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Downsize Your Decor: Simplify for a Breezy Summer Home

As the days grow longer and the temperatures rise, heavy, cluttered spaces can start to feel stifling. Simplifying your home’s decor for the summer months doesn’t just look better—it feels better, too. 
Creating a lighter, airier environment is one of the easiest ways to refresh your space without a major renovation. 

Here’s how to downsize your decor and welcome a season of ease and relaxation. 

Start with a Seasonal Swap 

The fastest way to make your home feel summer-ready is to rotate out cold-weather decor. 

Store heavy blankets, dark throw pillows, and velvet or wool textiles. Bring in lighter fabrics like linen, cotton, and breezy muslin. Swap heavy drapes for sheer curtains to let in more natural light. 

You don’t need to buy new items—just editing and rotating what you already have can dramatically shift the mood. 

Edit Surfaces for a Cleaner Look 

Tables, shelves, and counters often gather extra decor over time. 

Remove unnecessary vases, picture frames, and knickknacks. Keep only a few pieces you truly love and that feel seasonally appropriate. Create breathing room between objects to make each one stand out. 

A few carefully chosen accents will make your space feel intentional, not cluttered. 

Choose a Summer Color Palette 

Refreshing your color scheme instantly changes your home’s energy. 

Think crisp whites, soft neutrals, ocean blues, and garden greens. Add pops of color with lightweight throws, fresh flowers, or simple wall art. Stick to two or three complementary shades for a cohesive, calming feel. 

Color psychology is real—and surrounding yourself with lighter hues can boost your mood through the warmer months. 

Declutter Your Outdoor Spaces Too 

Summer living often extends outdoors, so don’t forget patios, porches, and decks! 

Remove broken pots, rusted furniture, and faded decor. Pressure wash surfaces to remove winter grime. Set up simple zones: dining, lounging, and gardening. 

A clutter-free outdoor area invites more spontaneous cookouts, quiet reading mornings, and evenings under the stars. 

Need a checklist to guide you? Our Rita’s Essential Checklists Workbook includes step-by-step breakdowns for tackling indoor and outdoor spaces with ease. 

Embrace a Minimalist Summer Mindset 

Summer is about freedom, relaxation, and easy living—and your home should reflect that. 
By simplifying your decor, you’ll: 

Spend less time cleaning and maintaining. Feel calmer and more energized in your space. Have room to truly enjoy impromptu gatherings, hobbies, and family time. 

For quick, motivating ideas every week, check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series on YouTube! 

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Sentimental Clutter: The Battle Between Your Heart and Your Head

You think you’re finally ready to tackle those sentimental items that have been sitting in boxes in your basement for months—maybe even years. But the moment you lift the lid on that first box, the battle between your heart and your head begins.

Your eyes fill with tears. Right on top? Grandma’s favorite things.

Your heart whispers,
“I can’t let go of this—Grandma loved it.”

Your head argues,
“You need to declutter. You have no room for all this stuff!”

Sound familiar?

We’ve all experienced this tug-of-war.
You’re stuck between what you feel and what you know.
Your heart is full of emotion, memories, and meaning.
Your head is trying to be practical and logical.

That’s why deciding what to keep—and what to let go—can feel so overwhelming when it comes to sentimental clutter.

You might find yourself:

Second-guessing every decisionMaking little or no progress because it’s too emotionally draining

But stay with me, because in just a few minutes, I’ll show you how to create a win-win situation. You’ll learn how to let go of sentimental items while preserving the memories, without guilt!

❤️ We All Have Those Things We Just Can’t Imagine Parting With…Mom’s favorite rocking chair that she rocked her babies—and grandbabies—in.Grandpa’s old toolbox that fixed nearly everything in the house.Dad’s gardening tools he used to grow food for the family.

These items evoke strong memories. They feel like connections to the people we love. Discarding them can feel like losing a part of yourself.

It’s no wonder the emotions surrounding these objects slow down the decluttering process.

Your emotional side says,
“Keep it!”
Your practical side says,
“Let it go and move on.”

And yeah… that hurts.

But here’s the good news: You can overcome that inner conflict and finally get unstuck.

My Top 5 Strategies to Help You Declutter Sentimental Items (Without the Guilt)1.    Acknowledge Your Feelings

Don’t hide or suppress them.

Let yourself feel the sadness, the nostalgia, even the guilt.Understand that your memories are attached to the object, but they don’t live in the object.Your memories live in you.

This balance of heart and head will help you move forward.

2.    Take Your Time… But Decide to DecideBe intentional. Set boundaries about what you’ll keep, repurpose, or let go of.Donate thoughtfully. A family just starting out or facing hardship might cherish what you no longer need.Focus on the benefits of decluttering:Less stressMore spaceMore time and energyKeep reminding yourself why you started.3.    Ask the Right Questions

As you sort through sentimental items, pause and ask:

Is holding on to this helping… or causing stress?Does this item still serve a purpose in my life?Is it useful? Meaningful? Or just there?4.    Practice Self-Compassion

Give yourself closure:

Use the item one last time if it helps you say goodbye.Thank it for its meaning and role in your life.Then—release it.

(Yes, even Mom’s rocker or Dad’s garden gloves.)

5.    Bonus: My Heartfelt Guide to Preserving Memories Without the Clutter

Here’s how to let go without losing what matters most:

✨ Set boundaries.
Limit yourself to keeping only a few of the most meaningful items in each category.
(Examples: kids’ artwork, heirloom jewelry, clothing, toys.)

📦 Create a memory box.
Store your most special items in a labeled box—things you can return to when you need a smile.
(Example: Grandma’s rosary, a handwritten card.)

♻️ Upcycle sentimental items.
Give them new life:

Turn Dad’s shirts into a memory quilt.Make a shadow box from your child’s baby items.

🏡 Display, use, and enjoy.
Don’t hide your memories in boxes!
Display Mom’s vase and fill it with fresh flowers every week—honoring her garden-loving spirit.

📸 Host a “family photo party.”
After a big family dinner (like Thanksgiving), pass around old photos.
Let guests take home their favorites and share stories that bring those moments to life again.

🖋️ A Personal Story: Our Scanning Party

Our mom was a letter writer—a beautiful one. Whenever we traveled abroad, she’d send our family 10- to 12-page handwritten letters full of vivid detail.

When I was decluttering my large home and preparing to move to a much smaller apartment, I discovered several boxes of those letters I’d saved over the years.

So, my sisters and I had a scanning party.

We laughed. We cried. We digitized those beautiful letters—preserving them forever and passing them on to our children and grandchildren.

🧹 Closing a Chapter

Letting go of sentimental clutter is hard.
But once you do, the relief is real.

You’ve faced the battle between heart and head—and you’ve made peace with it.
You’ve honored your memories and your space.

Now, you’re free to live more fully, with more clarity and joy.

📘 Ready to Go Deeper?

Download our full guide:
“Lose the Clutter, Keep the Memories: A 5-Step Guide”
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Digital Decluttering 101: Clear Your Tech, Clear Your Mind

 

When we think about clutter, we often picture overflowing closets and messy garages. But in today’s world, digital clutter can weigh just as heavily on your mind—and summer is the perfect time to clear it out. Whether you’re planning summer travel, hosting friends, or just craving less stress, simplifying your digital life can free up energy for what truly matters. 

Here’s your easy guide to a digital fresh start. 

Start With Your Inbox 

A cluttered inbox is a major source of hidden stress. 

Unsubscribe from promotional emails you never open. Create folders for important categories like travel, work, or personal finance. Archive or delete anything older than six months that you no longer need. 

Challenge yourself to get to “Inbox Zero” before Memorial Day weekend! 

Organize Photos Before Summer Trips 

Nothing clutters your devices faster than endless photos and videos. 

Delete duplicates and blurry shots. Organize favorites into albums like “Family Trips” or “Best of 2025.” Back up your photos to a cloud service or external drive for peace of mind. 

Tip: Working through your camera roll can be overwhelming. Try tackling just one month of photos at a time—Rita’s system in the Essential Checklists Workbook offers bite-sized tasks to make it easier. 

Declutter Your Apps 

Too many apps slow your phone and crowd your mind. 

Delete anything you haven’t used in the last 90 days. Group similar apps into folders (like “Travel” or “Health”). Turn off unnecessary notifications to minimize distractions. 

Simplifying your home screen makes finding what you need faster and reduces decision fatigue. 

Refresh Your Social Media 

Social media can become digital noise if you’re not intentional. 

Unfollow accounts that don’t inspire or add value. Turn off notifications for non-essential apps. Set time limits for daily use to protect your focus. 

Reclaim your time by curating a feed that lifts you up. 

Need weekly motivation? Follow Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series for quick, actionable tips you can implement in just minutes a day! 

Clean Up Your Computer 

Your laptop deserves a refresh too. 

Organize your desktop and delete random downloads. Create folders for important projects, receipts, or household files. Run a disk cleanup or storage management tool to free up space. 

Summer is a great time to archive older work and prepare for a new season of projects and activities. 

Lighten Your Digital Life Before Summer Adventures 

Imagine heading into summer with a clean, calm digital world. 
You’ll travel lighter (literally and mentally), stay more present with family and friends, and avoid last-minute tech frustrations. Plus, you’ll enjoy the clarity that comes from aligning your digital life with your real-world goals. 

Just a little digital decluttering can go a long way toward making summer 2025 your easiest, happiest season yet. 

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Declutter Backwards: The Smartest, Fastest, and Easiest Way to Declutter

By Rita Wilkins

You spent an entire weekend decluttering and organizing your garage. But less than a week later—bam! Clutter has already started creeping back in, leaving you frustrated and wondering if all that effort was wasted. Ugh!

Is it time to think differently about how you declutter? Maybe it’s time for an out-of-the-box approach—one that’s faster, easier, and smarter. A way that takes far less time and still gets the job done beautifully.

If that sounds like your kind of magic, listen up.

Learn How to Declutter Backwards. Yep, Backwards!

This is the exact opposite of traditional decluttering. It’s quick, efficient, and a huge time- and energy-saver because…

It’s about what to KEEP, rather than what to GET RID OF.

That one simple, yet mind-blowing, mindset shift flips the whole experience on its head—turning decluttering into a positive, not a negative.

✨ It takes less time
✨ Reduces overwhelm and decision fatigue
✨ Minimizes emotion and drama

So why is backward decluttering so effective?

When you start by identifying your essentials—the things you truly need, love, and use—you empower yourself to take control of your clutter. It becomes much easier (and quicker!) to recognize what doesn’t serve you.

It creates a simpler framework for those who struggle to let go.

Once you’ve chosen what to keep, the rest becomes obvious.

You gain control and discipline over things you’ve held onto for years—especially those with emotional weight.

Think of it this way:
If you’re decluttering your closet, isn’t it easier to start by picking out the clothes you always wear—the ones that make you feel fabulous every single time?

Exactly.

Why Try the Backward Decluttering Method?

Let’s face it: most people struggle with decluttering. These are the top two challenges:

1. Not knowing where to start.
Shifting your focus to what you want to keep gives you a sense of direction and momentum. You see results fast—and that’s motivating.

2. Not being able to decide.
The sheer volume can be paralyzing. But deciding what to keep helps you stay calm, clear, and focused.

How to Declutter Backwards

Let’s test this out—starting with your closet.

Step One: The Keepers

Quickly scan your closet and pull out your essentials.

What good-quality basics do you wear all the time?
(Think: black pants, favorite jeans, a perfect-fit blouse.)What pieces do you love because they make you feel amazing?

Set those aside. Those are your KEEPERS.

Step Two: The Losers

Now, go through what’s left.
Sort into four piles:

DonateDiscardSellCan’t decideStep Three: The Maybes

Take a second look at your Can’t Decide pile.
Do another quick screen—keep, donate, sell, or toss.

Still unsure? Pop them in a “Maybe” box for 30 days.
Label it. Mark your calendar. No peeking!

Step Four: Time to Decide

On Day 30, open your Maybe Box and go through each item.
Make a final decision: Keep, donate, sell, or discard.

⚠️ A word of caution: Don’t get stuck on “just in case” or “someday” items.
Decide to decide.

Step Five: Day 29 Closet Review

Before opening that Maybe Box, review how your decluttered closet is working for you.

Ask yourself:

Have you missed anything?
Example: a pair of dressy black pants?If yes, you might find it in the box.If not, give yourself permission to buy a new, high-quality replacement.Did you edit enough?
Still too many white tops or yoga pants?
Time to prune again. Donate, sell, or discard.Still haven’t worn it?
If it’s been 29 days and you haven’t touched it… it’s probably time to let it go.

Ask: Why am I still keeping this?
If your answer starts with “someday…”—you know what to do.

Step Six: Decision Day

It’s Day 30. Open the box.
Each item: Keeper or Loser?

No more maybes.
Keep. Donate. Sell. Discard.

So, What Did You Think?

If you followed along with me on this Backward Decluttering Challenge—wasn’t it easier? Faster? Kinder to your time and energy?

If you haven’t tried it yet, let me know when you do! I’d love to hear from you.

Let’s be real: whether you like it or not, clutter will try to sneak back in.
But now, you’ve got a powerful, game-changing solution. So why not take control and get it done—with less stress and more success?

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Summer Reset: 7 Decluttering Projects to Tackle Before Memorial Day

Summer is just around the corner—and the last thing you want is clutter holding you back from a season of easy hosting, travel, and relaxation. A quick, focused decluttering sprint in May can reset your home’s energy and set you up for a lighter, more joyful summer. 

Not sure where to start? We’ve got you covered with seven high-impact projects that will make a huge difference fast. 

1. Tidy the Entryway 

Your entryway sets the tone for your whole home. 

Clear out winter boots, heavy jackets, and cold-weather accessories. Add a stylish, simple basket for grab-and-go summer essentials like sunscreen and sunglasses. 2. Edit Your Kitchen 

Summer calls for lighter meals and fresh produce. 

Declutter kitchen gadgets you haven’t used in the last year. Reorganize pantry and fridge spaces for fresh foods and quick meal prep. 3. Refresh the Guest Room 

Expecting visitors? Make your guest space welcoming. 

Remove off-season storage. Refresh linens and declutter surfaces for a hotel-like feel. 4. Streamline Outdoor Spaces 

Patios, porches, and backyards are your summer stage. 

Clear broken planters, worn furniture, and unused gear. Create zones for dining, lounging, and playing. 5. Lighten Your Living Room 

Make your main living spaces feel breezy. 

Remove heavy decor, thick rugs, and dark accessories. Add plants, light throws, and bright, airy textures. 

Need help staying focused? Our Rita’s Essential Checklists Workbook offers project-by-project breakdowns you can work through at your own pace. 

6. Simplify Bathrooms 

Get bathrooms guest-ready without the stress. 

Toss expired products and old towels. Organize open shelves with minimal, functional items only. 7. Prep Travel Essentials 

Summer trips are coming fast—don’t wait to scramble. 

Declutter travel gear like duffels, toiletries, and chargers now. Pack a “ready-to-go” travel drawer or shelf for easy departures. Make Decluttering Part of Your Summer Kickoff 

Decluttering isn’t just about cleaning—it’s about creating a home that invites freedom, ease, and fun. Just a few hours spent on these projects will help you kick off summer feeling energized and refreshed. 

For bite-sized weekly projects, follow along with Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series and stay motivated all season long. 

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Can You Survive 30 Days Without Shopping? A 30-Day No-Spend Challenge

Did you know that one of the most effective ways to curb your spending and start saving more is by committing to a 30-day no-spend challenge?

This challenge has gone viral—and for good reason! Who wouldn’t want to stash away some extra cash for a dream vacation, a home down payment, or a little cushion for retirement?

If you’ve never tried it before, I hope you’ll join me in committing to spend only on essentials for the next 30 days.
Yes, that means no late-night Amazon scrolling, no “just browsing” at Target, and no impulse buys—you know the ones!

At first, it might sound a little intimidating… or just plain boring. But here’s the twist: it’s more fun than you think, and it’s absolutely worth it.
This challenge helps you become intentional with your spending and reveals just how much you can truly live without.

What a 30-Day No-Spend Challenge Can Teach You:How much money you spend unnecessarily on little things like coffee, takeout, and snacksHow to avoid impulse purchasesHow to save more by spending lessHow to reach your financial goals fasterHow to enjoy life without constantly spending money

Think of it as a financial reset button—a chance to take control, get back on track, and feel empowered.

Benefits of a 30-Day No-Spend Challenge:Examine your spending habitsEliminate impulse buyingReduce emotional spending and retail therapyPractice contentment with what you already haveTake back control of your financesReady for the Challenge? Here’s How to Start:Know Your Why
“Why” is this challenge important to you? What’s your goal—paying off debt, saving for a trip, or simply spending more mindfully?Mark Your Calendar
Choose your start date. Track your progress daily and note your spending habits.Get an Accountability Buddy
Share your goal with a friend and invite them to join. Cheer each other on!Write It Down
Journal your thoughts and insights as you go. You’ll be surprised by what you learn about yourself and your habits.Tips for Success:Use What You Have: Shop your own closet, pantry, and bookshelves first.Plan Meals Ahead: Prep and freeze meals to avoid last-minute temptations.Find Free Fun: Go for walks, hikes, host a game night, or enjoy a picnic.Replace Retail Therapy: Try journaling, exercising, or calling a friend.Stop “Saving” by Spending: Those “Buy 3, Get 1 Free” deals still cost money.Plug the Leaks: Cancel unused subscriptions or memberships.Avoid Temptation Zones: Steer clear of your favorite stores.Delete Shopping Apps: Out of sight, out of mind.Limit Eating Out: Cook more, deliver less.Watch Credit Card Use: Stick to a cash or debit system if possible.Redefine Socializing: Instead of dining out, host a meal at home.Minimalism in Action

This challenge is a gateway to minimalist living—a life of abundance through simplicity.

Here’s what you’ll be practicing:

Mindful Consumption – Pause and ask: “Do I really need this?”Decluttering – Clear out what no longer serves you.Prioritizing Needs – Separate the “wants” from the “must-haves.”Valuing Experiences Over Stuff – People and memories > possessionsFinancial Intentionality – A plan = peace of mind.

You’ve got this—and I’m with you every step of the way.

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Empty Nest, Fresh Start: How to Reclaim Your Space with Purpose

When the last child leaves home, it’s natural to feel a mix of emotions—pride, nostalgia, and maybe even a bit of loss. But it’s also an incredible opportunity. An empty nest offers the perfect moment to declutter with intention and breathe new life into your home. Instead of letting unused spaces become storage rooms, you can create an environment that supports the life you’re stepping into next. 

If you’re ready to turn the page, we’ll show you how to approach this transition with purpose and heart. 

Honor the Past While Creating Your Future 

Decluttering after your kids move out doesn’t mean erasing memories—it means making space for new ones. 

Start by identifying sentimental items that truly matter. Create a curated memory box for each child that can be stored neatly or passed along. Photograph larger items you’re ready to release but want to remember. 

By thoughtfully selecting what stays, you honor the journey without carrying unnecessary clutter into the next chapter. 

Tip: If you feel overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Our Rita’s Essential Checklists Workbook is a powerful tool that simplifies decision-making during emotional transitions. 

Reimagine Every Room with Intention 

Now is your chance to rethink how every room serves you: 

Turn a spare bedroom into a craft studio, home office, or guest retreat. Convert a large playroom into a yoga space or reading nook. Open up living spaces by removing heavy, outdated furniture. 

Downsizing within your home isn’t about making things smaller—it’s about making them more yours. 

Looking for inspiration? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series on YouTube for quick, motivating ideas you can implement in just minutes a day! 

Simplify to Invite Joy and Ease 

The goal of post-empty-nest decluttering isn’t just to make your home look better—it’s to make your life feel lighter. 
A decluttered home offers: 

Easier maintenance and cleaning. More welcoming spaces for friends, family, and hobbies. A clear reflection of who you are today, not who you were yesterday. 

Give yourself permission to prioritize comfort, beauty, and simplicity. This is your space to design with freedom. 

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From Clutter Creep to Clutter Chaos: Is Clutter Taking Over Your Life?

When do you really know clutter has become a problem in your life?

Is it the moment you walk through the door and feel that wave of dread?

Countertops covered in everything from last night’s dinner to unopened mail and abandoned homeworkA sink full of dirty dishesA mountain of laundry creeping across your bedroom floor

It’s no longer just one overstuffed closet…
Now it’s all the closets, drawers, cabinets—and maybe even your garage.

How did it get this bad? And when?

If this strikes a chord with you, stay with me. Because in this blog, I’m going to help you:

Identify how clutter built up to this breaking pointRecognize the impact it’s having on your quality of lifeAddress it head-on so you can discover the therapeutic benefits of a peaceful, organized homePut practical systems in place to prevent clutter from taking over againHow Did Your Clutter Get This Bad?

It’s hard to admit that clutter is out of control. But you know you’ve crossed the line when your home becomes a source of constant stress instead of the sanctuary it once was.

Acknowledging the problem is the first big step to conquering it.

Let’s look at how clutter typically sneaks in and sets up camp…

3 Major Causes of Clutter

1. Bad habits and lack of systems
Staying organized isn’t magic—it’s having clear systems and routines in place.
Think: a home for everything, and everything in its home.

When you know where things go and where to find them, clutter doesn’t stand a chance.

2. Difficulty letting go of stuff
This one’s deeply emotional. Maybe you tell yourself:

“I might need this someday.”“It’s sentimental.”“I feel guilty giving it away.”

So you hold on to clothes that no longer fit, books you’ve never read, heirlooms you inherited bu don’t even like. Sound familiar?

3. Constantly bringing more in
Without boundaries on what enters your home—or your online cart—it’s easy to become overwhelmed.
Impulse buying, emotional spending, or shopping without intention leads to one thing: more clutter.

The Impact of Clutter

If your clutter is out of control, you’re likely already feeling its effects:

1. Physical and mental well-being
Visual chaos increases stress, anxiety, and decision fatigue. Clutter can even create tripping hazards or blocked pathways—yes, it can be dangerous.

2. Emotional health
A cluttered environment often brings guilt, shame, or embarrassment, and sometimes even leads to social withdrawal.

3. Relationships
Too much stuff can create tension in the home, especially when clutter “thresholds” differ.
One person might be clutter-averse. The other? Clutter-blind. And conflict is inevitable.

Addressing Clutter Chaos Head-On

When the mess feels massive, it’s hard to know where—or how—to start. But the only way out is through.

Here’s how to take back control:

1. Know WHY you want to declutter

What’s your real reason?

So you don’t argue about the mess anymoreSo your home feels peaceful and welcomingSo you stop wasting time looking for things

Challenge: Write down your #1 reason—and keep it where you can see it every day.

2. Understand that decluttering is a journey, not a one-time fixYes, it can be physically and emotionally exhausting—but you can do this.It requires new habits, new systems, and stronger boundaries moving forward.3. Create a plan—and stick to it

Consistency is everything. Even if you hit a rough patch, don’t stop. Progress over perfection.

4. Don’t overwhelm yourself—start small

Small wins fuel big change. Start with just one shelf or drawer in your most frustrating area.

Challenge: What’s the one space that bugs you the most?
Tackle a tiny part of it today—and celebrate that first win.

Keep the Clutter from Coming Back

Let’s make sure your home stays the peaceful place you want it to be.

1. Resist bringing more inNotice your shopping triggers—especially emotional or impulsive onesPause before buying: Do I need it? Will I use it? Do I already own something similar?2. Use the “One In, One Out” rule

Buy something new? Then let one item go. Simple. Effective. Game-changing.

3. Create a nightly 5-minute reset ritual

Before bed, return items to where they belong. You’ll sleep better and wake up more at peace.

4. Keep a donation box handy

Put one in a closet, garage, or laundry room. Whenever you find something you don’t use, toss it in the box.
Old towels, clothes, random gadgets—it all adds up.

5. Get others involved

Decluttering can be fun with friends or family. Make it a weekly team effort.
Pick one area, sort it together, and keep each other accountable.

Final Thoughts

If you’ve realized that clutter is taking over your life and you’ve made the decision to take back control—congratulations. That’s a powerful step toward creating a home that supports your well-being, energy, and happiness.

Less clutter = more clarity, freedom, and room for the life you actually want to live.

Let’s make space—for peace, for presence, for joy.
You’ve got this. And I’m cheering you on every step of the way.

Want help staying motivated? Grab one of my decluttering workbooks from the Minimalist Essentials Collection—you’ll find step-by-step tools that take the overwhelm out of the equation.

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Long-Term Minimalism: A Custom Plan for Your Clutter Style

Hi, I’m Rita Wilkins, the Downsizing Designer, and welcome to this week’s blog! 

So far this month, we’ve explored how different clutter personalities shape our habits and how minimalism can be personalized to fit your lifestyle. But now comes the question: How do you make minimalism stick for the long haul? 

The answer isn’t in stricter rules or decluttering more often. It’s about building a custom minimalist plan that matches your unique clutter style—so that your systems naturally support how you live, think, and feel. 

Let’s look at how to create a long-term minimalist lifestyle based on your clutter tendencies, and how to make it both sustainable and freeing. 

The Problem with Generic Decluttering Advice 

We’ve all seen the headlines: 

“Own just 100 things.” 
“Toss everything that doesn’t spark joy.” 
“Follow this 30-day minimalist challenge.” 

These can be fun starting points—but they’re not built for you. Real, lasting change comes from understanding the patterns that cause clutter to return—and putting tailored systems in place to prevent that. 

Here’s how to take what you’ve learned about your clutter personality and build a minimalist lifestyle you can actually live with—for years to come. 

1. If You’re the Sentimental Keeper 

Clutter Challenge: Letting go of emotional or memory-based items 

Long-Term Strategy: 
✔ Create a “Legacy Box” for each family member or life stage 
✔ Set a boundary: If a memory item doesn’t fit in the box, it gets re-evaluated 
✔ Take photos of sentimental items you don’t use, and create a digital album 
✔ Revisit the box once a year to ensure everything still holds emotional value 

2. If You’re the Aspirational Accumulator 

Clutter Challenge: Holding onto items tied to who you hope to be (not who you are now) 

Long-Term Strategy: 
✔ Do a seasonal reality check—ask, Do I still want to pursue this goal? 
✔ Create a “current self” zone and a small “someday box” 
✔ Schedule quarterly decluttering check-ins to adjust for life changes 
✔ Reframe success: It’s not about owning the right tools, but actually using them 

3. If You’re the Just-in-Case Keeper 

Clutter Challenge: Keeping backups, duplicates, or things “just in case” 

Long-Term Strategy: 
✔ Set space-based limits (one drawer for tools, one shelf for backups) 
✔ Use the 20/20 rule: If you can replace it in under 20 minutes for under $20, let it go 
✔ Keep one high-quality version of essentials, and donate or recycle the rest 
✔ Track which backups you never use—then confidently reduce them 

4. If You’re the Overwhelmed Avoider 

Clutter Challenge: Feeling paralyzed by where to start or how to keep going 

Long-Term Strategy: 
✔ Create a simple daily reset routine—5 minutes before bed to tidy surfaces 
✔ Break tasks into bite-sized zones (one shelf, one drawer, one pile) 
✔ Set recurring reminders for a monthly mini-declutter 
✔ Give yourself grace—progress, not perfection, is the goal 

5. If You’re the High-Energy Doer 

Clutter Challenge: Bringing in clutter faster than you can organize it 

Long-Term Strategy: 
✔ Adopt a “One In, One Out” rule for new purchases 
✔ Keep a donation box by the door to make offloading easy and frequent 
✔ Use minimalist systems (like capsule wardrobes or simplified meal planning) 
✔ Delegate organization where you can—outsourcing isn’t failure, it’s strategy 

Your Personalized Minimalist Plan 

To make minimalism sustainable: 

Know your clutter style Identify your specific challenges Design routines that match your personality Make adjustments with each life season Revisit your why—minimalism is about creating space for what truly matters 

Minimalism doesn’t require perfection. It requires intention. And when your systems are built around you, you’ll find that maintaining a clutter-free life becomes second nature—not another to-do list. 

Want a Guided Plan You Can Stick To? 

My Essential Checklists Workbook is built for real life. 

✅ Designed for all clutter styles 
✅ Room-by-room guidance with flexibility 
✅ Built-in trackers and space for your personal goals 

Purchase Rita’s Essential Checklists Workbook today and begin building a minimalist life that truly fits you. 

Got 5 minutes? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series, where I share five quick tips in just five minutes on decluttering and simplifying your life. 

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Emotional Decluttering: How to Break Free from the Stuff That Messes with Your Mind

Mental clutter is a sneaky saboteur. It’s not just about being busy or overwhelmed. It’s the constant stream of negative thoughts, worries, and distractions that swirl in our minds, clouding our judgment and muddying our peace.

Like physical clutter, this mental mess piles up over time. It weighs us down, dulls our focus, and slows our productivity. If you’ve hit a wall in your decluttering journey, emotional clutter might be the unseen roadblock.

Before you spend another hour tidying up your closets, let’s clear the real mess—the one that lives between your ears.

You might be stuck in loops of self-doubt or emotional noise that sound like:

“There’s no way I can do this. It’s just too overwhelming.”
“There are too many things to let go of. I just can’t decide.”
“I wish Mom and Dad had decluttered before they passed—now we’re left with this mess.”
“I’ve tried everything. Nothing works.”
“I’m afraid I’ll regret letting this go.”

Feel that? Each one of these thoughts drains your energy like a slow leak in a tire.

And when our minds are cluttered, no wonder progress feels impossible.

Often, we try to cope by doing more—multitasking, rushing, filling every moment to the brim. But these quick fixes often backfire, leaving us more stressed, more scattered.

That’s why we start here: with the mind. The rest will follow.

5 Powerful Strategies to Break Free from Emotional Clutter1.  Awareness: Call It What It Is

Acknowledge that your thoughts and feelings may be holding you hostage. Name them. See them. Question them.

Exercise:
Imagine stepping outside yourself. Observe your thoughts from a distance.
Challenge their truth.
Replace them with words that uplift and empower.
Remember: You are not your thoughts. You are the awareness behind them.

2.  Clarity: What’s Really Going On?

Journaling is a mirror for the soul. It clears the fog and reveals the roots of emotional clutter.

Benefits:
• Process emotions with honesty.
• Release built-up tension.
• Discover clarity and a new way to see your inner world.

Exercise:
Reframe self-talk. Rewrite the inner dialogue with words that give you peace, not panic.

3.  Boundaries: Learn to Say “No”

Every “yes” to something that drains you is a “no” to your well-being.

Exercise:
Grab your calendar. Ruthlessly declutter it.
Say “no” to what no longer serves.
Say “yes” to your own energy and time.

4.  Self-Care & Self-Compassion: Give Yourself a Break

Sometimes the best way to move forward is to pause.

Exercise:
Choose one thing each day to restore your spirit:
• Play with your grandkids
• Read a chapter of your favorite book
• Take a long, soulful walk
Small moments. Big impact.

5.  Focus: Take Another Kind of Break

The digital world is loud. Unplug to reclaim your inner stillness.

Exercise:
Set a timer: 15 minutes on social media every six hours.
Then slowly cut back.
Notice how silence makes space for insight.

Breaking free from emotional clutter is nothing short of liberation. It’s a reset for your mind, your heart, your whole being.

Letting go of toxic thoughts and mental noise isn’t just helpful—it’s revolutionary. It takes courage, consistency, and care. But once you feel the freedom on the other side, there’s no going back.

Feel that shift? That lightness? That clarity?
Now you’re ready to tackle the physical clutter.

Let your mind be the first room you tidy. The rest will follow like a song.

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