The Having Quotes

“Use Having signals. A green light means to spend and a red light means to stop what you’re doing. When it is a green signal, you will feel natural and comfortable. Think how natural it is to do what you truly want. It’s as easy as water flowing. A red light is worry and discomfort, anxiety and concern. If you act contrary to your inner voice, of course your mind and body will be uncomfortable.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Good fortune and efficiency are closely related concepts. They help you get what you want more quickly and easily than you would through effort alone.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“The biggest problem for many people comes when their anxiety suddenly throws a boat that had been traveling in the right direction off course. Then, the more they struggle to redirect it, the more likely the boat will hit a rock, get caught up in a storm, or gradually drift away from its destination.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Our future is like cookie dough. Different possibilities exist in it. The energy we observe, perceive, and feel with our emotions is what shapes the dough. And when that completed dough is baked, it becomes reality in front of us. The shape in which the cookies are made and baked depends on our hands.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Real rich people know how to bring in more money with the same amount of effort. It’s a matter of efficiency.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Living in the moment, that’s the first step to Having.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“It is this moment that we should feel and focus on. Having must begin right now. It’s not the future, but the present.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“If we’ve sowed the seeds of good fortune in our unconscious minds, we’ll harvest their fruit when the time comes without fail.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“the sun is always there, even when we're turned around. Just by changing our direction, we can enjoy the sunshine at anytime”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“She had analyzed more than 100,000 cases of wealthy people and integrated the results to discover the secret to wealth.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“You are the one who can break out of the Matrix. No one can do it for you. You’re almost there. Just a step farther and everything will be faster and easier than you imagine.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Having is like the Star of Bethlehem here. It’ll also minimize your fear and anxiety.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Believe it or not, you’ve already started to break the walls of your prison. You’ve removed the hoses sucking away energy.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“The real world outside the Matrix isn’t the world you’ve perceived so far. In the real world, you hear real voices and can release your potential and change the world as you like. That’s what true rich people have done. To them, every day is a festival they live as their true selves.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Most people accept a mechanistic worldview without thinking about it. They choose to live as little cogs inside a world they see as a huge factory. Their potential is shackled from early on and the limits to how much they can earn in their lifetime are already drawn. They think they need to control their greed and make sacrifices, and that only then can they overcome poverty.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Fixed ideas about emotions aren’t a scientific truth, but just conventional wisdom. The problem is when people get caught up in them. Fixed ideas are bound up with particular feelings, so they make it look like there’s nothing there but an already closed door. They make you unable to see another door that you’d see wide open beside you if you’d only turn your head.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Often something sweet given at a critical time becomes poisonous later, or something typically considered a misfortune gives the person a chance to be reborn.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Fixed ideas are a lens through which you catch a glimpse of your own mind, and they destroy the road to wealth.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“It’s never too late. The good fortune Having brings doesn’t discriminate based on age.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“There is a Buddhist term that means ‘mutual pecking’. It means that as a chick pecks from inside its egg, the mother hen simultaneously pecks the shell from outside to break it. All of your pain in Saturn Return helps you break out of your egg. When you break through your shell to come out into the real world, you can use fortune to the utmost to change your life.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Saturn Returns usually happen between ages twenty-eight and thirty and fifty-eight and sixty. Those are the ages at which you lose your illusions and mistaken ways of thinking to take great steps forward. If this time is used well, you can take a quantum leap. If you can focus on your inner voice through Having at these ages, the effects will be dramatically greater.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“The reason people fall into bad relationships is that their expectations are too high. Just wanting to get things from other people blinds you. If, on the other hand, you have the attitude that ‘I’ll be the first to give’ or ‘I’ll give more than I get’, you can avoid bad relationships and enter good ones.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“People need to treat valuable relationships as precious, but if that attitude spills over to bad relationships, misfortune will follow. In a lot of cases, people’s good or bad fortune is decided by their relationships with others. Just as good fortune comes through gui-in, misfortune comes through bad relationships.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Coexistence means investing in your own financial fortune, so you need to pay close attention to it. You can’t invest in someone who’s a mess. The technique is simple. Just follow the directions of the Having signals.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“The highest level of Having is coexistence. Coexistence means that if I give first, the energy of the universe returns to bring me greater good fortune.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“The present defines the past. The past is a valuable asset when it leads you to realizations in the present. Besides, gratitude will bring you greater good fortune. The science of good fortune teaches us that happiness brings success rather than vice versa.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Rich people put the idea that they have money into their minds. Our brains choose the flow of fortune, depending on what commands you put into them.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Unconscious minds create flows of fortune that benefit us and that we can follow. The world of fortune isn’t like a weather forecast that tells you whether rain will come or not. If we’ve sowed the seeds of good fortune in our unconscious minds, we’ll harvest their fruit when the time comes without fail.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“Upturn, that’s the flow of fortune. Good fortune means going with that flow. People going with the flow of fortune are rowing in the direction of the current, so they accelerate much more compared to the effort they put in. It’s no different on the road to wealth. You can become rich much more efficiently with the same amount of effort.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich

“If you’re starting to realize that your energy is low because you think you don’t have money, firmly reject the idea. Don’t let that happen.”
― Suh Yoon Lee, The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich