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Erotic Journal Challenge: Love Language

Erotic Journal Challenge for 02/22/2022My Results for the 5 Languages of Love Quiz

Wow. Today’s Erotic Journal Challenge is to take the Love Language Quiz. Do you know your 5 Languages of Love?

When I took the quiz the first time, I had a 0% for Gifts. And I have a reason for that. If you take this quiz, almost every one has a gift option choice. The way the gift options are worded made me feel uncomfortable. Like, if i choose that, am i someone who just wants material objects?

I’m...

TMI Tuesday: What do you savor?

Couple savoring a touch, a kiss…What did you last savor, and when?Morning Sunshine

I try to savor something every day. It could be anything from basking in the sunshine before walking into the office, to that first sip of coffee, something funny my Roommate is doing, or that good morning photo from the guy I like.

If you find the little things in life something worth savoring, then you’ll find the big moments in life as something treasured. Savor those moments, because they are wha...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Plan ahead for the coming week

Yes, I know this is a day late, it’s okay. I planned it that way. No, I’m not joking.

Erotic Journal Challenge 02-20-22Prompt: Plan ahead for the coming week. Goals? Considerations? What will you do differently? The Same?

I’m not a planner. Or a plotter. I’m a gardener leaning into being an architect. What does that mean really? It means I’m used to picking up the next thing to do, and doing it. Project-wise. However, in order to become financially independent, I’ve learned I need to ...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Reflection

Have you joined the Erotic Journal Challenge? Today’s prompt is about reflection of the past week.

Prompt: Take some time to reflect on this past week. What went well? What felt good? What challenges surfaced? What did you learn?

This past week has so many good things to reflect on. Let’s do this!

I’ve been doing yoga after work more regularly. Still not every day like I want, but something is better than nothing. I plan to redo the 30-day Move series by Yoga with Adriene again onc...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Sexually Free

Have you joined the Erotic Journal Challenge? Today’s prompt is about sexual freedom. Reminder that this is my website and my blog and how I’ve had to put things in perspective to move forward.

Erotic Journal Challenge for 2/18/22Prompt: When have you felt the most free, sexually? Explore that.

Growing up in a family that didn’t talk about anything important, especially sex hurt. A lot. I know I’m not alone.

I didn’t have a good conversational relationship with my mom growing up. T...

Erotic Journal Challenge – February 17th 2022

I just recently found the Erotic Journal Challenge on Instagram! Thank you for following me on that account, Brigit! I look forward to seeing your prompts. XoXo

Erotic Journal Challenge Prompt for February 17th 2022Prompt: Do you save certain things for special occasions? Impose limits? Create boundaries? Tell yourself no?

Wow. This hits me on so many levels, I had to give it some serious thought. I originally planned to write up tomorrow’s and skip this one until I read it.

And the...

TMI Tuesday: Valentine’s Day was Condom Awareness Day!

Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash1. One of my ideas is to someday create:

Oh wow. There are so many ways I could answer this question.

The 64 million dollar answer though… if I had unlimited funds, I would create a safe online haven for authors, educators, and workers of all kinds in the vast world of sexuality.

I’d have my own servers. I’d have people building payment portals. And it would be meant to help people, not hurt them.

Eventually, the people being hosted there would...

A Penny for Your Thoughts: Remember, Fiction isn’t Real

couple reading in bed

I decided after a few interactions and conversations, it was time for a reminder. I want you to say this out loud: Fiction isn’t real. Go ahead, say it with me: Fiction isn’t Real.

This shouldn’t be something I have to say here, being as everything on this website from my name to my stories is fiction.

Now, my posts about writing and so forth, experiences I’ve had in my real life, etc. – that is real.

However… my fictional stories are just that – absolute fictio...

TMI Tuesday: Intimacy

Photo by Becca Tapert on Unsplash1. How do you survive an intimacy famine?

I spent several years being single. During that time, I regained my own identity of who I am as an individual being. Part of that was reclaiming my sexual self by learning how I enjoy being touched, which spots elicit that sizzling zip of excitement, and what toys help me reach bliss.

Reading and listening to erotica helped me identify sexual things I’d like to explore either on my own or with a partner. I’ve si...

Smutty Thought of the Day: Strawberry Shortcake

Smutty Thought of the DayOh this one is interesting, folx.

This morning, the Roommate and her guy friend get up and she’s like ‘omg, ask him what he tried to do last night.’

So, of course, I ask. I mean, who am if not good at following instructions?

Personally, I have no idea how any guys survive hanging out with us, we really don’t hide anything from each other. We do have privacy, but literally we tell each other everything.

From what I was told, he was hanging off the side of ...