8 Rules of Love Quotes

“a choice: we can either change our mindset or change what we don’t like.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“When we aren’t looking for them to validate our tastes and choices, we can appreciate their kind words without being misled or distracted by them.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Confidence is important in a relationship because it helps us talk to the person we like without seeking their approval or hinging our self-esteem on their reaction.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“confidence as a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Once we are comfortable in solitude, we can work on our confidence.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“The activities you choose and what you learn about yourself from those activities will expand your self-awareness and help you make the most of the time you spend alone.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Knowing more about ourselves and what we enjoy helps us feel comfortable in solitude”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Love grows by practice, there’s no other way.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“If you want to treat yourself, you could make plans to go someplace you’ve never been before, or arrange a birthday celebration for yourself, or dress beautifully for an upcoming event. If you want to feel respected at work, you could decide that you’re going to make a list for your own benefit of everything you contributed to a project. We think of feeling appreciated, respected, and loved as core needs in a relationship, but when we attend to these needs for ourselves in small ways every day, then we don’t have to wait for our partner to deliver them through a grand gesture.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Why wait for someone else to make you feel good? And that’s why it’s so deeply important that we heal ourselves, taking charge of that process instead of shifting blame and responsibility to a partner.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“We want to fill our own gaps.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“The more that I’ve detached myself from the things that I thought would make me happy like money and fame and other people’s opinions, the more truth is being revealed.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“The supporter is an ideal to strive for. Both partners communicate as equals. Your partner is always teaching you, but you are always teaching them. And when you both understand that you’re both teaching and learning at the same time, that’s when you create a partnership.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“being self-aware means you can temper your weaknesses and play to your strengths.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“solitude is the foundation on which we build our love.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Loneliness makes us rush into relationships; it keeps us in the wrong relationships; and it urges us to accept less than we deserve. We”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“when we’re afraid of being single, we’re more likely to settle for less satisfying relationships”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Will I ever find love” is the most popular question people ask about their futures. This question reveals our insecurity, our fear, our anxiety around loneliness, and these very feelings prevent us from finding love.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“how to understand, appreciate, and cooperate with another mind, another set of values and preferences.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“Alone, we learn to understand ourselves, to heal our own pain, and to care for ourselves.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“we prepare for love by learning how to love ourselves in solitude.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“We can’t know where and when we’ll find love, but we can prepare for it and practice what we’ve learned when we find it.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“love has stages, that love is a process, and that we all desire to love and be loved.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“We tend to base success in relationships on how long they last, but their actual value lies in how much we learn and grow from them.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“the greatest pursuit of human life is to love and to be loved.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

“but the only way we can keep it alive is through consistent care and attention. Love is a daily effort.”
― Jay Shetty, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go