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From Overwhelmed to Organized: Visual Calm Starts With Smart Containment

You can’t always declutter your way out of chaos. 

Sometimes, it’s not about having too much stuff—it’s about having too little containment. 

Smart containment is the often-overlooked secret to a calm, beautiful, and functional home. It bridges the gap between visual overwhelm and visual order—especially for the areas of life that can’t be totally “minimal.” 

This week, we’re exploring how simple containment strategies help Martin think clearly, give Grace peace of mind, and allow Jess to express her aesthetic without sacrificing sanity. 

If clutter is the storm, containment is the anchor. 

What Is Smart Containment? 

Containment isn’t just storage—it’s visual boundaries. 

It tells your eyes, your brain, and your nervous system: This belongs here. This is under control. 

From a tray on the counter to a labeled bin on a shelf, containment keeps categories tight, surfaces clear, and chaos at bay. 

The best containment systems are: 

Easy to access and reset Visually calming and cohesive Tailored to how you actually live 

Let’s break it down by personality—and room. 

For Martin: Containment = Mental Efficiency 

You love systems. You want to get in, get it done, and not waste energy. 

The problem? Even your systems can start to sprawl—especially when containers are mismatched, hard to access, or out of sync with your habits. 

Try this: 

Use matching bins or trays to signal clear zones. Label everything with simple, action-based words: “Pay,” “File,” “Read,” “Return.” Use vertical space to stack categories and minimize decision fatigue. 

Containment helps you move faster and think less. That’s efficiency. 

Need structure? The Essential Checklists Workbook includes step-by-step strategies for setting up zones that work. 

For Grace: Containment = Emotional Relief 

You want your home to feel calm, welcoming, and warm—not like a military operation. But when visual mess builds up, it stresses you out—and makes you feel like you’re failing. 

Containment gives you peace without perfection. 

Try this: 

Use soft baskets in shared spaces to gather loose items like blankets, books, or toys. Keep a catch-all tray on the entryway table for keys, sunglasses, and random items that need a home. Choose neutral containers that blend into your decor to keep the space feeling calm, not “organized.” 

Containment relieves emotional labor. You’re no longer chasing stuff from room to room. 

Tip: Build a “5-minute reset basket” in every high-use space. At the end of the day, toss in what’s out of place. Sort later—rest now. 

For Jess: Containment = Aesthetic Harmony 

You’re a visual thinker. You care about color, vibe, and flow. But when your stuff isn’t visually grouped, the room feels scattered—even when it’s “organized.” 

Smart containment helps you curate, not hide. 

Try this: 

Use baskets and bins that match your aesthetic—wicker, wire, clear acrylic, bold color, soft canvas. Corral creative supplies, accessories, or everyday tools into styled stations. Use trays or shallow boxes to frame groupings of items—books, candles, or art supplies—so they feel intentional, not random. 

When everything is styled within boundaries, your space looks like you, not like a catalog. 

Need quick wins? Watch Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series for bite-sized strategies that help you turn chaos into calm without losing your design joy. 

Containment in Action: Room-by-Room 

Entryway: One basket for mail. One for shoes. A tray for essentials. Done. 
Kitchen: Use bins inside drawers and pantries to group snacks, tools, or spices. 
Bathroom: A bin for backup products. One for daily routines. Small containers in drawers. 
Living Room: Closed baskets for toys, blankets, or remotes. One tray per surface. 
Office: Drawer inserts. File boxes. Charging stations with cord organizers. 
Bedroom: A lidded box on the dresser. Trays for jewelry. Under-bed bins for linens. 

Containment brings structure and visual peace. 

Smart Containment Isn’t Hiding—It’s Guiding 

When you contain your things, you’re not just storing them—you’re telling your space how to behave. You’re shaping how your environment communicates with your brain, your body, and your energy. 

Martin gets clarity. Grace gets calm. Jess gets cohesion. 

And you? You get a home that doesn’t just look better—but feels better too. 

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A Man and His Garage: From Resistance to Results

One Man’s Garage Clean-Out Story

The other day, I was walking through my neighborhood when I passed a man who had completely emptied out his garage. Every single item was now sitting in his driveway.

I stopped to chat for a few minutes and told him it reminded me of our dad doing the same thing years ago. Then I asked, “Do you mind if I ask what motivated you to do such a thorough clean-out?”

He laughed and said, “My wife.”
But then he shared two deeper, more personal reasons:

He wanted to build a workbench to teach his young grandson the woodworking skills he had learned from his own grandfather.He wanted to leave things in good shape so his kids wouldn’t have to deal with the mess someday.

Both were powerful motivators and thoughtful reasons to do a deep garage clean-out.

When I asked what would be hardest to let go of, he didn’t hesitate:

“Definitely some sentimental things—my dad’s rusty old tools, my first power drill. And so many things I’ve collected but haven’t used in years. I kept them thinking I’d use them “someday.” But I’ve made up my mind—it’s time to let go and pass them on to someone who’ll actually use them.”

I wished him luck and thanked him for the inspiration.

As I walked away, I thought of all the comments I’ve heard from my own community:

“Our garage is so full of clutter that there’s no room for our cars.”“It’s like a graveyard for gadgets, bolts, and boxes.”The most common one is, “How can I get my spouse to help clean out the garage?”

That conversation inspired me to write this blog, film a video, and create this 10-Step Garage Clean-Out Guide.

If nagging isn’t working—and let’s be honest, it rarely does—try this instead. Let it spark honest, non-confrontational conversations, and maybe even a little teamwork.

Rita’s 10-Step Garage Clean-Out Guide

This guide blends the inspiration (the why) with the action steps (the how) to motivate and guide your deep-dive garage transformation.

1. A Space to Build and Tinker Again

Inspiration: Rediscover the joy of woodworking, tinkering, or fixing things—just like you used to.
Action Steps:

Create a dedicated workshop zone. Clear out unrelated items.Organize tools by type. Use pegboards and labels for easy access.2. Make Room for What Matters Now

Inspiration: Let your garage reflect who you are today—not 20 years ago.
Action Steps:

Group items used in the last two years. Let go of the rest.Donate, sell, or discard anything you’re holding onto out of guilt or habit.3. Preserve Your Legacy

Inspiration: Would you want your loved ones to deal with this stuff when you’re gone?
Action Steps:

Label meaningful items with stories you want to pass down.Create a “legacy box” filled with select sentimental pieces.Release the rest: broken tools, duplicates, or “someday” projects.4. Choose Function Over Frustration

Inspiration: Imagine being able to find what you need in 10 seconds or less.
Action Steps:

Use clear bins, drawer dividers, and labels.Maximize vertical and overhead storage with hooks, racks, and magnetic strips.5. Be Proud of Your Space

Inspiration: Walk into your garage and feel proud—not embarrassed.
Action Steps:

Remove everything for a complete reset.Sort into “Keep,” “Donate,” “Discard” (optional: “Sell”).Deep clean. Repaint. Add lighting. Lay rubber tiles or flooring.6. Redesign the Space to Fit Your Life

Inspiration: If you’re not parking in there—what could it be?
A home gym, yoga studio, workshop, or grandkids’ playroom?
Action Steps:

Sketch a new layout and start making it real.7. Create a Stress-Free Zone

Inspiration: A clutter-free garage brings the same peace as a clutter-free home.
Action Steps:

Build a 15-minute reset into your daily routine.Add soft lighting and calming music.8. Stop the Dumping Ground Cycle

Inspiration: Your garage deserves purpose—not chaos.
Action Steps:

Create clearly labeled zones: tools, seasonal, sports, trash, etc.Add signage so the whole family can pitch in.9. Make It a Bonding Experience

Inspiration: Turn the clean-out into quality time with your spouse or kids.
Action Steps:

Schedule a garage clean-out day. Add music, pizza, and a small celebration.Give each person a section to declutter and own.10. Enjoy a Fresh Start

Inspiration: You don’t need to move to feel like you’ve started over.
Action Steps:

Block off a weekend.Begin with “The Big Toss.” Donate or trash anything broken or unused.Eliminate duplicates. Organize what remains.Celebrate the transformation—and your newfound freedom.💬 Final Thoughts

If it’s time to take back control of your garage—and your peace of mind—try my 10-Step Garage Clean-Out Guide.

Let it take you from resistance to results.
And when you’re done, I’d love to hear your story.

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Room-by-Room Decluttering: How Each Space Can Breathe Again

Decluttering isn’t a one-size-fits-all process—because no two rooms serve the same purpose. Some need to energize you. Others need to calm you. Every space in your home should support how you live, feel, and function. 

But clutter—especially visual clutter—blocks all of that. 

This week, we’re walking room-by-room to show how decluttering each space with intention can bring new energy, relief, and beauty into your everyday life. Whether you’re Martin craving clarity, Grace seeking peace, or Jess looking to reclaim your creative spark, you’ll find practical and visual strategies that help every corner of your home breathe again. 

Let’s reset your rooms—without the overwhelm. 

The Entryway: Design for Transition 

Your entryway is more than just a pass-through—it’s the energetic threshold of your home. If it’s chaotic, cluttered, or undefined, it sets a tone of stress before you even get your shoes off. 

For Martin: Add a tray for keys, a hook for your bag, and a basket for mail. Eliminate excess and make transitions effortless. 
For Grace: Create a soft landing with a small rug or plant. Let it feel like an invitation, not a to-do list. 
For Jess: Use one striking piece—art, mirror, or bowl—to give the space personality without crowding it. 

Quick Tip: If your entry is overwhelmed with clutter, the Essential Checklists Workbook gives you focused guidance to reset your home’s visual welcome. 

The Kitchen: Declutter for Flow and Function 

The kitchen is a daily work zone, and clutter here slows everything down—from cooking to conversation. 

For Martin: Limit countertops to three items max. Store appliances that aren’t used daily. Group cooking zones (prep, cook, clean). 
For Grace: Keep visible items beautiful and functional—like a fruit bowl or a favorite mug. Let the space reflect nourishment, not busyness. 
For Jess: Curate open shelving and fridge fronts. Color harmony and negative space make the kitchen feel lighter and more inspired. 

Start Here: Clear your kitchen counter entirely. Then add back one item at a time, based on purpose and presence. 

The Living Room: Reset for Connection 

The living room is where you relax, recharge, and connect. But clutter—especially on surfaces—creates a visual and emotional block. 

For Martin: Use furniture with storage. Baskets for remotes. Rules for what stays on the coffee table. 
For Grace: Choose decor that supports calm and connection—candles, books, photos—but limit them. Space around items matters. 
For Jess: Let your creativity shine with one expressive element—a bold pillow, colorful art, or a sculptural lamp. But balance it with space to breathe. 

Need structure? The Essential Checklists Workbook includes visual surface resets to bring back breathing room. 

The Bedroom: Clear Space for Rest 

This room is your sanctuary. Or at least—it should be. When bedrooms are filled with laundry piles, paper stacks, or under-bed chaos, your nervous system doesn’t get the message to relax. 

For Martin: Keep nightstands minimal—lamp, book, water. Store the rest out of sight. 
For Grace: Remove screens and reminders of work or chores. Add softness: a throw, a journal, or a calming scent. 
For Jess: Let your bedding and art speak. Keep color palettes and decor light, layered, and intentional—not busy. 

Nightstand challenge: Take 5 minutes today to remove anything from your nightstand that doesn’t help you rest. 

The Bathroom: Simplicity for Sanity 

Bathrooms are small but mighty. Visual clutter here causes stress, especially in rushed mornings. 

For Martin: Store daily items in a labeled drawer or bin. Use drawer dividers to keep categories clear. 
For Grace: Tidy products with intention. Keep only what you use, and use containers to group items with similar purpose. 
For Jess: Style a calming vignette—a plant, candle, or small framed quote. Then keep everything else minimal. 

Want to keep the energy light and focused? Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series offers quick walkthroughs to stay motivated in the smallest spaces. 

The Office or Creative Space: Clear for Clarity and Flow 

A cluttered workspace kills productivity and inspiration. 

For Martin: Create zones—focus zone (computer), tools zone (pens, chargers), and archive zone (files). Keep your work surface 80% clear. 
For Grace: Add comfort: a soft chair, natural light, or a calming object. Remove visual to-do lists from sight when not working. 
For Jess: Let color or texture energize one wall or corner—but make sure it doesn’t become overwhelming. Feature one creative element per project. 

Reset Strategy: End each day with a five-minute visual reset. Even just clearing your desk sets the tone for a smoother tomorrow. 

A Home That Breathes Feels Better to Live In 

Decluttering room by room isn’t just about tossing stuff—it’s about releasing visual pressure. A clear home helps your thoughts settle, your mood stabilize, and your energy return. 

With structure for Martin, serenity for Grace, and visual joy for Jess, your home becomes a reflection of who you are—and how you want to feel in every space. 

Let it breathe. 

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My Partner’s Clutter Is Killing Me: Merging Households

The Hidden Challenges and Heart-Centered Solutions

Moving in together should be a happy and exciting milestone—a fresh chapter in your lives. But too often, what begins with love and enthusiasm quickly spirals into a cluttered nightmare and a tug-of-war over stuff.

As soon as the boxes are unpacked, you might find that while you love your partner… you definitely don’t love all of their things.

Merging two households means doubling up on everything—two sofas, two vacuums, two toasters. Who needs two of everything? More importantly, whose stuff gets to stay?

Then come the unexpected emotional attachments:The old yard sale dresser they refuse to part with.The big, ugly sofa they claim is the most comfortable seat ever.The inherited china cabinet that you neither want nor have room for.

The truth is: when you merge households, you’re not just combining stuff. You’re combining histories, identities, and habits.

One of you might be a neat freak, while the other is a clutter magnet. And complaining only leads to arguments—because no one enjoys being nagged.

Now that the dust has settled and the boxes are (mostly) unpacked, you realize: your new home feels way too cluttered. Even though you both tried to pare down before the move, you admit you brought too much. Time to declutter—again.

But clutter isn’t the only issue. There are deeper, often hidden challenges at play—emotional, behavioral, and relational. If left unaddressed, they can erode connection instead of building the peaceful, loving home you envisioned.

Why Clutter Becomes a Major Issue When Merging HouseholdsSix Hidden Challenges & Five Heart-Centered SolutionsHidden Challenge #1: Clashing Clutter Thresholds

Challenge:
One partner has a high tolerance for mess—they don’t even see it.
The other gets overwhelmed by visual clutter and feels disrespected by disorganization.

Solution:
Designate three zones in your home that both partners agree to:

Clutter-Free Zone: No clutter allowed (e.g. master bedroom)Clutter-Neutral Zone: Some clutter is acceptable (e.g. family room)Clutter-Comfort Zone: Clutter is welcome (e.g. man cave or craft room)

This allows both people to feel comfortable and respected.

Hidden Challenge #2: Emotional Attachment to Stuff

Challenge:
“What stays, what goes?”
When emotions are tied to items, letting go becomes tough—and arguments often follow because space is limited.

Solution:

Get real about space: Measure your space and plan your layout to see what actually fits.Prioritize the best: Agree on keeping only items of highest quality or deepest significance. Donate, sell, or discard the rest.Use the “Honor It, Let It Go” Method:Take photos of items you’re releasing.Journal a short memory.Use or display it one last time, then let go.Create a memory shelf for smaller keepsakes you want to enjoy without cluttering your space.Hidden Challenge #3: Loss of Personal Space or Identity

Challenge:
Sharing space can trigger feelings of identity loss. Your home might not feel like you anymore. You miss privacy, quiet time, and the comfort of your own things.

Solution:

Talk openly about your need for space and solitude.Create a shared Pinterest or Houzz board to co-design your new aesthetic.Designate personal identity zones where each of you can reflect your own style—your personal domain for relaxation or hobbies. Include meaningful items, like Grandma’s rocker or a cherished piece of art.Hidden Challenge #4: Mismatched Habits and Lifestyles

Challenge:
You’re an early riser. They sleep in.
You crave calm. They crank up the music.
These lifestyle differences can create unexpected tension.

Solution:
Have honest conversations about your rhythms and routines. Be curious, not critical.
Find overlap and establish shared routines that bring you together:

Morning coffeeEvening walksYoga at sunsetWeekly game or karaoke nightHidden Challenge #5: Unspoken Expectations

Challenge:
Who does what? Who cooks? Who cleans?
Unspoken assumptions breed resentment and frustration.

Solution:

Speak up. Don’t assume your partner knows what you need.Create a task list of weekly and monthly responsibilities.Divide and conquer, then rotate or renegotiate as needed.Hold weekly check-ins focused on what’s working—not just what’s not.Hidden Challenge #6: Financial Differences

Challenge:
One partner is a spender, the other a saver.
Your financial values, habits, and histories may clash.

Solution:

Talk honestly about money. Discuss your individual habits, mindsets, and goals.Set a shared budget.Create a system for joint expenses while still allowing space for “mine, yours, and ours.”Respect each other’s values and find common ground.The Recipe for Successfully Merging Households

Blending lives is a journey—not a one-time event. Like any good recipe, it takes time to bake.

It takes:
❤️ Patience

❤️Trust
❤️ Compassion
❤️ Tolerance
❤️ Communication
❤️ Listening
❤️ Planning
❤️ And lots of love.

But with all of these, it is possible to create a happy, peaceful home together!

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Designing Space for What Matters: A Visual Decluttering Approach

Minimalism isn’t about having less. It’s about making space for more of what matters. 

Whether you’re someone who thrives on structure (Martin), lives by your values (Grace), or follows the energy of aesthetics and creativity (Jess), visual decluttering is one of the most powerful ways to reconnect your space to your purpose. 

This week, we’re not just talking about decluttering. We’re talking about designing. Shaping your home around what brings meaning, not just managing the mess. 

Here’s how a visual decluttering approach can elevate not just your space, but your experience of daily life. 

For Martin: Design for Efficiency, Not Just Cleanliness 

You want your space to work smarter. You don’t want to spend time cleaning more than once. You want systems. Flow. Clarity. 

That’s where visual zones come in. 

Visual decluttering isn’t just about clearing—it’s about creating zones that make sense at a glance: 

A focused desk setup with only the tools you use daily A kitchen counter with prep space, not permanent clutter A hallway drop zone that visually signals order, not overwhelm 

Your eyes scan your space constantly—even if you’re not aware of it. When every zone clearly reflects a function, your brain uses less energy figuring things out. That’s cognitive ease. That’s efficiency. 

Start with your desk or main workspace. Remove everything. Then replace only what you use every day. The Essential Checklists Workbook offers guided zone-building steps that pair function with visual calm. 

For Grace: Design for What You Value 

You’re not trying to impress anyone. You want your space to feel aligned—with your energy, your relationships, your season of life. 

Visual clutter can mute your values without you realizing it. 

Family photos get lost behind piles of unopened mail The kitchen where you cook with love becomes hard to enjoy when the counters are covered Your reading nook becomes a dumping ground instead of a sanctuary 

Visual decluttering lets you elevate what matters most. 

Try this: Walk through each room and choose one value you want that space to reflect. Then remove or relocate any visible items that don’t support it. 

In your living room, maybe it’s connection—so keep the coffee table clear and games accessible In your bedroom, maybe it’s rest—so remove screens, piles, and overstimulating decor In your kitchen, maybe it’s nourishment—so clear counter chaos and prep a “wellness zone” 

Let your values decide what stays visible. 

Want a companion to help walk room by room? The Essential Checklists Workbook was built for this. 

For Jess: Design for Energy and Vibe 

You’re drawn to beauty, mood, and the emotional pull of your space. You want it to feel right, not just function. 

But when there’s too much to look at, nothing gets the spotlight. 

Visual decluttering helps you create contrast and emphasis. It lets your favorite pieces breathe. 

Instead of stuffing every surface with candles, plants, or books, give each element room to shine. Use negative space to guide the eye. Let one wall breathe so another can pop. That’s not blank—that’s bold. 

Challenge yourself: Choose one area that feels “busy.” Clear it completely. Then layer back in only what you love, one item at a time. Observe how each change affects the energy. 

Need quick inspiration to play with scale, shape, and surface energy? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series for short, creative walkthroughs. 

A Visual Decluttering Framework That Serves All Three 

Here’s a process that hits all three personas in one powerful flow: 

See the space. 
Step back. What’s catching your eye? What’s creating friction? Name the purpose. 
What do you want this room (or corner) to do or feel like? Clear what competes. 
Remove items that don’t support that purpose—visually, emotionally, or functionally. Curate intentionally. 
Add back only what aligns. Choose colors, shapes, and textures that enhance the vibe and support the task. Maintain with rhythm. 
Build in a 5-minute end-of-day reset to keep the visual message clear. 

You’re not just decluttering. You’re designing your home to reflect your priorities, relationships, and season of life. 

Design Isn’t About More Stuff—It’s About More Alignment 

When you use visual decluttering to design your space for what matters, you create: 

Focus for Martin Harmony for Grace Creative momentum for Jess 

It’s not about stripping your home down to nothing. It’s about revealing what you actually care about—by removing what doesn’t belong in your line of sight. 

Let your home reflect your life—not your laundry. 

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Eco-Friendly Decluttering Made Easy: How to Declutter Without Harming the Environment

By Rita Wilkins

Let’s be honest– we’ve all been guilty of taking the easy way out when decluttering our homes by tossing stuff in the trash without a second thought about where it ends up.

But here’s the hard truth: our actions have consequences. And when it comes to decluttering, those consequences can be deeply harmful to the environment.

One of the biggest challenges we face when decluttering is the temptation to just throw things away. It’s quick, it’s easy, and it’s convenient.

But did you know that the average American generates about 4.5 pounds of trash every day? A substantial portion of that waste comes from our “out with the old” decluttering sessions. Most of it ends up in landfills, where it can take hundreds of years to decompose – releasing toxic gases and chemicals into the atmosphere in the process.

Whether you’re just beginning your decluttering journey or you’ve been at it for a while, this guide is for anyone who wants to declutter responsibly and sustainably – and make a positive impact on our planet.

https://youtube.com/watch?v=1rOOVunal... Problem: Good Intentions, Limited Know-How

Even if you want to do the right thing, it’s easy to get overwhelmed.

Maybe you’re not sure where to begin. Maybe you’re not aware of the many eco-friendly options available. Or maybe you haven’t yet seen just how powerful your choices can be.

Let’s change that.

Benefits of Eco-Friendly DeclutteringReduces Environmental Impact

By keeping items out of landfills, you help cut down on pollution and greenhouse gases.

Helps Others in Need

Donating or repurposing items gives them a second life and supports individuals or families who could use a helping hand.

Retrains Your Brain

When you repurpose or reuse, you begin to think differently about consumption – buying less, and buying more mindfully.

Eco-Friendly Decluttering OptionsDonate Responsibly

Giving gently used items to charity helps others and reduces waste. Instead of sending your stuff to the dump, give it a second act.

Upcycle Purposefully

Get creative! Repurpose items that would otherwise go to waste. Old T-shirts can become quilts. Glass jars become organizers. Turn trash into treasure.

Recycle Properly

Check your local recycling center’s guidelines. Items like electronics, batteries, metals, and plastics often require special handling.

Freecycle, Buy Nothing Groups, and Curbside Giveaways

Look for local “Buy Nothing” or Freecycle groups online. They offer free listings for everything from tools to baby gear. You can also simply place items at the curb with a “FREE” sign – surprisingly effective!

Sell What You Can

If you have the time and want to earn a little extra cash, try:

Online Platforms: Facebook Marketplace, eBay, CraigslistConsignment Shops: Great for clothing, jewelry, and furnitureGarage Sales: Classic and effective – just advertise locallyPass It On

Ask family and friends if they want or need anything you’re ready to part with. Just be sure they arrange pickup quickly to keep things moving.

Read more, It’s Just Grandma’s Old Stuff… Until It’s Vintage. Then It’s Chic!

Category-Specific Responsible OptionsChina & Silver FlatwareReplacements.comLocal consignment shops specializing in these itemsClothing (Upscale or Designer)The RealReal, Poshmark, Plato’s Closet, local boutiquesFurnitureEstate sale companies, local consignment shops, and OfferUpBooks, Media, GamesHalf-Price Books (in-store)Decluttr app, GameStopToys, Sports Equipment, Hobby SuppliesOnce Upon a ChildPlay It Again SportsGetting Started: Small Habits, Big Impact

Decluttering without harming the environment isn’t just possible – it’s necessary. And it starts with being more mindful of our choices.

Here are five simple habits that can create long-term change:

Prioritize Reuse and Repurposing

Shift your mindset. Think before you buy.

Practice One In, One Out

For every new item that comes in, let one go.

Make Do

Use what you already have. Practice gratitude for what you own.

Invest in Quality Over Quantity

Higher-quality items last longer and feel better.

Shop Mindfully

Always shop with a list. Avoid impulse purchases.

You Can Do This

One small, intentional step at a time can change not only your home, but also the world.

Ready to start? Let’s declutter with purpose, passion, and a little planet-loving flair.

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Why Visual Clutter Exhausts You (Even If You’re Organized)

You can be “organized” and still feel overwhelmed. If your home looks tidy on paper—everything labeled, containers stacked, drawers closed—but you still find yourself snapping at your partner, spacing out mid-task, or struggling to think clearly… you’re not imagining it. 

Visual clutter drains your brain. 

Even when technically organized, a space that’s full of visible stuff—colors, patterns, piles, papers, open shelves, stacked bins—bombards your senses. This kind of clutter may seem harmless, but it creates a low-grade mental hum that saps energy, erodes focus, and stifles creativity. 

Whether you’re Martin, Grace, or Jess—this one’s for you. 

For Martin: Your Brain Is Constantly Processing Visual Data 

You thrive on clarity and control. You’ve got your systems, your spreadsheets, and your plans. So why does your desk still give you a headache? 

Here’s the truth: visual clutter increases cognitive load. Every item your eyes see is a tiny mental tab your brain has to manage—whether you consciously engage with it or not. 

Your brain sees a receipt: Did I log that? A pile of cords: What do those go to again? An overflowing bulletin board: Did I forget something? 

Each item may have a place, but the presence of it still adds up. 

Clearing visible surfaces doesn’t just look better—it reduces your brain’s background processing, freeing up mental bandwidth for the decisions and problem-solving that matter most. 

Try this: Set a timer for 10 minutes and remove everything from your desk that you don’t use daily. Give your eyes fewer tasks. Watch your productivity rise. 

For Grace: Clutter Feels Like Guilt, Obligation, and Noise 

You value harmony. You want your home to be warm and welcoming, not sterile. But lately, you’ve found yourself irritable in your own living room, overwhelmed in the kitchen, and frustrated in the bedroom. 

Visual clutter speaks emotionally. 

That stack of unopened mail whispers, You’re behind. 
The pile of craft supplies you haven’t touched in months sighs, You never follow through. 
The overflowing coat rack near the door shrugs, You should have put that away days ago. 

None of these things are catastrophic. But together, they create an emotional weight that follows you from room to room. 

Visual calm = emotional calm. Creating cleaner sightlines and fewer distractions allows your nervous system to exhale. It tells your subconscious, You’re safe. You’re doing enough. 

Start small. Pick one surface in one room—a kitchen counter, your nightstand, or the front entry. Clear it completely and see how your mood shifts. 

Need more structure? Use the Essential Checklists Workbook to walk through your home room by room. 

For Jess: Clutter Mutes Your Creative Spark 

You love color, texture, and expression. You don’t want to live in a beige box. But lately your space feels like a collage of ideas you never finished. Your projects are scattered. Your creativity feels blocked. 

Creative people often mistake abundance for inspiration. But clutter—especially visual noise—can have the opposite effect. 

When your space has too many focal points, your eye can’t rest. When everything’s on display, nothing stands out. When your shelves are full of ideas, it’s hard to find the one that matters most. 

Visual clutter confuses the vibe. 

The good news? Minimalism doesn’t mean boring. You can create a bold, expressive space that still feels clear. In fact, curating your surroundings helps your ideas shine. 

Try this: Choose one display zone—like a shelf, mantel, or table—and remove half of what’s there. Keep only the pieces that tell the story you want to tell now, not six months ago. Rotate the rest seasonally. 

Need quick decluttering boosts that don’t kill your vibe? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series for fast wins you can apply without overthinking. 

What Visual Calm Feels Like 

When you reduce visual clutter, you don’t just get cleaner surfaces—you get a whole new atmosphere. A visually calm space: 

Helps your brain reset Makes your nervous system feel safe Invites your creativity to come out and play Makes your home feel intentional—not accidental 

Even a small visual reset can change how a space feels. And when your space feels good, you feel better. 

You Don’t Need to Be a Minimalist—Just a Visual Curator 

This isn’t about living with nothing. It’s about being mindful of what your eyes land on, moment to moment, day after day. 

Want a clearer home and a clearer mind? Start by simplifying what’s in your line of sight. 

Let your home support your goals, your peace, and your spark. 

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Is Your Clutter Threshold Ruining Your Relationship? Why Your Mess Matters More Than You Think

As the saying goes:
“Love might bring you together, but clutter can pull you apart.”

Did you know nearly 40% of couples argue about clutter?
• 33% argue weekly
• 7% argue daily

That’s a lot of conflict over stuff.
So, ask yourself: Is clutter affecting your relationship?

Every day, I hear from viewers asking: “What do I do about my partner’s clutter?”
My goal is always to help them find common ground.

One of the biggest obstacles? Understanding each other’s clutter threshold—because your mess may matter more than you think.

What Is a Clutter Threshold?

It’s the point at which the amount of stuff in a space starts to cause stress, distraction, and agitation.

It differs from person to person and is shaped by upbringing and habits.
For example:
Did you grow up in a tidy home or a messy one? Were you expected to make your bed daily or leave it undone?

To one partner, a space might feel like “cozy chaos,” while the other feels totally overwhelmed.
That’s why it’s essential to understand—and respect—each other’s clutter tolerance. Otherwise, resentment and conflict can build.

💔 How Clutter Affects Couples

1. Emotional tension and conflict
“Why are last night’s dishes still in the sink?”
“What are your clothes doing on the floor… again?”

Clutter can trigger anxiety in one partner and total indifference in the other. These mismatched reactions lead to frequent arguments and underlying resentment.

2. Respect and responsibility
“If you cared about me, you’d pick up after yourself.”
“How many times do I have to ask?”

Ignoring your partner’s threshold can feel like disrespect. On the flip side, the more relaxed partner may feel controlled or nagged.

3. Sexual intimacy and attraction
“Our bedroom’s always a mess. I can’t relax here.”
“If you want romance, help keep it clean.”

A cluttered bedroom disrupts peace, privacy, and intimacy. Clutter triggers stress hormones—romance becomes an afterthought.

4. Mental overload
“Why am I always the one cleaning up?”
“If you helped more, the house wouldn’t be this messy.”

Often, one person ends up carrying the entire burden of clutter control, leading to burnout and imbalance.

5. Deeper values clash
“Do you really need 14 coffee mugs?”
“Why are you buying more shoes?”

These arguments often mask deeper disconnects—about priorities, values, and the kind of future you want to build together.

❤️ 5 Healthy Ways to Manage Clutter Threshold Differences

1. Open communication
Set aside time to talk about how clutter affects each of you emotionally and physically—without blame or judgment.
Respect each other’s thresholds and agree to gently remind one another when you’re being triggered. Humor helps!

2. Create zones
Set up zones to honor both thresholds:
• Clutter-free zones (e.g. master bedroom)
• Clutter-relaxed zones (e.g. family room)
• Clutter-allowed zones (e.g. hobby area or man cave)

3. Regular check-ins
Revisit your routines regularly to ensure both partners feel heard and supported.

4. Share values
Talk about what kind of home you want. Align your values around consumption, design, and lifestyle.

5. Build shared routines
Agree on basic daily, weekly, and monthly routines to manage clutter:
• Nightly reset: Tidy up before bed
• Clutter catchall: Basket for mail, keys, and phones
• Reset ritual: Monthly decluttering session together

✨ Words of Wisdom (From Real Life!)

• Don’t underestimate laughter—it can ease tension.
• Learn to let the little things go.
• Focus less on perfection and more on partnership.

Bottom line:
You don’t have to share the same clutter threshold—just mutual respect.
And above all, prioritize what matters most: your relationship.

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Beyond the Closet: Hidden Spots to Declutter Before Summer

You’ve tackled the closets, donated old clothes, and organized your garage—but what about the hidden clutter that quietly builds up in other corners of your home? 
Before summer is in full swing, it’s the perfect time to take a closer look at those easy-to-forget spaces that can create low-level stress without you even realizing it. 

Here’s your guide to decluttering the forgotten zones so you can head into summer feeling completely refreshed. 

1. The Linen Closet 

How many extra towels, sheet sets, and mismatched pillowcases are lurking in your linen closet? 

Keep only two sets of sheets per bed and a few high-quality towels. Donate anything worn out or unused. Organize by category with simple baskets or labels for easy access. 

A tidy linen closet means quicker guest prep and easier laundry days. 

2. The Mudroom or Entryway 

Summer means lots of coming and going—don’t let your entryway become a dumping ground. 

Store winter boots, scarves, and heavy jackets out of sight. Add hooks or baskets for grab-and-go summer gear like hats, sandals, and sunscreen. Keep this area clear to create a welcoming first impression. 3. Kitchen “Junk” Drawers 

Every home has one—or two! 

Empty the entire drawer and sort items into “keep,” “relocate,” or “toss.” Use small trays or dividers to give every item a designated space. Limit drawers to true essentials like pens, scissors, and batteries. 

A clutter-free kitchen makes meal prep and entertaining so much easier during the busy summer months. 

4. Garage and Backyard Sheds 

Outdoor storage areas can become a black hole for forgotten tools and gear. 

Purge broken lawn equipment, deflated sports balls, and rusty garden tools. Create designated zones for gardening, recreation, and maintenance supplies. Store summer gear like bikes and pool floats where they’re easy to reach. 

Need a checklist to stay on track? Grab Rita’s Essential Checklists Workbook for room-by-room guidance. 

5. Home Office Nooks 

Even if you don’t work from home full-time, home office spaces can become clutter magnets. 

Sort through paper piles and file important documents. Shred anything outdated you no longer need. Minimize decor to create a clean, focused work zone. 

A clean office area makes it easier to plan summer trips, manage household tasks, or even sneak in a little creative time. 

Clear the Hidden Clutter, Clear Your Mind 

Decluttering hidden spaces isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about creating a home that works better for you. 
When every nook and cranny feels purposeful, you’ll experience: 

Less mental load and daily frustration. Quicker cleanups and easier hosting. More freedom to focus on summer fun. 

For quick weekly projects that keep you motivated, follow Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series on YouTube! 

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Multigenerational Households: Designing a Space Where Everyone Will Thrive!

Did You Know That Nearly 20% Of Families in the U.S. Are Now Living in Multigenerational Households?

This increasingly popular trend is reshaping how we think about home design—and for good reason. When three, sometimes even four, generations share a home, designing a space to meet everyone’s unique needs, preferences, and lifestyles can be challenging, but it’s definitely worth the time and effort.

A well-designed space that accommodates multiple generations—including grandparents, parents, and children—can provide a supportive, nurturing environment that fosters enduring relationships, shared experiences, and lasting memories.

In so many ways, it just makes sense—and it’s a sign of the times we’re living in.

Why Multigenerational Living Is on the Rise

The concept of extended families living together is being driven by several key factors:

1.     Economic PressuresHousing affordability concernsRising cost of livingIncreasing consumer debt2.     Aging Population and Family Support NeedsCaring for aging parentsAffordable childcareSupport for young adults just starting out3.     A Desire to Stay ConnectedA strong commitment to supporting one another across generationsOpportunities to learn from each otherSharing household and financial responsibilitiesOne Major Challenge: Privacy

One of the biggest challenges families face when living together under one roof is privacy. As a designer, it’s essential to find the right balance between the need for personal space and the value of shared space. Proper space allocation ensures that everyone has room to breathe—literally and emotionally.

Design Considerations for Every AreaUniversal Design Principles
Create a home that is safe, accessible, and comfortable for all ages:Non-slip floors, low thresholdsWide doorwaysAmple lighting (natural and artificial)Walk-in showersStep-free entrances

2. Smart Home Features
Incorporate user-friendly tech for:

Safety and securityTemperature and light controlConvenience for all age groups

3. Soundproofing
Use sound-absorbing materials to reduce noise and support privacy.

4. Multiple Entrances
Separate entrances can give teenagers and older adults a sense of independence and autonomy.

5. Family Command Center
A central communication board to coordinate schedules for meals, chores, appointments, and shopping.

5 Key Spaces Every Multigenerational Home NeedsShared Spaces
Kitchen, living room, dining room, family room
Create large gathering areas with comfortable seating to encourage interaction and foster connection.Private Spaces
Separate bedrooms, in-law suites, first-floor bedrooms with private entrances
Give each generation a dedicated area for privacy and rest.Transitional or Zoned Spaces
Playroom, game area, reading nook
Use rugs, furniture placement, lighting, or movable dividers (like screens or sliding doors) to visually separate open-plan areas—without isolating family members.Multifunctional/Flexible Spaces
Bedroom, office, sitting area, or yoga corner
Design spaces that can evolve as your family’s needs change.Outdoor Spaces
Patio, porch, or deck
These areas encourage relaxation, outdoor dining, and meaningful conversations across generations.Bottom Line

Designing a home for multigenerational living requires careful consideration of each generation’s unique needs and challenges. But when done well, it results in a harmonious, supportive environment that benefits everyone under the same roof.

When each generation is seen, heard, and considered in the design process, the home becomes more than just a place to live—it becomes a place where everyone can truly thrive.

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