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October 14, 2016
Disney Dream 6192 Stateroom Review





(1) The ability to store your suitcases under the bed.There is tons of room to fit even a full size suitcase under the bed which is wonderful because it allows you to get it out of the way after you have unpacked.

(3) The Split BathroomsHaving a split bathroom was absolutely lovely. It truly allows you to have privacy and still be able to allow the other person to get ready or shower. It was lovely.
(4) Having a Shower and TubMany times in cruise cabins there is only a teeny tiny shower but in this cabin room there was a tub and a shower that was full size. It was really a wonderful treat and just felt like a bit of extra luxury for the room.
















(1) It was incredibly quiet.In fact (and I am cringing admitting this!) we were unfortunately too tired to attend the Pirates Party and Fireworks off the boat the night that this took place. I know, I know. I am totally shaking my head too. But unfortunately it was just the case. We went back to our room, joked about being woken up by the fireworks and thought we would wander down to see them when we heard them. Imagine our surprise when we woke up the next morning and had NEVER heard them. Hahaha! So seriously, it is an incredibly quiet room!
(2) A Great Room for Those Who Struggle with Motion SicknessWe literally felt nothing. I do admit that you will feel the motors a bit in this room, but nothing that is difficult to handle or will prevent you from getting great sleep.


I hope that this review has been helpful of the Disney Dream 6192 Stateroom! Please let me know if you have any questions! I would be happy to answer them!
Published on October 14, 2016 12:14
October 13, 2016
How Your Smartphone Can Help You Manage Chronic Illness

Issuing Medical RemindersAnother important way mobile apps are helping chronic illness sufferers is reminding them when to take their medication, which is especially important for people who have to take a large number of different medications on different schedules. For instance, the Medisafe app helps both Android and Apple users remember when to take their pills. To use the app, you input all of your medications, their dosages and what they look like. You then can view a daily list showing all your medications and what time you should take them and can receive notifications when it’s time to take your pill. Heathline surveys some of today’s other leading medical reminder apps, which include Tabtime Vibe Vibrating Pill Timer Reminder, MedMinder, PillPack and e-pill’s Once-a-Day Reminder.
Tracking Your SymptomsWhen visiting your health professional for chronic health treatment, one of the challenges can be accurately answering questions about the frequency and severity of your symptoms, since most of us don’t systematically track this. Apps such as Manage My Paint Lite help address this. You can input your symptoms in order to automatically keep track of your pain over time and create reports designed for your doctor. Some apps such as CareZone take this a step further and integrate symptom monitoring with medication reminders, medical appointment schedule reminders, contact lists for doctors and pharmacies and other useful information.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Disclaimer: This is a sponsored post.
Published on October 13, 2016 03:00
October 12, 2016
starting the fifth fall

And sometimes... well sometimes life is a bittersweet mixture of both.
And for me, that is what starting the fifth fall feels like. It is the fifth fall (start of the 4th full year) since I have moved home to my parents house suspecting that I was dealing with more than "just" CFS/ME and Fibromyalgia. It is the fifth fall since my entire digestive system started to crash and I needed IV nutrients. It is the fifth fall since I gave up my independence, moved out of state, moved back home into my parents home, and then eventually (in the winter) became unable to walk with no explanation. It is the fifth fall away from the job that I love and desire to go back to(teaching). It is the fifth fall of seeing dreams shattered and delayed. It is the fifth fall that I have experienced extreme illness and pain. It is the fifth fall that I will spend time in a place that I will call "home" but we will all be displaced. It is the fifth fall that I am completely reliant on my parents, family, and friends for help in a variety of ways (including financial resources).

It's hard. It's discouraging. It's frustrating. It's nothing like what I planned or envisioned my life to be like. It's messy. It's painful. It's difficult... and the tears fall often.
In the midst of that there is beautiful hope in the ordinary... in the days where the difficult and the painful meet... there is beautiful blessings that reach out to grasp my heart in new ways. In the pain joy arrives encouraging me and gently reminding me of God's beautiful and tender grace to meet me in the pain and that I am not forgotten.

As we move out of the camp and woods that I so dearly love for the winter, we move into my grandmother's home... my parents completely displaced (sleeping on an air mattress in the living room), all of us sharing a tiny teeny home that was really meant for one person, my dad needing to step outside (even in the snow drifts of winter to take phone calls because there is hardly good phone reception), all of us learning to live with a lot less and everyone sacrificing to help me get better. It's hard. It's really hard sometimes... especially when Rebecca is often sick and there is not much space... but in this tiny teeny space and house... I have learned so much about love.
Love that is faithful and unbending. Love that doesn't walk away when life is tough. Love that believes in the bigness of God and the miracles He still performs today. Love that gently quotes scripture verses of encouragement to hurting hearts. Love that listens to God-filled music on replay again and again because it helps remind of us of truth. Love that chooses laughter in silly things over frustration. Love that comforts in pain. Love that chooses to believe and hope in all things.
I have been so changed by the beautiful love that surrounds me.


I well up with tears though at the goodness of the Lord. I have a wonderful doctor and medical team and they are fighting this journey with me. One day at a time friends (and sometimes one minute at a time) I will take this fight. The Lord is with me. He continues to provide wisdom and direction- even as recently as the end of the last week as bloodwork came in and we learned some new news. Surprising to me but not to the Lord. He is NEVER surprised by any of this.


Several years ago I came across Daniel 2:21 which states, :"He changes times and seasons...". This verse has been of particular comfort to me of late, reminding me that the Lord has a hand in all seasons and each day that is approaching is a gift.

"The people who survived the wars have found favor in the desert. The LORD appeared to me in a faraway place and said, “I love you with an everlasting love. So I will continue to show you my kindness. Once again I will build you up, and you will be rebuilt, my dear people Israel. Once again you will take your tambourines, and you will go dancing with happy people. Once again you will plant..."


Published on October 12, 2016 12:58
October 11, 2016
7 Tips for a Perfect Disney Dream Cruise Embarkation Experience

1. Don't Worry If You Didn't Have a Chance to Do the On-line Check In at HomeBefore you leave for your trip take the time to do the on-line check-in at home because it will not only save you the time of filling out the paperwork but will also allow you to pick a time to arrive at the port terminal for embarkation. But... if you don't have a chance to do it, don't worry! I will be frank though that we did not do this and we still had a wonderful check-in experience. We called the Disney Cruise Line Guest Services the night before and asked for their recommendation of a time to arrive. They were able to look at the times that were the busiest with people arriving and suggested a time of arrival for us. It was absolutely perfect. Honestly, I would do check-in online in the future, but also feel comfortable with the way that we did things!
2. Read and Follow Disney's Carry-on Luggage RequirementsDisney has specific size guidelines for their carry-on luggage. You can read all about the requirements on their website. Disney does allow you to bring alcohol on board the ship but you have to place it in your carry-on luggage to be inspected. You can find out more information about FAQ for Disney here.
3. The More Times you Sail with Disney the Shorter the LineThe more times that you sail on Disney cruises the shorter the wait line that you will have. For first-time cruisers with Disney you will need to expect a bit of a longer wait time, but for silver, gold, and platinum members your wait time will be quicker!
4. The Cash/Credit Card System at Check-InWhat I am about to share was one of my favorite things about the Disney Cruise. When you check in you have the option of leaving a credit card on file for all of the charges that will happen on the ship or you can request the "cash system" and decline leaving a credit card. With the "cash system" you will be given a certain amount of credit on board and then will go and pay your balance off (with cash or different credit cards) at guest relations.
Y'all this is brilliant. For those like myself who may save to go on vacation all of our little pennies and such or want to split the charges among a variety of cards this is your opportunity. You can go as many times as you want to guest services to keep your balance under the maximum limit and it works like a charm.
Another benefit to this system is that if you are traveling with friends or family members and want separate bills you can go to guest services and request this too. So many times in the past when I have cruised with friends and had my credit card down as the "secure payment" things never seemed to work out fairly one way or another and there would always be charges that I personally didn't do. At the end of the day this is fine and life moves on, but the system that Disney has is brilliant.
5. Minnie and Mickey Picture OpportunityMinnie and Mickey will be available at certain times throughout the terminal to take pictures with. This line is very long but can be a fun beginning to the trip! If you don't have time or can't make it don't worry. Minnie and Mickey are seen throughout the ship and will spend time even on Castaway Cay. Check your daily navigator guide schedule for places to be to meet up with them! (There is also a personal navigator app that you can download for free that will give you updates on the ship and activities that are happening!)
6. Embarkation is Extremely Disability FriendlyThe Disney terminal and the embarkation process is extremely disability friendly. The lines are extra wide so that wheelchairs can be easily accommodated and there are plenty of couches, chairs, etc. to sit on if you are tired and need a break. Everyone is extremely friendly so don't be afraid to ask for help if you need some!
7. Disney Magic From the moment that you ride the escalator up to the terminal the Disney magic is everywhere. There is Disney music playing, staff members are extremely gracious and helpful, and there are even TV areas playing different Disney movies. The beautiful Disney magic is amazing and is something that sets this embarkation experience apart from the rest.
Like I said at the beginning, boarding the Disney Dream was wonderful and one of the best embarkation experiences I have ever had (you can read all about it here). I hope that these tips have been helpful! What about you? Have you sailed with Disney before and have any tips for a perfect Disney embarkation experience?
Published on October 11, 2016 03:00
October 10, 2016
Disney Dream Ship Review


The Disney Dream first sailed in 2011 and like its sister ship, the Disney Fantasy, represented the Disney corporation stepping into a season of bolder and bigger ships. While Disney kept the same classic inspired design of the ocean liners of the 1920s and 1930s there were tons of new features and spaces.





















One of the things that was an absolute treat was the way that the staff interacted with people. We were incredibly impressed with not only the friendly nature of the staff, but the joy that they obviously had for working for Disney. The overall service was the best that I had ever experienced so far on a cruise. The staff truly went above and behind to accommodate different requests that we and others had. It was exceptional.












If you are a huge Disney fan (or members of your family are) than a Disney cruise is an obvious choice to consider. But if you are hesitating due to the cost or wondering if it is really worth all of the hype, I can't say often enough that it is. Whether you are a family with young kiddos, have teenagers, or are just adults that want to go on a wonderful and first class service cruise you will not regret this choice at all. It has honestly been my favorite cruise to date and the service and the extras were a beautiful gift. There were numerous times that I would turn to my sister and say- Disney has this down to perfection in every way.


Published on October 10, 2016 05:26
October 8, 2016
Boarding the Disney Dream







We quickly headed to our stateroom to drop off our carry-ons and were amazed at the room and our gorgeous views! The rest of our day was spent grabbing a yummy lunch, attending the muster station drill, the embarkation send-off, getting ready for dinner, dinner, and seeing a Disney show. It was a full and beautiful day!


















Published on October 08, 2016 05:46
October 7, 2016
Boarding Outfit for Disney Cruise



JCrew Anchor Scarf (Similar here)
Vintage Navy Polka Dot Skirt (Similar here)ASOS Oversized 70s sunglasses
Vintage Gold Circle Necklace & Vintage Gold Circle Earrings (Similar here)
ASOS White WatchJCrew Navy Striped Seville Wedges (Similar here)
Choosing a boarding outfit for a cruise is always a ton of fun! When I thought about what I wanted to wear for boarding for our Disney Cruise I knew I wanted something that was casual but cute. I loved the final outfit and LOVED how easy and fun Disney made the entire boarding process! It was definitely a dream!

Happy Friday friends!
Published on October 07, 2016 14:50
October 6, 2016
The 9 Benefits of Eating Pumpkins

1. Eating pumpkins helps Protect your Eyesight.
Studies have shown that if you eat a cup of cooked pumpkin it contains more than 200% of your suggested daily intake of Vitamin A. Vitamin A is one of the key vitamins to help your eyesight according to the National Institutes of Health. In addition to this pumpkins are also rich in carotenoids which is full of Beta-Carotene, which the body will convert into a form of Vitamin A. (An additional side note: Beta-Carotene is also an excellent anti-oxidant in safe doses so it will help your immune system!)
2. Eating Pumpkins aids in Weight Loss.
Pumpkins are full of fiber which helps to keep you feeling full longer. At an amazing 7 grams of fiber per cup and super low in calories (like their fall friend apples), pumpkins are an excellent choice of food to aid in your weight loss plans.
3. Eating Pumpkins can help Reduce your Blood Sugar.
One of the amazing things about pumpkins is that research is now showing that pumpkin oil can be beneficial in preventing hypertension.
4. Eating Pumpkins may Help Prevent Cancer.
As I mentioned in #1, the Beta-Carotene that is present in Pumpkins helps to boost the immune system. In addition to this Beta-Carotene may help play a role in Cancer Prevention according to the National Cancer Institute.
5. Eating Pumpkins may Help Improve your Mood.
Pumpkin seeds are rich in a particular amino acid called tryptophan. This amino acid is extremely helpful in the production of serotonin which research has shown helps control our moods.
6. Eating Pumpkins will help Boost your Potassium.
Just like bananas are known for their potassium levels, Pumpkins are also helpful. In fact, pumpkins have more potassium at 564 milligrams than bananas do. Potassium will help restore the body's electrolyte balance and helps our muscles to function at their best.
7. Eating Pumpkins may Help Patients with Diabetes.
Recent studies are showing that pumpkins help to reduce blood glucose levels, help improve glucose tolerance and even help increase the amount of insulin that the body is producing. These studies are in the infant stages, but it will be interesting to see if overtime they show promise of helping patients.
8. Eating Pumpkins helps to Protect Your Heart.
A Harvard study of over 40,000 participants found that those who ate a diet that is rich in fiber (like the amount that pumpkins hold) had a significant lower risk of coronary heart disease. A recent study done in Sweden showed that women who ate a diet high in fiber had a 25% lower risk of heart disease.
9. Eating Pumpkins helps to treat Intestinal Parasites.
According to Debbie Edson from Living Well Magazine, pumpkin seeds can help your body get rid of nasty gut parasites that make us sick. Interestingly enough, Pumpkin seeds have been used for this exact purpose by Native Americans and in some parts of Africa Pumpkin seeds are used to treat tapeworms.
Isn't that amazing friends? Those are just 9 benefits of eating pumpkins and there are so many more! What about y'all? Do you eat pumpkins or pumpkin seeds? What health benefits have you found from eating them?
{Disclaimer: The information included on this site is for educational purposes only. It is not intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice. The reader should always consult his or her health care provider to determine the appropriateness of the information for their own situation or if they have any questions regarding a medical condition or treatment plan. Reading the information on this website does not create a physician-patient relationship.}
Published on October 06, 2016 07:16
October 4, 2016
10 Tips for Enjoying Disneyworld with a Chronic Illness






I will be frank- I hadn't thought much about the temperatures when I made plans to visit and the heat for me was extremely difficult. This wiped what precious little energy that I had and made things more difficult. The flip side though is that September is an amazing time to visit because the lines were so short. I think the longest that my sister and I waited in line was 10 minutes and the day that I went with friends the longest they waited in line was about 45 minutes for the Dwarfs Mine Train Ride which was still awesome. Having such a short wait time was an amazing gift! The park was the least filled I had ever seen it and that was precious as we were able to basically just walk on to any ride. Thinking through and making these decisions about the best dates to visit for you personally ahead of time will be the foundation for having a great visit to Disneyworld.




The "My Disney Experience App" can also be a huge help with planning out a route for your time in the parks and at the resorts. You can do everything on that app and it helps so much in the planning. It is easy to use and navigate and kept everything so up to date and it is totally free. It was wonderful! You can find out more about the app by clicking HERE.




If you are in need of a wheelchair Disney has Wheelchair Rentals available at all of the theme parks and water parks and even at Disney Springs. You can find out more about the Wheelchair rentals HERE. I will give those of you a heads up about this though that I learned in talking with some of the Disney staff: (1) You can't take the wheelchair to the different parks - you have to leave it at one park and then pick up a new wheelchair at a different park. If you are using a hopper pass this can create a few glitches because (2) the wheelchairs are on a first-come first-serve basis. The staff that I spoke to assured me that there are lots of wheelchairs available, but during peak season this can be an issue. You, of course, are allowed to bring your own wheelchair into the park.
Another side note about Handicap Parking: the parking is close, but there is not a tram that takes you to the front of the park like other parking lots. So you will have to do a bit of walking.

Disney has several quick-service, buffets, sit-down, etc. restaurants that have dietary restriction offers, but many restaurants will work with you if you call ahead of time or place your order on-line. You can find out more about this by clicking HERE. Have questions and want to discuss several things ahead of time? You can email the Special Dietary staff who will be happy to help you. You can find out their contact information by clicking HERE. By planning this out a head of time you will be able to really enjoy your time without paying for it later which will help you have a wonderful time at Disneyworld!

"Courage, Dear Heart"
No one at the park might know what a act of courage it is to step out, leave your surroundings that are helping you fight for your health, and take this time to grab a hold of life, but know that you can do it. Take the chance. Take the time to celebrate life. Take the time to remember what you are fighting so hard for in your fight for your health. You can do this. If there is one thing that is preached again and again and again at Disney it is to have courage. Go and be reminded of this.



Also- be up front with those whom you are traveling with to Disneyworld and encourage them to go and do things while you rest. My sweet friends Ali and Kori didn't want to leave me at first when I insisted they go on a couple of rides without me. I treasured their sweet spirits and the way that they didn't want to hurt my feelings by leaving me, but honestly seeing them go gave me a gift! I was so happy that they could go and ride a couple of rides that I can't and on the flip side it gave me a few moments to sit in the shade, rest, and re-group.





I am sure so many of us have heard- "just think positively and you will have a wonderful vacation-you won't feel pain or sickness at all". That would be awesome, but the reality is that many times we will experience pain or sickness because we are still in our bodies. That is okay!
Don't let times of sickness and pain ruin your visit. I remember several years ago, on my first cruise I went on while I was sick having a breakdown the first day on the shore excursion because I realized that I needed to sit and not explore all of the Atlantis property. It was frustrating, sad, and hard to realize that I still had limitations even though I was on "vacation". Having the opportunity to cry and release some of those expectations allowed me to enjoy the rest of the cruise with a more realistic lens. The next day, when friends were going snorkeling in Coco Cay (something that I loved to do before I got sick) my heart wanted to jump and join them but I quietly declined and watched from my chair. Instead of wallowing in self-pity though I watched with joy as my friends explored the water and thanked God that I was well enough to have even got off the boat to enjoy a very special day with my friends. What was a "typical or normal day" to many people was the highlight of many months to me.
I share this to say- that it is okay to cry and have a few moments of grieving for what you want instead of what you have at the moment. I was surprised at how much grief I felt in someways walking around Disney as I realized that the last time I had been there I had been so much healthier. That is okay. Accept your limitations, cry if you need to, find the joy in the day and the time, and have a backup plan.
When my sister and I went I was so exhausted due to the heat that we ended up cutting our time shorter than we had planned in the parks. I went back and rested while my sister went and grabbed food and spent some time in Disney Springs. I was sad that I missed out on those couple of hours, but it was okay. I knew that by resting I was able to fully enjoy future time with her that was precious.
Take some extra time to rest and relax and join up with your companions later in the day. Most importantly, take a deep breath. Nothing is ruined- keep the joy and faith, even in the difficult times.

What about you? What tips do you have for enjoying Disney with a Chronic Illness?------------------------------------------------------------------------------------A huge thank you to Disneyworld for the tickets for my sister and I to enjoy the park and for me to have the opportunity to write about my different experiences. It was a gift that was beyond beautiful!
Published on October 04, 2016 06:26
October 2, 2016
When Truth Refreshes (Releasing December 1st, 2016)

This book, "When Truth Refreshes", is the first and only Lyme patient specific book that focuses on finding truth and hope from scripture for the emotions that accompany the Lyme Disease Journey. There are 31 different emotions covered in this book to match the days of the months of the year. Each days devotion has a portion of scripture, a short reflection, a prayer, an inspiring quote, and highlights a specifically chosen song that relates to the emotion being discussed. "When Truth Refreshes" can be used as simple encouragement to those struggling through the emotional minefield of Lyme or as a guided daily devotional. Either way, "When Truth Refreshes" will provide spiritual encouragement and offer truth and hope for the emotions that accompany this journey.
I started writing this specific book in December 2013 so the timing of the release date brings a smile to my face. At the time I was deeply struggling with loneliness and grief, fear, frustration, anger, hopefulness and hopelessness in addition to a myriad of other emotions when a stack of beautiful letters arrived at my front door from some former students. These letters (which I have carried with me in a special notebook and are tattered right now) spoke beautiful truth of God's love, His power to do the impossible, and His never ending mercies for each morning. Several months later, in April 2014 I had the brief opportunity to try to thank these beautiful ladies for their gift. Honestly, I was so overwhelmed with emotion of seeing these dear ladies, being back in my former classroom, and being with my former students and staff members that I loved so much that my words were so choppy and bumbled I wish I could do the entire day again. From the precious words of encouragement and love that I received afterwords, I knew though that my heart had been heard and that was a beautiful gift to my soul.
Visiting in April 2014 renewed my desire to write a book on the topic of the emotions that accompany the Lyme Disease journey and the hope that comes from the truth of scripture on this topic. Truth had met me in deep ways when I visited my old school. I saw clearly the beautiful hope that is found in history and the beautiful truth of from the book of Psalms:
"Those who are wise will take heart, they will see in History the faithful love of the Lord."
Throughout the last couple of years I continued to write this book, more than on the slips of papers, napkins, mediation bags, doctors notes, and lab results, but on my heart. Over the course of time in hospitals, doctors offices, treatment sessions, from my bed when I couldn't sit up, the theme of this book and the truth that I was writing was being imprinted on my heart and soul.
While I had originally planned to have this book released in 2018, I realized after a beautiful conversation with my dearest friend Katie a couple of weeks ago that the time was now. The book was already completed and if I was honest my reasoning for waiting was more out of fear or pride- either way, I once again was learning that I needed the beautiful truth of this book in my own heart again.
I came across this quote by Paul David Tripp earlier this year and this summer the Lord has brought it to mind again and again, especially in finishing up the last edits of this book:
"Every day you preach to yourself a gospel of your loneliness, inability, and lack of resources or you faithfully preach to yourself the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ."
I need to do this. I needed this book. I needed to be reminded of the truth of the gospel and the hope that comes from that. I need to preach to myself the gospel of Jesus Christ and the tender mercy that meets me in my emotional distress.
The timing of finalizing things with this book release and finishing up last minute items with this book has not been lost on me. This journey through this disease has brought a myriad of different emotions: excitement at the progress of healing that I am slowly experiencing, joy at finding a wonderful and experienced medical team to help me, anger over the lack of understanding and support in the political arena of Lyme, discouragement at the extreme lack of energy I have and the way that fighting Lyme Disease prohibits me from living life fully the way that I wish I could, regret, anger, frustration, and sometimes hopelessness at feeling this journey will never end.
These past 7 weeks alone brought unexpected changes and this week's decision to halt and stop some treatment and news that was completely unexpected to me and another delay in this long road of healing is enough to bring on the deep emotional waves. My heart was broken again and I have cried more tears, found myself discouraged again, and have laid out my broken heart once again to the One who loves me more than life.
But this past week in many ways is once again reflective of the entire journey... and in many ways life. Our emotions can shift and change and there can be times of hardship and grief and times of highs and joy but truth refreshes even the weariest of emotional droughts.
As I approach another anniversary of when this season began and everything was shattered, I look back on the now tear-stained pages of my Bible with a soft smile. An understanding of truth that has refreshed my soul. Of knowing how my emotions have been met with grace and love and hope, especially on days where I felt I could do nothing but weep.
My prayer with this little book is that it will encourage anyone who reads it, lead them to scripture, remind them that they are not alone in this fight, and gently remind them that the God of hope and truth is very present and active in this often emotional journey.
May the Lord bless you abundantly dear friends and give you strength for the journey's before you and may we find everlasting hope in our ever present and faithful Savior.
"Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long."
-Psalm 25:5-
Published on October 02, 2016 06:33