Clarity & Connection Quotes

“taking a moment
to figure out
how you really feel
instead of letting
old patterns decide for you
is one of the most
authentic things you can do”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“time does not heal all wounds; it just gives them space to sink into the subconscious, where they will continue to impact your emotions and behavior. what heals is going inward, loving yourself, accepting yourself, listening to your needs, addressing your attachments and emotional history, learning how to let go, and following your intuition.”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“your vibration is always shining and affecting your environment.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“throw away the idea that healing is forgetting the real result is no longer reacting to old triggers with the same intensity as before the memories are still there, but they do not have the same power over your mind”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“the goal is not to heal
and then begin your life
the goal is to embrace healing
as a life long journey and allow
genuine connections
to emerge organically
along the way.”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“gratitude makes you happy attachment makes you struggle gentleness reveals inner wisdom harshness reveals inner turbulence calmness supports good decisions solitude supports transformation”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“we feel so safe with the ones we love that we often share with them our tension, our stress, our fear, our sadness, and even our anger but let us remember to also give them the best version of ourselves, our joy and happiness, our excitement and peace, our attention and care”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“maturity is knowing that when your mood is down you should not trust the way you see yourself”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“ask yourself: is this how i actually feel, or is this my emotional history trying to recreate the past?”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“being okay with not being okay helps you let go”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“ask yourself:
is the connection real if there is no space to be vulnerable?”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“many of our emotional reactions do not have to do with what is currently going on. they are actually old emotions accumulated from the past—patterns that arise when familiar situations appear.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“is easier to let go of someone’s opinion of you when you understand that others see you through a combination of their past conditioning and their current emotional state without realizing it, they see themselves first, and through that lens they get an unclear picture of you”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“feeling emotionally exhausted is common after opening up deeply or after experiencing a series of heightened emotions for an extended period of time. be prepared to take the quiet time and solitude you need to fully rejuventate. you are allowed to not be serious all of the time.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“maturity in a relationship is not expecting to always be on the same schedule.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“sometimes a person ends a good relationship because the areas they think are bad are being intensified by their personal issues that they have not dealt with properly. sometimes people break apart a home because they are unaware of their projections and are not ready to appreciate a good thing.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“six signs of maturity: being open to vulnerability, learning, and letting go seeing more perspectives than just your own accepting responsibility for your happiness prioritizing practices that help you grow pausing to think instead of reacting”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“your initial reaction is usually your past trying to impose itself on your present”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“find a partner you do not have to perform for. when you are both committed to honesty and have active compassion for each other, there is no need to behave in ways that are not genuine. true love is welcoming each other’s changing emotions with open arms. though you are both dedicated to becoming the best versions of yourselves, you also understand that not every day will be a good day and not every step will be a step forward. being in a relationship with a high degree of authenticity and gentleness allows both partners to let down their guards and feel at home.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“find a partner who is not afraid to grow. if they are ready to notice their patterns, let go of old conditioning, and expand their perspective, then they will be ready to support a vibrant relationship. two people who are working on knowing and loving themselves as individuals will naturally deepen their love and understanding of each other.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“one of the clearest signs of personal growth is greater self-love, self-awareness, and love for all people.”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“you do not need a partner to feel whole you do not need to have everything figured out to feel successful you do not need to be fully healed to feel peace you do not need to be fully wise to feel happy embracing yourself as you are reinforces your worth and decreases the friction in your mind”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“sometimes you need to move slowly so you can then move powerfully”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“you cannot build a deep connection with someone who is disconnected from themselves.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“there may be times when you feel like a lot of what you’ve understood no longer makes sense. this might make you feel as though you have regressed, but it is actually a sign that you are opening new space for deeper wisdom and greater perception. when your previous understandings disintegrate, they are not always immediately replaced by better or deeper understandings. when you take your growth seriously, you will often find yourself in this in-between state; it is okay to live without clear answers. growth is not about forcing understanding; it is about allowing it”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“we never wanted to argue, but it kept happening because that is what hearts do when they are overflowing with old pain”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“emotional maturity is knowing the difference between your true needs and temporary cravings”
― yung pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“next time you feel agitated because you are falling back into past patterns, remember that simply being aware that you are repeating the past is a sign of progress”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“one of the greatest gifts we can give each other is selfless listening, which is hearing someone’s truth without projecting one’s own emotion or story onto it—literally receiving another’s perspective with complete acceptance.”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection

“reclaiming your power is noticing when a story based on assumptions is making your mind tense and intentionally bringing yourself back to the present moment as a way to cut the delusion it is not about managing your emotions; it is about managing your reactions to your emotions”
― Yung Pueblo, Clarity & Connection