This Girl's Got an Ex Quotes

“If you announce to your ex that you have made the decision to no longer talk to him, he's going to view it as a tactic to get him back. Your chances of getting him back will then be slim.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“Love is blind, and your blindness might have hidden red flags and glaring issues. No matter how wonderful you think he is, never rule out the possibility that there is someone else better than him.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“Understand that any urge or desire to contact him will do more harm than good. It won't take the pain away - it only allows another opportunity for him to be in control. He is dictating the direction of the relationship, and you want to change that.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“A Girl with Game does not take classic revenge on her exes, we do not blast them on social media or destroy their prized possessions. Instead, we use our wit and charisma to make him suffer. It is true that the best revenge is loving yourself.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“Although breakups are painful, falling to pieces also means that you can put yourself back together. This breakup can allow both of you to work on each of your issues. When you’re by yourself, you have the chance to make choices without outside influence from your partner. This will help you develop more insight into who you are as a woman and what you want from a man.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“When there is an increase in your self-respect and a decrease in your lack of interest in him, it puts you back in control. When you suggest, by your actions, that you are indifferent about whether he comes back or not, it functions as a trigger. If your ex doesn't know what you are thinking or what your next move will be, he will respect you and treat you with more consideration.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“Women have evolved, and we are starting to recognize our strength and the influence that comes with it. We are beginning to realize that in this day and age, submissiveness does not allow us to have the upper hand, but obtaining the respect of a man does.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“Keeping your emotions in check gives you the advantage.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“In times of danger, a person's instinct is flight or fight, to either run away from a situation or defend oneself. After a breakup, a woman's emotions take control, and her instinct is to Fix or Force.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“A breakup will test your self-control and reveal your strength like nothing else.”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“When anger sets in, embrace it. Fury means that you have let go of some of your self-blame and fear. When you're able to tap into your rage, the experience can be empowering. Getting angry means you are acknowledging that you deserve more from a relationship”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost

“If he has called it a "break," it is nothing more than a strategic move on his part. He wants to be free to do as he pleases while still maintaining control over you. This action is a cowardly move to break up with you in the long run. This break allows him to still gain the benefits from you until the time is right for him. So, if he has asked for a break, treat it like a breakup”
― Leandra De Andrade, This Girl's Got an Ex: A Smart Girl’s Guide to Getting an ex Back and Making him Realize What he’s Lost