Dealing with People You Can't Stand Quotes

“إن الأشخاص الذين يعتقدون أن كل شيء ممكن هم القادرون على الاكتشاف والابداع”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“قد لا تكسب كل معركة، ولكنك تستطيع أن تكسب مزيداً من الاحترام !”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“بعد مئة عام من الآن، ماذا ستعني هذه المشكلة؟”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“إن الاغصان التي تنحني بفعل الثلوج تعيش حتى ترى شتاءً آخر”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“ان الكلمات باعتراف الجميع سهل قولها، ولكن العسير هو قولها باخلاص”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“لسوء الحظ، لا ينسى احد ابداً ما حدث”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“عندما تتعرض مجهودات شخص للحصول على التقدير للإحباط بسبب عدم مبالاة الآخر، فقد يتحول هذا الشخص إلى "القنبلة الموقوتة”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“القناصة لا يستطيعون التصيد لو لم تسمح لهم بالاختباء”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“أداء الأشخاص الى حد ما يرقى أو ينحدر إلى مستوى توقعات الآخرين بالنسبة لهم”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“إن المخاوف الغامضة والمشاعر السلبية تتعارض مع التفكير الواضح”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“إن كراهية أناس يكرهون أنفسهم هي بمثابة سكب المزيد من البنزين على نيرانهم المتأججة بالفعل، بينما المطلوب هو بعض التفكير الهادئ والتصرف السلس.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“بعض الناس يخفون شعورهم بالدونية لمدة عشرة سنوات قبل ان ينفجروا غاضبين”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“التوقيت قد يكون مهماً، والتوقيت المناسب يتطلب صبراً”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“لو أن التندر حقيقة يؤذيك تعلم أن تصبح سيداً لا يقهر على ردود فعلك”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“الصمت اذا يمكن ان يكون نوعاً من العدوانية المغطاة”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“There are attitudinal changes that you can make in yourself that will set you free from your reactions to problem people.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“complaining to people who can do nothing tends to lower morale and productivity, while postponing effective action.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“في العالم الحقيقي، لا يحب كل الناس السخرية، أو ليس لديهم القدرة على الضحك على استهزاء كان يعرف طريقه جيداً”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“لا يتعاون أحد مع شخص يبدو مناهضاًُ له”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“The first step is to decide what you want. What attitude will help you get along with your difficult people? Do you want to be calm? Confident? Assertive? Relaxed? Caring? Patient? Determined? A combination of these? Give the resource a description name. If you name it, you can have it.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“When People Are at Their Worst Your Goal: Project and Expect the Best ACTION PLAN 1. Use Pygmalion Power. 2. Give the benefit of the doubt. 3. Appreciate criticism.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“When you verbally appreciate people who are criticizing you, you’re letting go of the need to defend, explain, or justify your behavior. You”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“And whenever your difficult people behave in a manner that you would like to see repeated, learn to say, “That’s one of the things I like about you. You ...,” and describe their positive behavior as a way of reinforcing their identification with it.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“Other studies have similarly revealed that to some degree, people rise or fall to the level of others’ expectations.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“ACTION PLAN 1. Monitor your tone of voice. 2. State your positive intent. 3. Tactfully interrupt interruptions. 4. Tell your truth. 5. Be ready to listen.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“Remember, you get what you reward in relationships. When people make an effort to change, acknowledgment of their progress is a reward to them. People turn to appreciation like leaves turn to the sun. So when you see or hear people engaging in different behaviors, make sure you acknowledge them for it. And if they fall back into the old behaviors over time, take the time to offer a gentle reminder of who they are and what they’re capable of, based on the better behavior you have observed.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“Whenever you speak to be understood, your communications will inevitably have an influence on your problem people. If they become defensive, be willing to temporarily drop what you are saying and totally focus on their reaction to it. Do your best to fully understand by backtracking, clarifying, summarizing, and confirming.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“Show them how their behavior is self-defeating. To create self-motivation for change, you have to show them how something important to them is lost because of their behavior.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“Be specific about the problem behavior.”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

“Use “I” language. “From my point of view” and “The way I see it” are softening phrases that take the fight out of your words. They tell your difficult people that what you’re expressing is your truth, rather than claiming to be the truth. This”
― Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst