M.J. Boshers's Blog, page 5
June 19, 2017
Wonder Woman
Being a career mom is hard, right? I feel your pain, but we get through. At the end of the day, though exhausted, we have to admit...it is so worth it.
I love my job. I could not see myself doing anything else, but I know something is missing. I want to give back. Have you ever wanted to give back, but felt overwhelmed by the amount of charities out there? I mean, where do you start? Do I give to cancer research? homeless? adoption? animal rescues? There are so many to choose from. I asked someone today, "Where do I start?" She told me, "Hello...Google." I laughed, but she was totally right. Luckily, we do have google and it makes this easy peasy. If you want a charity to choose from you can go to https://charity.org/. Very easy. Choose what you are passionate about. Research and learn more about these charities and give back. Get your family involved too.
Be a Wonder Woman. I will be doing the same. Let's heal the world. It's time to be a hero! Let passion drive you to greatness.
"Passion will move men beyond themselves, beyond their shortcomings, and beyond their failures."
-Joseph Campbell
I love my job. I could not see myself doing anything else, but I know something is missing. I want to give back. Have you ever wanted to give back, but felt overwhelmed by the amount of charities out there? I mean, where do you start? Do I give to cancer research? homeless? adoption? animal rescues? There are so many to choose from. I asked someone today, "Where do I start?" She told me, "Hello...Google." I laughed, but she was totally right. Luckily, we do have google and it makes this easy peasy. If you want a charity to choose from you can go to https://charity.org/. Very easy. Choose what you are passionate about. Research and learn more about these charities and give back. Get your family involved too.
Be a Wonder Woman. I will be doing the same. Let's heal the world. It's time to be a hero! Let passion drive you to greatness.
"Passion will move men beyond themselves, beyond their shortcomings, and beyond their failures."
-Joseph Campbell
May 19, 2017
Little Things
Just wanted to share some fun pictures with everyone. My daughter and I tried baking today. It was a fun experience. I usually get stressed out when I cook because I am so bad at it, but this time I really enjoyed it. I just wanted my daughter to have some fun with it so I tried not to think about the mess...and it was a big mess. We had a flour fight and eggs were everywhere. I didn't stress, yell, or try to control the situation. We just lived in the moment. I guess I just wanted to share to the over stressed mommies out there. Just take a few moments and enjoy some time with the little ones. They won't be little for long. It is also a great stress reliever to throw flour and eggs around the kitchen...even though it will eventually have to be cleaned.
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Cherry muffins made with Splenda!
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Cherry muffins made with Splenda!May 9, 2017
United
United
Look what we can do together here
Look what we can do to drive away the fear
What we do now will pave the way
So what will we do today
The world can be kind to those in need
It can love unconditionally
It can take you by the hand when you fall
And pick you up so you can stand tall
Yeah its amazing I believe
I don't know why we can't see
chorus
Break the chains, be united
Break the chains, be undivided
Be one, Be reminded
That freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
We've come a long way here
And along the way we've had to shed some tears
When those shadows come around
When they shake the ground
We forget what we're fighting for
And we are defeated once more
For the world to see beyond the sea
For the world to really be free
We have to respect our fellow man
Take the time to understand
Break the chains, be united
Break the chains, be undivided
Be one, be reminded
That freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
Though we are all different we are all the same
So forever let it ring
And forever let it reign
Break the chains, be united
Break the chains, be undivided
Be one, be reminded
That freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
Yeah freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
Copyright 2017 MJ Boshers
Look what we can do together here
Look what we can do to drive away the fear
What we do now will pave the way
So what will we do today
The world can be kind to those in need
It can love unconditionally
It can take you by the hand when you fall
And pick you up so you can stand tall
Yeah its amazing I believe
I don't know why we can't see
chorus
Break the chains, be united
Break the chains, be undivided
Be one, Be reminded
That freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
We've come a long way here
And along the way we've had to shed some tears
When those shadows come around
When they shake the ground
We forget what we're fighting for
And we are defeated once more
For the world to see beyond the sea
For the world to really be free
We have to respect our fellow man
Take the time to understand
Break the chains, be united
Break the chains, be undivided
Be one, be reminded
That freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
Though we are all different we are all the same
So forever let it ring
And forever let it reign
Break the chains, be united
Break the chains, be undivided
Be one, be reminded
That freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
Yeah freedom isn't freedom
If we're not united
Copyright 2017 MJ Boshers
Okay
Okay
Waiting, I keep waiting for time to heal
Wondering if it is real
How am I supposed to deal
When I don't even want to feel
So I'll keep waiting for time to heal
chorus
Bit by bit I grow numb to the pain
Soon I'll find a way to sustain
All the hurt I feel inside
Soon I'll learn to live the lie
And take it day by day
And I'll be okay, I'll be okay
Dreaming, I keep dreaming of a place
Where memories can be erased
How am I supposed to face
This world when I can keep the pace
I'll keep dreaming of a place
They say love heals all things
But what if love loses its wings
And its taken in the night
Never again able to shine its light
How do I fill this hole
That's eating at my soul
Bit by bit I grow numb to the pain
Soon I'll find a way to sustain
All the hurt I feel inside
Soon I'll learn to live the lie
And take it day by day
And I'll be okay, I'll be okay
Copyright 2017 MJ Boshers
Waiting, I keep waiting for time to heal
Wondering if it is real
How am I supposed to deal
When I don't even want to feel
So I'll keep waiting for time to heal
chorus
Bit by bit I grow numb to the pain
Soon I'll find a way to sustain
All the hurt I feel inside
Soon I'll learn to live the lie
And take it day by day
And I'll be okay, I'll be okay
Dreaming, I keep dreaming of a place
Where memories can be erased
How am I supposed to face
This world when I can keep the pace
I'll keep dreaming of a place
They say love heals all things
But what if love loses its wings
And its taken in the night
Never again able to shine its light
How do I fill this hole
That's eating at my soul
Bit by bit I grow numb to the pain
Soon I'll find a way to sustain
All the hurt I feel inside
Soon I'll learn to live the lie
And take it day by day
And I'll be okay, I'll be okay
Copyright 2017 MJ Boshers
January 24, 2017
Don't sweat it!
Hey guys! I have the ultimate recipe for your next dinner and trust me when I say that I am the woman to ask about fast and easy cooking. If there is a way to make cooking faster and easier...I will find it.
I know you don't have time to cook a proper home-cooked meal most of the time so I have a simple fix. Don't sweat it! I have a perfect, easy recipe for you. The best part is that your family will think you sweat over a hot stove for hours.
Simple fix: Pasta sides !
All you have to do is fix one or two broccoli fettuccine Pasta Sides by Knorr and bake some chicken marinated in Lawry's Garlic and Herb Marinade and you have yourself a home-cooked meal with only a couple of pans to wash. It will taste like amazing and your family will think you are a super-Mom.
If you are in the mood for rice instead, try Rice Sides by Knorr. It makes a great casserole.
Let me know how it works for you!
More recipes are available at http://www.knorr.com.
Nutritional facts are available on the labels
I know you don't have time to cook a proper home-cooked meal most of the time so I have a simple fix. Don't sweat it! I have a perfect, easy recipe for you. The best part is that your family will think you sweat over a hot stove for hours.
Simple fix: Pasta sides !
All you have to do is fix one or two broccoli fettuccine Pasta Sides by Knorr and bake some chicken marinated in Lawry's Garlic and Herb Marinade and you have yourself a home-cooked meal with only a couple of pans to wash. It will taste like amazing and your family will think you are a super-Mom.
If you are in the mood for rice instead, try Rice Sides by Knorr. It makes a great casserole.
Let me know how it works for you!
More recipes are available at http://www.knorr.com.
Nutritional facts are available on the labels
September 14, 2016
BALANCE
I want to talk to you tonight about being balanced.
Are you happy? On an average day, can you say you love your life? Do you like the woman you see in the mirror? If the answer is no, then you need to listen up. Now, first of all, I am not a therapist. If you find yourself depressed on a deeper level than what we are going to talk about, please seek professional council.
I will break this up in three separate posts because we will talk about three separate topics. These topics will come together to give you a more balanced life and balance is the key to having a happier life. The first topic will be mental health, the second will be your physical health, and the third topic will be your spiritual health. All three will give you the balance you need to help you on your way to enjoying yourself a bit more.
Let me ask you some questions. What sets your soul on fire? Is there something you are totally passionate about? Are you the woman you always dreamed you would be? Do you believe in yourself? These are the things that most of us don't make the time to think about. We don't make the time to be happy. We can make everyone else happy in a heartbeat and it makes us happy to see them happy, but we all know deep down that we need more. Is that selfish? Some may think so, but who cares. This is about you, not them.
So...what sets your soul on fire? Find out what it is. Try all kinds of things. Things that you never thought would make you happy. You will never know what it is unless you try different things. This is going to take time. It won't happen over night, but you have to put in the work.
After you find out what it is, do it as much as possible. Make it part of your life in some way.You can do this. To find yourself you will have to trust yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself.
This is the first step in being balanced. Take time to nurture your mental health by answering the questions above. Write them down in a journal and when you find yourself, you can begin the next step in being balanced.
Please share your thoughts or stories with me. I'd love to hear from you. Until next time...this mommy is out. MJ
I will break this up in three separate posts because we will talk about three separate topics. These topics will come together to give you a more balanced life and balance is the key to having a happier life. The first topic will be mental health, the second will be your physical health, and the third topic will be your spiritual health. All three will give you the balance you need to help you on your way to enjoying yourself a bit more.
Let me ask you some questions. What sets your soul on fire? Is there something you are totally passionate about? Are you the woman you always dreamed you would be? Do you believe in yourself? These are the things that most of us don't make the time to think about. We don't make the time to be happy. We can make everyone else happy in a heartbeat and it makes us happy to see them happy, but we all know deep down that we need more. Is that selfish? Some may think so, but who cares. This is about you, not them.
So...what sets your soul on fire? Find out what it is. Try all kinds of things. Things that you never thought would make you happy. You will never know what it is unless you try different things. This is going to take time. It won't happen over night, but you have to put in the work.
After you find out what it is, do it as much as possible. Make it part of your life in some way.You can do this. To find yourself you will have to trust yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself.
This is the first step in being balanced. Take time to nurture your mental health by answering the questions above. Write them down in a journal and when you find yourself, you can begin the next step in being balanced.
Please share your thoughts or stories with me. I'd love to hear from you. Until next time...this mommy is out. MJ
July 18, 2016
Is Social Media for Marketing a Waste of Time?
Hey, Everyone!
Lately, I have been hearing a lot of people say how they think that social media is a waste of time for marketing. So I wanted to write a post to maybe clear up some things.
The Big Question Is...
Is social media marketing a big fat waste of time?
The Answer Is...
Well, it depends. Do you want more sales? Do you want more recognition? If the answer is yes then stick around while I tell you why.
Social media has gained momentum over the last few years with no signs of slowing down. Whether you are trying to sell a product or a name, if you're not on social media you may be missing out.
Three reasons you need social media to market a product:
1. Social media can help you reach major players in your field. It can make it easier to find those contacts that can help you reach an even bigger audience.
2. Social media can help gain international interest in your product, which is almost impossible without social media.
3. Social media can help you network beyond your reach by giving you an option to follow groups. This gives you even more access to prospective clients.
So don't miss out on these networking opportunities. Some people may disagree with me on this and that is okay. They have their own way of marketing and it works for them. You need to find your way.
So how do you find the time in your already crazy schedule to put into social media? The fact is that it really doesn't take that long. After setting up your account, getting used to where everything is located, and posting a couple of times you will have the hang of it. It only takes about a minute to post something. Either schedule some time or multi-task. They make it way too easy not to multi-task your way through social media.
Did you know that you can link some sites together so when you post on one site it shows up on the rest? This saves a tremendous amount of time. The mobile apps are imperative for multi-tasking so don't forget to download those to your phone.
If multi-tasking isn't something you can do, just set five minutes aside twice a day. Once before work and once before bed. That is all it takes. In the beginning two a day is fine, but once you get the hang of it you should post a few more.
Don't trust social media alone.
Always find opportunities to network face to face, if possible. It can give you that personal relationship that social media just can't give you. It can also give you a great deal of gratification when someone wants to know more about you and your work.
Of course, everyone is different and some make it work without social media. It is up to you to decide if it is for you or not, but it can be done with minimal effort so...why not give it a try?
Give it a couple of months to see a difference and let me know if it helps. Some of my favorite sites are Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Google+, and LinkedIn. Try them out and see if it makes a difference for you.
MJ
Lately, I have been hearing a lot of people say how they think that social media is a waste of time for marketing. So I wanted to write a post to maybe clear up some things.
The Big Question Is...
Is social media marketing a big fat waste of time?
The Answer Is...
Well, it depends. Do you want more sales? Do you want more recognition? If the answer is yes then stick around while I tell you why.
Social media has gained momentum over the last few years with no signs of slowing down. Whether you are trying to sell a product or a name, if you're not on social media you may be missing out.
Three reasons you need social media to market a product:
1. Social media can help you reach major players in your field. It can make it easier to find those contacts that can help you reach an even bigger audience.
2. Social media can help gain international interest in your product, which is almost impossible without social media.
3. Social media can help you network beyond your reach by giving you an option to follow groups. This gives you even more access to prospective clients.
So don't miss out on these networking opportunities. Some people may disagree with me on this and that is okay. They have their own way of marketing and it works for them. You need to find your way.
So how do you find the time in your already crazy schedule to put into social media? The fact is that it really doesn't take that long. After setting up your account, getting used to where everything is located, and posting a couple of times you will have the hang of it. It only takes about a minute to post something. Either schedule some time or multi-task. They make it way too easy not to multi-task your way through social media.
Did you know that you can link some sites together so when you post on one site it shows up on the rest? This saves a tremendous amount of time. The mobile apps are imperative for multi-tasking so don't forget to download those to your phone.
If multi-tasking isn't something you can do, just set five minutes aside twice a day. Once before work and once before bed. That is all it takes. In the beginning two a day is fine, but once you get the hang of it you should post a few more.
Don't trust social media alone.
Always find opportunities to network face to face, if possible. It can give you that personal relationship that social media just can't give you. It can also give you a great deal of gratification when someone wants to know more about you and your work.
Of course, everyone is different and some make it work without social media. It is up to you to decide if it is for you or not, but it can be done with minimal effort so...why not give it a try?
Give it a couple of months to see a difference and let me know if it helps. Some of my favorite sites are Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Google+, and LinkedIn. Try them out and see if it makes a difference for you.
MJ
July 10, 2016
Supergirl
When I was a little girl my teacher asked me
What would you like to be
I didn't have to think very long
I knew that I wanted to be strong
I wanted to save the day
And take all the pain away
Feed the hungry of the world
So naturally I want to be Supergirl
I want to fly like an angel in the sky
I want turn the wrong to right
I want to take the hurt and pain
And send it to a galaxy far away
I want to heal this old world
So I guess what I want to be is Supergirl
I'm all grown up now how time slips away
And I'm sitting here thinking about that day
Thinking about how I wanted to be strong
And I didn't have to think about it long
Cause I know I've saved the day
And I've taken some pain away
Fed the hungry, warmed the cold
Even saved a lost soul
And though there's more to do to heal this old world
I guess you can call me Supergirl
I'm gonna fly like an angel in the sky
I'm gonna turn some wrong to right
I'm gonna take some hurt and pain
And send it to a galaxy far away
I'm gonna heal this old world
So you can just call me Supergirl
And there are girls out there just like me
Fighting every day for what they believe
Trying to heal this old world
Well I guess I'm not the only Supergirl
So fly like angels in the sky
And turn some wrong to right
And take some hurt and pain
And send it to a galaxy far, far away
Feed the hungry warm the cold
Even save a lost soul
And heal this old world
Thank God, thank God for Supergirls
Here's to you, here's to all the Supergirls
Here's to all you Supergirls
What would you like to be
I didn't have to think very long
I knew that I wanted to be strong
I wanted to save the day
And take all the pain away
Feed the hungry of the world
So naturally I want to be Supergirl
I want to fly like an angel in the sky
I want turn the wrong to right
I want to take the hurt and pain
And send it to a galaxy far away
I want to heal this old world
So I guess what I want to be is Supergirl
I'm all grown up now how time slips away
And I'm sitting here thinking about that day
Thinking about how I wanted to be strong
And I didn't have to think about it long
Cause I know I've saved the day
And I've taken some pain away
Fed the hungry, warmed the cold
Even saved a lost soul
And though there's more to do to heal this old world
I guess you can call me Supergirl
I'm gonna fly like an angel in the sky
I'm gonna turn some wrong to right
I'm gonna take some hurt and pain
And send it to a galaxy far away
I'm gonna heal this old world
So you can just call me Supergirl
And there are girls out there just like me
Fighting every day for what they believe
Trying to heal this old world
Well I guess I'm not the only Supergirl
So fly like angels in the sky
And turn some wrong to right
And take some hurt and pain
And send it to a galaxy far, far away
Feed the hungry warm the cold
Even save a lost soul
And heal this old world
Thank God, thank God for Supergirls
Here's to you, here's to all the Supergirls
Here's to all you Supergirls
July 9, 2016
Debut of "Super-Girl" (Please be kind)
Okay ladies...I promised so here it goes.
In the last post I promised to bring you a song I was inspired to write for the women who have chosen to make this world a better place. Well...here it is and I have to say before you listen to it, please be kind. I have been wanting to get this song out for a while, but there is no instrumentals yet and no professional singer to sing it. I've been struggling lately with thinking about the things I can't do. I hate that feeling, don't you? I want to get this song out to other woman to inspire them, but how can I inspire other women to believe in themselves when I can't believe in myself? I always feel it isn't good enough so I put it off. I was just about to do that very thing, until I read a post on LinkedIn. The post was about some women who have inspired other women to dream big. It was part of #LeanInTogether. It made me think about who I wanted to be. I didn't want to be this scared girl anymore. I want to inspire.
So without further procrastination...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skunBWSAYfw&feature=youtu.be
I wrote this song to thank women around the world for making it a better place and I sing it today for everyone who thinks they can't make a difference in it. Believe it, feel it, and just do it. Inspire others to do it with you because together woman can do amazing things.
These are just a few celebrities that choose to give back to the world...thank you. Hope you enjoy the song.
MJ
How do you want to make this world a better place?
Be a SuperGirl!
In the last post I promised to bring you a song I was inspired to write for the women who have chosen to make this world a better place. Well...here it is and I have to say before you listen to it, please be kind. I have been wanting to get this song out for a while, but there is no instrumentals yet and no professional singer to sing it. I've been struggling lately with thinking about the things I can't do. I hate that feeling, don't you? I want to get this song out to other woman to inspire them, but how can I inspire other women to believe in themselves when I can't believe in myself? I always feel it isn't good enough so I put it off. I was just about to do that very thing, until I read a post on LinkedIn. The post was about some women who have inspired other women to dream big. It was part of #LeanInTogether. It made me think about who I wanted to be. I didn't want to be this scared girl anymore. I want to inspire.
So without further procrastination...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skunBWSAYfw&feature=youtu.be
I wrote this song to thank women around the world for making it a better place and I sing it today for everyone who thinks they can't make a difference in it. Believe it, feel it, and just do it. Inspire others to do it with you because together woman can do amazing things.
These are just a few celebrities that choose to give back to the world...thank you. Hope you enjoy the song.
MJ
How do you want to make this world a better place?
Be a SuperGirl!
June 26, 2016
Super-girl
If someone was to ask me what my ultimate goal in life is, I would say to heal the world.
How? By changing it!
I'm not the only woman who feels this way. In fact, their are millions of women around the wold fighting for a cause they believe in. I want to recognize some of them today.Why? Because these women have conquered the negative words of "You can't...you won't...you're just a girl...and it will never happen for you." They have respectfully proved those wrong and silently stated back..."Watch me!"
These are just a few among many that have taken the road to inspiring others.
Take a look at #LeanInTogether initiative ignited by Sandberg that call for women to support each other in the workplace and beyond to everyday life.
Read more at http://www.inquisitr.com/3242656/emma...
Emma Watson
Oprah Winfrey
Ellen DeGeneresYes, I'm sure they have had their share of struggles, but they overcame them. They have worked hard to get to where they are and choose to make the world a better place.
I am inspired every day by women like this. Inspired so that I wrote a song called "Super-girl" about the amazing women in this world who are, to me, super-girls. I will be debuting this song soon on my blog so stay tuned. I strongly feel women need to support each other every day because a lot of young girls and even women today still feel like they can't accomplish the things that are inside them. They are holding back and need someone to help them realize that they can succeed in anything if they only believe they can.
I hope this post and my song helps other women and young girls to have the courage, dedication, strength, and heart to want to change the world one day too. Support one another ladies and unite to heal the world.
How? By changing it!
I'm not the only woman who feels this way. In fact, their are millions of women around the wold fighting for a cause they believe in. I want to recognize some of them today.Why? Because these women have conquered the negative words of "You can't...you won't...you're just a girl...and it will never happen for you." They have respectfully proved those wrong and silently stated back..."Watch me!"
These are just a few among many that have taken the road to inspiring others.
Take a look at #LeanInTogether initiative ignited by Sandberg that call for women to support each other in the workplace and beyond to everyday life.
Read more at http://www.inquisitr.com/3242656/emma...
Emma Watson
Oprah Winfrey
Ellen DeGeneresYes, I'm sure they have had their share of struggles, but they overcame them. They have worked hard to get to where they are and choose to make the world a better place.I am inspired every day by women like this. Inspired so that I wrote a song called "Super-girl" about the amazing women in this world who are, to me, super-girls. I will be debuting this song soon on my blog so stay tuned. I strongly feel women need to support each other every day because a lot of young girls and even women today still feel like they can't accomplish the things that are inside them. They are holding back and need someone to help them realize that they can succeed in anything if they only believe they can.
I hope this post and my song helps other women and young girls to have the courage, dedication, strength, and heart to want to change the world one day too. Support one another ladies and unite to heal the world.
