiences, and intentions. Use the New Year as a time to: 

Reflect on Your Goals: What do you want your home to support—rest, creativity, connection? Set Intentions: Decluttering isn’t about perfection; it’s about creating a space that aligns with your values. Celebrate Progress: Each area you declutter is a step toward creating your ideal sanctuary.  Rita’s Minimalist Essentials All-In-One $9.99 Rated 5.00 out of 5 based on 4 customer ratings Add to cart Rita’s Visual Decluttering Workbook: Emotional Clutter $2.99 Add to cart Maintaining Your Sanctuary 

Once your home is clutter-free, it’s important to maintain your progress. The “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook includes: 

Daily and Weekly Routines: Small, consistent actions keep your space organized. 30-Day Challenges: These challenges help you build decluttering into your lifestyle. Reflection Prompts: Stay mindful of how your space supports your well-being. Embrace Calm, Clarity, and Comfort 

This New Year, give yourself the gift of a home that feels like a sanctuary. By decluttering room by room and focusing on what truly matters, you can transform chaos into calm and create a space that nurtures your body, mind, and soul. 

The “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook is your perfect companion on this journey. Packed with practical tools, checklists, and challenges, it guides you step by step toward a more intentional, clutter-free home. Purchase Rita’s Decluttering Workbook today and start creating your sanctuary today. 

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Got 5 minutes? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series, where I share five quick tips in just five minutes on decluttering and simplifying your life. 

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Reimagining Holiday Celebrations When Life Changes

As our lives change, so must the ways we celebrate holidays. What once brought joy may no longer fit our current circumstances, and that’s okay—it’s an opportunity to reflect and evolve.

For example, if you are a new widow, divorcee, or have lost a loved one this past year, you may be facing the challenge of how to celebrate the holidays in a way that feels right for you.

Do you try to celebrate as you always have, or do you reimagine the holidays and create new traditions that align with your current life and lifestyle?

My Story of Reimagining the Holidays

Years ago, when I was first divorced, I was petrified about how my teenage boys and I would celebrate Christmas. I knew it would never be the same as before, yet there were traditions that were deeply meaningful to us—things I wanted to preserve:

Decorating the Christmas tree together.Attending midnight Mass.Enjoying our Christmas morning brunch while opening presents.Volunteering at the women’s homeless shelter.Sharing traditional Polish foods with family and friends who stopped by.

At the same time, I desperately wanted to start some new traditions to make the holidays our own.

After discussing this with my boys, we decided to keep the traditions that mattered most to us. But we also added something new: a trip to a place we’d never been before, starting the day after Christmas. That custom brought many new experiences and memories, which we still cherish today.

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How to Reimagine Holiday Celebrations When Life Changes1. Reflect on the holiday traditions you value most and want to continue.

These are the traditions that bring you joy and feel like part of your identity. They make the holidays special, so consider keeping them—even if you’re celebrating alone.

Examples might include decorating your home, putting white lights on the tree, singing carols around the piano, or watching a favorite holiday movie. These small but meaningful rituals can bring comfort and happiness.

2. Reassess holiday events you might have done out of obligation or guilt.

Many of us participate in holiday activities that create stress rather than joy. This could include:

Attending business parties or events with people you barely know.Hosting extravagant gatherings where everything must be perfect.Hunting for “perfect” gifts, the latest gadgets, or trendy items to put under the tree.

Is it time to let go of these “have-tos” and “shoulds”? By eliminating these from your schedule, you can free up time and energy to truly enjoy the season.

3. Create new and meaningful traditions based on your current life circumstances.

Think about what matters most to you now. Take this opportunity to design holiday traditions that feel meaningful and bring joy.

Ask yourself:

How can I simplify to reduce stress?How can I create memorable experiences with loved ones—or even with myself?How can I blend cherished past traditions with new ones that reflect who I am today?Bottom Line

You have the power to shape your holiday celebrations. Let them reflect your values, your joys, and your current stage in life. You get to create it. You get to choose.

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Decluttering as Self-Care: The Path to a Balanced Life

Hi, I’m Rita Wilkins, the Downsizing Designer, and welcome to this extended companion blog to my “Five in Five” video series. As we start the New Year, there’s no better time to explore the connection between decluttering and self-care. While we often associate self-care with activities like exercise or meditation, decluttering your home and mind can be one of the most impactful ways to nurture your well-being. 

Decluttering isn’t just about getting rid of stuff; it’s about making room for what matters. When you simplify your space, you simplify your life, creating balance, clarity, and peace. In this blog, we’ll explore why decluttering is an essential act of self-care and how you can use it to reclaim your time, energy, and joy. 

The Overlooked Connection: Decluttering and Self-Care 

When we think of self-care, images of relaxing spa days or journaling might come to mind. But self-care is also about reducing stress and creating an environment that supports your well-being. Clutter, whether physical or emotional, contributes to overwhelm and can leave you feeling drained. By letting go of what no longer serves you, you’re actively prioritizing yourself and your needs. 

Decluttering as self-care is about: 

Reducing stress: A clutter-free space fosters calm and focus. Increasing productivity: When you remove distractions, you can concentrate on what’s important. Boosting confidence: Completing a decluttering project gives you a sense of accomplishment. Making space for joy: Less clutter means more room—physically and mentally—for the things that truly matter. How Clutter Impacts Mental and Emotional Health 

Clutter isn’t just about stuff—it’s about the mental and emotional toll it takes. Each item in your home represents a decision, a responsibility, or an unfinished task. This can lead to: 

Decision fatigue: Constantly deciding what to do with clutter drains your mental energy. Emotional overwhelm: Items tied to guilt, nostalgia, or aspirations can weigh heavily on your mind. Lost focus: A cluttered space makes it harder to concentrate and be present. 

By addressing clutter, you free up mental bandwidth, allowing you to focus on what truly enriches your life. 

Decluttering as an Act of Self-Love 

Decluttering isn’t just about getting rid of stuff—it’s about keeping what aligns with your values and brings you joy. Here are some ways decluttering becomes an act of self-love: 

Letting Go of Guilt: Items you’ve kept out of obligation or “just in case” are no longer your responsibility. Letting them go releases guilt and replaces it with freedom. Making Space for Growth: A clutter-free environment allows you to embrace new opportunities, hobbies, and experiences. Focusing on the Present: By keeping only what serves you now, you’re affirming your worth and focusing on who you are today.  Rita’s Minimalist Essentials All-In-One $9.99 Rated 5.00 out of 5 based on 4 customer ratings Add to cart Rita’s Visual Decluttering Workbook: Emotional Clutter $2.99 Add to cart Tools for Simplifying Your Space 

The “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook is the perfect companion for turning decluttering into a self-care ritual. This 64-page guide includes: 

Room-specific checklists to help you focus on one area at a time. 30-day challenges to make decluttering manageable and consistent. Reflection prompts to help you connect with the emotional aspects of decluttering. 

Using this workbook, you can approach decluttering with intention, transforming your home into a sanctuary that supports your self-care journey. 

How to Start Your Decluttering Journey 

Ready to embrace decluttering as self-care? Here’s a step-by-step approach to get started: 

1. Start Small 

Begin with a single area, such as a drawer or a corner of a room. Small wins build momentum and reduce the feeling of overwhelm. 

2. Set a Timer 

Use the 15-minute clutter-busting method from the workbook. Decluttering in short bursts keeps you motivated without feeling exhausted. 

3. Reflect on Your Why 

Ask yourself: Why am I keeping this? Does it serve me now? Connecting your actions to your goals helps you stay focused and intentional. 

4. Celebrate Progress 

Each decluttered space is a step toward creating a home that supports your well-being. Take time to appreciate the effort and enjoy the results. 

The Ripple Effect of Decluttering 

When you approach decluttering as self-care, the benefits extend far beyond your physical space. A clutter-free environment supports: 

Better relationships: You have more time and energy for loved ones. Increased mindfulness: A tidy space fosters a sense of calm and focus. Personal growth: With less “stuff” to manage, you can pursue passions and goals. 

Decluttering isn’t about perfection—it’s about creating a life that feels balanced, intentional, and aligned with your values. 

Make Decluttering Part of Your Self-Care Routine 

This New Year, take the first step toward a more balanced life by embracing decluttering as self-care. The “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook is your guide to creating a clutter-free, organized home that supports your well-being. Packed with practical tools and motivating insights, it’s the perfect companion for simplifying your space and your life. Purchase Rita’s Decluttering Workbook today and start your journey toward clarity and peace. 

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Presence Over Possessions: The Hidden Joys of Minimalism

The holidays are a magical time filled with laughter, connection, and joy. But too often, they come wrapped in stress, overspending, and a frenzy of shopping for things that quickly lose their value. What if this year could be different? What if the greatest gift you gave wasn’t something you could wrap, but something far more valuable?

As the Downsizing Designer, I’ve spent years helping people discover that less is more and that the path to living with less opens the door to more time, freedom, and joy. I’ve seen how decluttering and downsizing can transform homes, lives, and relationships. And when it comes to the holidays, I believe the most meaningful gift we can give is our presence, not possessions.

The Best Gift of All: Time With Those You Love

I often say, “You can always make more money, but you can never make more time.” The holiday season reminds us that time spent with family and friends is precious. When we strip away the distractions—the clutter, the stress, and the endless to-do lists—we create space for what truly matters: connection.

Think back to your favorite holiday memories. Was it the gift you opened or the laughter shared around the dinner table? Was it the perfect centerpiece or the imperfect moments of togetherness that made you smile?

When we choose to live with less and embrace minimalism, we free ourselves from the pressure of things and make room for experiences. This shift allows us to spend more time with those we love and create memories that last far longer than any material gift ever could.

3 Unique Ways to Build Memories and Give a Meaningful Gift

Here are three creative ways to prioritize presence over possessions this holiday season while creating memories you and your loved ones will cherish:

1. Memory-Making Experience Box

Instead of buying physical gifts, create a “Memory-Making Experience Box” for your family. Fill it with ideas for activities you can do together over the coming year. It could include simple yet meaningful experiences like:

A family game nightA picnic at your favorite parkBaking cookies together while sharing storiesExploring a new town or hiking trail

Write each idea on a slip of paper, place them in the box, and let your family pick one each month. This thoughtful gift gives you time together throughout the year, creating moments that will become cherished memories.

2. Personalized Storybook or Memory Album

Gather photos, quotes, and favorite moments from your family’s past holidays or special occasions. Use these to create a personalized storybook or memory album. Whether you handcraft it or use an online service, this gift will remind your loved ones of the joy you’ve shared.

Take it one step further by adding handwritten notes or captions describing what those moments mean to you. It’s a heartfelt way to relive past memories while celebrating the present.

3. Create a Holiday Tradition Together

Sometimes, the most memorable gifts come in the form of traditions. Whether it’s hosting a holiday movie marathon in pajamas, sharing stories from your family’s history, or volunteering together to give back, traditions bond us and give us something to look forward to year after year.

One of my favorite minimalist traditions is decluttering for a cause. As a family, spend an afternoon going through closets, toy bins, or kitchens, and set aside items to donate to those in need. Not only does this help you live with less, but it also teaches the value of giving back and being intentional with what you keep.

Rita’s 2024 Gift Guide: Give the Gift of Simplicity

If you’re looking for meaningful gifts that align with a minimalist mindset, check out Rita’s Minimalist Essentials Gift Guide. From decluttering workbooks and checklists to digital guides designed to help you downsize and simplify, these gifts inspire others to live with intention and joy.

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Presence is the Greatest Gift of All

This holiday season, I encourage you to shift your focus from what to buy to how to be. Be more present, more intentional, and more grateful for the simple joys of life. Instead of getting caught up in the hustle, slow down, breathe, and savor the time you have with those you love.

When we choose presence over possessions, we discover the hidden joys of minimalism: more connection, more freedom, and more meaning. It’s a gift that never fades, never breaks, and never goes out of style.

So, what will you give this year? A wrapped box or a lasting memory?

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Letting Go of Emotional Clutter: Start the Year with a Clear Mind

Hi, I’m Rita Wilkins, the Downsizing Designer, and welcome to the extended companion blog to my “Five in Five” video series. Today, we’re diving into a topic that goes beyond physical spaces: emotional clutter. As we embrace the New Year, many of us focus on decluttering our homes, but how often do we think about the clutter we carry in our hearts and minds? Emotional clutter can hold us back just as much—if not more—than physical clutter. 

This blog will help you identify the different types of emotional clutter, understand how it impacts your well-being, and show you how to let go so you can welcome clarity, freedom, and peace into the New Year. 

What is Emotional Clutter? 

Emotional clutter consists of feelings, attachments, and unresolved issues tied to the possessions we keep. While a cluttered drawer or closet is easy to spot, emotional clutter is more subtle. It can manifest as: 

Guilt over items you no longer use but feel obligated to keep. Nostalgia for things that represent the past but no longer serve you. Aspirational attachments to things tied to the person you think you “should” be. 

When left unchecked, emotional clutter can drain your energy and prevent you from fully living in the present. 

Why Letting Go of Emotional Clutter Matters 

Decluttering isn’t just about creating physical space; it’s about creating mental and emotional space. When you release emotional clutter, you: 

Feel lighter and more free: Letting go lifts invisible burdens you may not have realized you were carrying. Gain clarity: Without emotional attachments clouding your judgment, it’s easier to make decisions about what truly matters. Reclaim energy: Emotional clutter can drain your mental resources. Releasing it gives you energy to focus on what brings you joy. Identifying the Five Types of Emotional Clutter 

The visual workbook on emotional clutter is an excellent resource for exploring and addressing these areas. It identifies five common types of emotional clutter, each with unique challenges: 

Attachment Clutter: Items tied to cherished memories, such as gifts from loved ones or souvenirs from significant events. Inherited Clutter: Family heirlooms and generational items that may carry feelings of guilt or obligation. Aspirational Clutter: Items representing future goals or dreams, such as clothes for a fitness journey or supplies for a hobby you’ve never started. Bargain Clutter: Things you bought on sale but never used, often tied to the “savings” mindset. Abundance Clutter: Excess items like duplicate sets of linens, dishes, or clothes, kept out of a desire for security. 

Understanding which type of emotional clutter you’re dealing with is the first step toward letting it go. 

Rita’s Minimalist Essentials All-In-One $9.99 Rated 5.00 out of 5 based on 4 customer ratings Add to cart Rita’s Visual Decluttering Workbook: Emotional Clutter $2.99 Add to cart How to Release Emotional Clutter: Practical Steps 

The visual workbook provides actionable steps to help you confront and release emotional clutter. Here’s a sneak peek into some strategies: 

1. Recognize the Emotion 

Ask yourself why you’re holding on to a specific item. Is it guilt? Nostalgia? Fear of the future? Identifying the underlying emotion helps you address the root cause. 

2. Reframe Your Perspective 

Letting go doesn’t mean losing the memory or the sentiment behind an item. Consider taking a photo of sentimental items before donating or recycling them. This allows you to preserve the memory without keeping the physical object. 

3. Start Small 

Don’t try to tackle everything at once. Begin with one drawer or a single category of items, such as old letters or unused gifts. Small victories build momentum for larger decluttering projects. 

4. Focus on the Present 

When deciding whether to keep something, ask yourself if it serves who you are today—not who you were or who you think you should be. 

Benefits of Letting Go 

Releasing emotional clutter creates space—not just in your home, but in your life. Imagine walking into a room that’s not only physically clean but also free from the emotional weight of the past. You’ll find it easier to: 

Connect with loved ones: Emotional clutter can create distance in relationships. Letting go allows for deeper connections. Embrace opportunities: Without the weight of emotional attachments, you’re more open to new experiences and growth. Feel at peace: A clutter-free space, both physically and emotionally, is a sanctuary for relaxation and self-care. Start the Year with Emotional Clarity 

The New Year is the perfect time to let go of what no longer serves you and make room for what does. By releasing emotional clutter, you’re not just simplifying your space—you’re simplifying your life. 

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The visual workbook on emotional clutter is your guide to this transformative process. With reflective exercises and practical strategies, it’s designed to help you identify, understand, and release the emotional ties holding you back. Purchase Rita’s Emotional Clutter Workbook today and start your journey toward emotional clarity and freedom. 

Got 5 minutes? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series, where I share five quick tips in just five minutes on decluttering and simplifying your life. 

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Why Teaching Grandkids About Money Early Matters

Did you know that only 17% of high school students are required to take a personal finance course? Unfortunately, most of us didn’t learn much about personal finance or investing at home or in school when we were growing up either.

The Gift of Financial Education: Money Skills and Financial Freedom

Teaching grandkids about money is crucial because money is an integral part of our daily lives. Planting seeds now is important, even while they are still riding scooters, swinging on monkey bars, or coloring with crayons.

It’s important to introduce them to the concepts of earning, saving, spending, and managing money wisely so they understand the value of a dollar. This helps shape good money habits and smart financial decisions as they grow.

Instilling positive habits teaches financial responsibility, builds confidence, and leads to better decisions, helping to prevent common financial mistakes later on, such as credit card debt, living without a budget, and struggling to manage money.

Why Parents and Grandparents Should Teach Kids About Money

Too often, parents avoid teaching their kids about money because they think their children are too young to understand, or they assume their kids will learn how to manage money when they’re older.

This is a big mistake. When left to learn about money on their own, kids may pick up both good and bad habits from friends, social media, or through trial and error. They also observe how their parents handle money, sometimes unknowingly adopting poor money habits that can lead to financial stress, paycheck-to-paycheck living, or debt.

It’s critical to break this cycle by teaching kids’ good money habits at a young age. This is where you, as a grandparent, can be of service. You’ve been through a lot in your lifetime, and you know the good, the bad, and the ugly of managing or mismanaging money.

Teaching Kids About Money Is Simple

It’s not hard to teach kids about money. Keep it simple, practical, interactive, and fun!

Teach them the basics in an age-appropriate manner. Real-life examples and hands-on activities are some of the most effective tools. The key is to start early, be consistent, and make it fun!

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Piggy Bank and Play Money

Young kids can start identifying coins and understanding that money has value. Introduce the concept of saving with a piggy bank. Encourage them to save spare change and let them see how money adds up over time.

Play Store

Let kids practice making choices, purchases, and counting in a pretend store setting.

Ages 8 to 12

Earning an Allowance

Let kids earn a regular allowance by doing chores. This teaches them about earning, budgeting, saving, and responsible spending. It helps them set savings goals for something they might want or need.

Grocery Shopping Game

Give them a budget and let them make choices within it. This helps them learn to make good decisions – and likely a few bad ones, too!

Ages 13 to 18

Savings Accounts and Compound Interest

Introduce them to savings accounts and explain how compound interest works. If you give them a debit card for purchases, link it to their savings account to teach responsibility with card usage.

Family Financial Discussions

Include them in discussions about household bills like the mortgage, rent, electricity, water, and groceries. This teaches them the real costs of day-to-day living.

Ages 18 and Beyond

Credit and Loans

Explain how credit and loans work (e.g., student loans, car loans, and mortgages). Teach them the importance of maintaining a good credit score and about compounding interest when saving and investing.

Fun Family Activities to Teach Kids About MoneyEntrepreneurship

Encourage a lemonade stand or selling artwork/crafts to teach about earning, expenses, and profits.

Board Games

Games like Monopoly teach concepts of buying, selling, and investing in real estate.

Grocery Shopping

Teach decision-making, price comparison, staying within a budget, and the value of coupons.

How to Raise a Grateful, Respectful, Responsible, and Non-Entitled Child

This is one of the biggest challenges parents and grandparents face today. While a certain degree of “good spoiling” is okay, especially for grandparents, too much of anything – whether toys, clothes, gadgets, or electronics – can overwhelm and have negative consequences.

For example, too many choices can lead to overstimulation, fatigue, lack of focus, and diminished creativity. Toys are meant to enrich and teach children, but an overabundance can have the opposite effect. Kids thrive with fewer toys and benefit from simplicity – less is more.

Finding Balance

While it’s important to provide kids with what they need and enjoy, don’t give them so much that they don’t appreciate it or feel entitled. Striking this balance is essential if you want your kids to be grateful, not entitled.

Set Limits and Stick to Them

Say no to your kids often – and mean it. Teach them about delayed gratification. Have them do chores to earn money. Teach them to respect and care for their belongings.

Buy Fewer Things

Instead of buying more, spend more time with your kids. Create and enjoy experiences with them that will last a lifetime.

Teaching kids about money from an early age sets the foundation for lifelong financial success. By instilling good habits, fostering responsibility, and making learning about money fun, you equip your children with the skills they need to make smart financial choices as they grow.

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Decluttering for a Fresh Start: Embrace the New Year with Minimalism

As the calendar flips to a new year, we’re often filled with a sense of possibility—a chance to reset, reimagine, and refocus. It’s a natural time for reflection and goal-setting, but one of the most transformative resolutions you can make is to declutter your life. Decluttering isn’t just about tidying your home; it’s about creating space—physically, mentally, and emotionally—for the things that truly matter. 

In this blog, we’ll explore how decluttering can be the ultimate form of self-care and how you can use the “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook to simplify your space and embrace the New Year with a clean slate. 

Why Decluttering is the Perfect New Year Resolution 

The New Year symbolizes a fresh start, but it’s hard to move forward when you’re weighed down by clutter. Whether it’s piles of papers, overstuffed closets, or lingering emotional attachments to things you no longer need, clutter can create stress and keep you stuck in the past. 

Decluttering is a chance to: 

Reduce stress: Clutter overwhelms the senses and makes it difficult to relax or focus. Boost productivity: A clean, organized environment helps you think more clearly. Foster gratitude: Letting go of excess makes you appreciate the things you keep. Reclaim time: A clutter-free home is easier to clean and maintain, freeing up time for what matters most. 

By committing to decluttering as a New Year’s resolution, you’re choosing to prioritize yourself, your peace of mind, and your future. 

The Connection Between Clutter and Well-Being 

Clutter isn’t just physical; it’s emotional and mental too. Every item in your home takes up space not just on your shelves but also in your mind. When you see clutter, it’s a reminder of unfinished tasks or unfulfilled promises—those jeans you were going to fit into, that book you were going to read, that project you were going to start. 

This constant reminder creates decision fatigue and emotional weight, draining your energy before you’ve even begun your day. Decluttering is like clearing the cobwebs from your mind. It’s a way to make room for clarity, peace, and focus. 

Decluttering as Self-Care 

Taking time to declutter is an act of self-care. It’s about choosing yourself over the stuff that no longer serves you. Here’s how decluttering nurtures your well-being: 

Releases Guilt: Letting go of items you no longer need frees you from the guilt of keeping them “just in case.” Boosts Confidence: Each small area you declutter is a win, reminding you that you’re capable of change. Encourages Mindfulness: Decluttering requires you to be present, assessing what adds value to your life right now. How to Get Started with the Minimalist Essentials Workbook 

The “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook is your ultimate guide to transforming your home into a sanctuary of simplicity. Packed with 64 pages of room-specific checklists, 30-day challenges, and practical strategies, it’s designed to help you declutter with confidence and ease. 

Step 1: Start Small 

The workbook encourages a room-by-room approach, which makes the process feel manageable. Begin with a single drawer, shelf, or corner. This small win builds momentum for larger areas. 

Step 2: Use the Checklists 

Each section of the workbook includes tailored checklists to guide you through every space in your home, from the kitchen to the bedroom. These checklists ensure you don’t overlook anything, making your efforts efficient and thorough. 

Step 3: Commit to a 15-Minute Daily Routine 

The workbook introduces a 15-minute clutter-busting method, perfect for those with busy schedules. Setting aside just 15 minutes a day can lead to transformative results over time. 

Step 4: Reflect on Your Progress 

Decluttering isn’t just about letting go; it’s about celebrating the space you’ve created. The workbook includes reflection prompts to help you acknowledge your progress and stay motivated. 

Tips to Stay on Track 

Decluttering is a journey, not a one-time event. Here are some tips to maintain your progress throughout the year: 

Set Realistic Goals: Break your decluttering goals into manageable steps and focus on one area at a time. Celebrate Small Wins: Each space you clear is an accomplishment worth acknowledging. Involve Your Family: Encourage everyone in your household to contribute to maintaining a clutter-free environment. Use Your Workbook Regularly: The Minimalist Essentials workbook is not just a tool to get started—it’s your ongoing guide for staying organized. The Ripple Effect of Decluttering 

Decluttering doesn’t just transform your home; it transforms your mindset. When you let go of what no longer serves you, you create room for what does—whether that’s quality time with loved ones, pursuing your passions, or simply enjoying a moment of peace. 

By making decluttering your New Year’s resolution, you’re giving yourself the gift of freedom. Freedom from overwhelm, from unnecessary stress, and from the weight of “stuff.” You’re creating a life that feels lighter, simpler, and more aligned with your values. 

If you’re ready to start your decluttering journey, the “All in One Minimalist Essentials” workbook is the perfect companion. Packed with actionable steps and motivating tools, it’s your guide to creating a clutter-free, intentional home. Purchase the workbook today and take the first step toward a New Year filled with clarity and peace. 

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Life-Changing Tips to Declutter Things You Thought You’d Never Part With

This morning, I read a funny quote from Joshua Becker:

“If you’re not using the stuff in your home, get rid of it. You’re not going to start using it more by shoving it into a closet somewhere.”

As we approach the holiday season, many of us might be guilty of doing exactly that—shoving stuff into closets as we prepare to welcome family and friends into our homes. It made me laugh because we’ve all done it at some point. But, as you know, that’s not a real solution to clutter.

Are you one of the millions of Americans who struggles to part with sentimental items or other things you’re attached to?
You know, those items you can’t imagine letting go of.

Even if you’re tired of living in a cluttered environment, you might keep putting up with it because every time you try to declutter, certain things stop you in your tracks.

At least, that’s what you keep telling yourself.

You can always find a reason to procrastinate or avoid decluttering those special things—like your grandmother’s jewelry or your mom’s china.

And that’s okay. I get it. We all have those items that mean a lot to us.

But that’s not what I’m talking about right now.

I’m talking about the hidden clutter—the stuff you don’t actually need but keep convincing yourself you do.

Just to name a few:

Old tires in your garage, long replaced by the ones on your car.A box of rusted screws and nails from your dad’s workshop.Love letters from your sixth-grade boyfriend or girlfriend.Books that look great on the shelf but have never been read.Sales receipts from 10 years ago.A wedding gown from your first (or second!) marriage, even though you’re happily remarried.Your grown son’s smelly soccer shirt from his high school championship days.Appliance manuals from your previous home.

Did any of these make you smile—or laugh out loud? Hopefully, they’ll inspire you to create your own list of clutter culprits. Once you see how long these items have been taking up space, you’ll realize it’s time to let them go.

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There are plenty of reasons (or excuses) we tell ourselves we can’t possibly part with certain items. Let’s take a closer look at three of the most common:

“ Just in case I need it someday .”
Who knows? Maybe you’ll need that old appliance manual from your previous house! 😊“I spent good money on it.”
How could you get rid of the wedding dress from your first marriage? You spent so much money on it!“I’ll feel guilty if I don’t keep it.”
Even though you live in a tiny 200-square-foot apartment in Manhattan, you’ve squeezed in your grandmother’s bedroom furniture because you’d feel guilty if you didn’t.

These reasons may feel valid at first glance, but they’re often just excuses to avoid facing the emotions of letting go.

Granted, some feelings are real—but others are just stories we’ve been telling ourselves for years. If you’re serious about decluttering, it’s time to face the facts.

How to move forward?

Sometimes, laughter really is the best medicine—especially when it helps us see through the lies we’ve been telling ourselves.

If you can acknowledge the truth, you’ll find the courage to finally let go of the hidden clutter lurking in your garage, closet, or drawers.

So have fun with it. Laugh at yourself, and just get started! You’ll be so glad you did.

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Closet Decluttering: 5 Key Questions to Curate Your Wardrobe

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Hi, I’m Rita Wilkins, the Downsizing Designer, and welcome to the extended companion blog to my “Five in Five” video series. In this blog, we’ll dive deeper into five essential questions to help you edit your closet effectively and build a wardrobe that makes you feel amazing. It’s September, which is a popular time to refresh our wardrobes, so if you’re ready to start, let’s go through each question to decide what to keep and what to let go. 

Remember, the goal here isn’t to throw everything out; it’s to curate a closet filled with clothes that serve you and make you feel confident every day. 

1. Is the Item in Good Condition? 

The first question is simple but important: Is the item in good condition? Take a close look at each piece and inspect for holes, stains, missing buttons, or broken zippers. Consider that sweater with a small hole that you’ve been meaning to repair for months—if you haven’t fixed it yet, chances are you probably won’t. 

If an item is damaged or too worn, it might be time to say goodbye. This step allows you to make room for clothes that are in good repair, clean, and ready to wear, ensuring that everything in your closet is something you’d feel comfortable putting on right now. 

2. Does It Fit Properly? 

We all have that pair of jeans we hope will fit one day, but realistically, your closet should reflect the current you. If a piece of clothing doesn’t fit right now, whether it’s too tight or too loose, it’s not serving you. Try on those “aspirational” clothes and ask yourself if keeping them is worth it. 

Filling your closet with clothes that fit and flatter your body as it is today is empowering. You deserve a wardrobe that feels good to wear, no matter your size, so focus on what fits now rather than keeping items “just in case.” 

3. Is It Comfortable to Wear? 

If you have an itchy sweater or a blouse that you’re constantly tugging at, it may be time to let it go. Clothes should make you feel as good as they look, both in style and comfort. For example, if you own a top you love the look of but hate the feel of, it’s time to move on. 

Keep only the items that are comfortable and practical for everyday wear. When your closet is filled with pieces that feel good to wear, you’ll look forward to getting dressed each day instead of dreading it. 

4. Does It Match Other Items in Your Wardrobe? 

One of the simplest ways to keep a versatile and functional closet is to ask: Does this item match other pieces I own? That bold-patterned top you bought on sale but never wore because it doesn’t match anything is taking up valuable space. 

When you focus on keeping versatile items that can mix and match with each other, you’re building a wardrobe that’s easy to navigate and practical. Think of it as creating your own capsule wardrobe, a collection of clothes that can be combined in multiple ways for various outfits. 

5. Do You Feel Confident When Wearing It? 

Finally, this might be the most important question of all: Do you feel confident in this piece of clothing? Clothes should make you feel great about yourself. If you put on something and don’t feel like the best version of yourself, it might be time to let it go. 

Confidence is key in every outfit you wear. When you only keep items that make you feel amazing, you’re not just curating a wardrobe—you’re building a collection of clothes that empower you each day. 

Declutter with Confidence and Create a Wardrobe That Serves You 

Decluttering your closet is about more than just reducing what you own; it’s about creating a space that reflects and supports you. By asking these five questions—Is it in good condition? Does it fit? Is it comfortable? Does it match other items? Does it make you feel confident?—you’ll be well on your way to curating a wardrobe that brings you joy and confidence. 

If you’re looking for more help on decluttering, download my “Essentials Checklist” for only $2.99. It’s packed with room-by-room checklists, not just for your closet but for every area of your home. Purchase Rita’s Decluttering Workbook today and start decluttering with confidence. 

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