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Erotic Journal Challenge: What’s Your Most Tame Sexual Fantasy?

Erotic Journal Challenge 03.11.2022What is your most tame sexual fantasy?

My most TAME sexual fantasy? I… have never been asked this question ever.

Usually people want to know what’s the wildest thing you’ve done, where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex, what’s the kinkiest you’ve gotten…. Or, what’s the sexual fantasy you’re sure you’ll never get to experience for whatever reason?

Thinking back, I’m going to pick something that happened with a former boy toy.

We’d meet up, g...

Erotic Journal Challenge: What’s Missing From Your Romantic Life?

Erotic Journal Challenge – 03.10.2022What is missing from your intimate, romantic, and/or sexual life?

First, OW. What’s missing? Intimacy, romance, and partnered sex. Am I a romantic? Do I enjoy intimacy? Yes.

Just reading this made me feel like I was stabbed.

I feel so attacked.

Let me see if I can pick the pieces up and give an answer.

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Intimacy is ImportantDefinition of Intimacy from Dictionary.com

Yes, I looked up the definition to give me a better ...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Sex Toys in the Bedroom?

Erotic Journal Challenge – 03.09.22What props/toys would you consider taking to bed with you and your partner?

Sex toys in the bedroom? Yes, please!

Obviously, this is a negotiation type of conversation with any potential partner, before you enter the bedroom. The last thing you want to do is hop into bed and have someone pull out the whips and chains without knowing they’re into that type of kink.

Big Blue with his ducky fan club.

One of the reasons I love my Roommate is becau...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Intimacy, Romance, and Sex, oh my!

Erotic Journal Challenge: March 8th 2022What messages did your caregivers give you about intimacy, romance, and/or sex as a child?

The only sex education I had growing up was in the ‘we don’t talk about it’ category. I don’t even really remember my parents ever kissing in front of me. My mom was pretty… I don’t know how to describe it. Like… you did not ask and you did not tell. You didn’t do it before marriage. And then when the math was done for my sibling, we realized that was not abs...

Erotic Journal Challenge: What Makes Someone A Good Lover?

Erotic Journal Challenge – 03.07.2022In what ways is your partner a good lover?

I can’t answer this question since I don’t currently have a partner. Sure, I’m seeing someone, but we haven’t reached the partner-level yet. Will we? That remains to be seen. Do I think he’d be a good lover? Yes. We did get to have some fun time together.

From what I have experienced with him, we are comfortable with each other naked and we are learning how to communicate with one another. Apparently, I ma...

Adventures in Writing: How to Write More Words

Laptop and NotebookEveryone has advice on how to write more words

And not all writing advice will work for everyone. That’s why there are so many articles about how write more, faster, smarter.

Writers who are prolific in their craft will happily tell you their method is the best. But here’s the truth.

Are you sitting down?

Until you practice several methods and cobble together a practice that works for you, you’re always going to be disappointed in your output.

Don’t get d...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Looking Back at February

Erotic Journal Challenge – 02.26.22Goals for My Erotic Life:

Well, I just found the Erotic Journal Challenge a weekish ago and so far it’s been good. The quizzes were great for learning more about myself as a sexual being. I hope you enjoyed reading my results and your own. Also, I look forward to the future prompts and questions.

I plan to keep exploring my own erotic life. Things that make me get all squirmy and warm inside. The guy I’m talking to right now does that quite well with ...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Sex Type Personality

Today’s erotic journal challenge is for the Sex Type Personality Test.

Erotic Journal Challenge for 2.25.22

I am slightly confused about some of my results… let’s do this!

Here is your direct link to Sex Type Me Test.

Analytical vs. Emotional

You are ruled by your emotional impulses and make decisions with your heart rather than your head. Romantic complications tend to fill you with a multitude of emotions and thinking before you respond can be difficult.

My thoughts:...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Sex Personality Test

Erotic Journal Challenge – 2.24.22Queendom’s Sex Personality Test is today’s Erotic Journal Challenge

I’m not sure why, but the link worked for me yesterday but not today. I went to the Queendom website, but couldn’t find a direct link (maybe it’s named something else) to the sex personality test. So, I did what I always do: I googled.

Here is the link to the Queendom Sex Personality Test

I received a 77% on the quiz. I am still pondering my results. Here they are for you to...

Erotic Journal Challenge: Erotic Blueprint Quiz

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Erotic Journal Challenge – 02.23.22

I wasn’t surprised by my results for the Erotic Blueprint Quiz. I’m a people-pleaser after all, and that includes indulging a partner’s sexual whims if it piques my fancy.

Results for the Erotic Blueprint Quiz*

As a Shapeshifter Type you’re the most sophisticated of all the Blueprints.

You’re turned on by the whole erotic palett...