Finding Fatherhood Quotes

“Even sorrow has its silver lining, as the emotion that pours forth reminds us of our
capacity to love, and to be loved.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“Enjoying Life’s Pace:
Waiting really shouldn’t be an occupation…things will happen when they happen and not one minute sooner.

That is the way of life; it runs at its own pace.

Enjoy as many minutes as you can.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“If you can’t be happy about everything, then just be happy about something, or some thing. Surely there is one thing in your life, at the very least, that you are happy about— perhaps as simple as being happy you have the ability to read these words and understand the concept proposed.

Some people are happy at just being alive. I know I am. It sure beats the alternative.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“What makes a good father? A good father sets an example that his children want to follow. A good father provides for the needs of his children—both material and non-material. A good father demonstrates his love in both words and actions. A good father provides guidance in a positive fashion.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“Both joy and sorrow serve as gauges for love: our love for others, and their love for us.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“So, what is my concept of a perfect life?

Doing something you love, being in the company of someone you love, while all material needs are satisfied. (Hmmm…sounds almost too simple, yet it does sound like the correct formula for me.)

Let’s try to simplify: Enjoyment, Love, Satisfaction.

I truly believe that each of these core elements not only apply to our relationship with others and the world around us, but more importantly to our relationship with our self. That is likely one of the keys to personal fulfillment: enjoying the person you are, loving the person you are and being satisfied with the person you are.

If you are not, something must change before you start worrying about gaps or missing elements regarding your relationship to the world around you. Too often, people go chasing elusive relationships and opportunities, seeking enjoyment, love and satisfaction without first attending to their relationship with their self.

Start with the core, before searching for more.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“I am a proud father in the accomplishments of my son, who fills my heart with joy and my mind with favourable wonderings. He enhances my purpose on this wondrous planet.

Parents, be aware that not only are you a model for your children, but in some fashions they are models for you— taking life easy, with a spirit of adventure. Encourage your kids to be kids!”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“Silver linings abound: I always knew I loved my son, but you certainly get a “perspective-check” when you go through a parting like that. His despair is tough to bear witness to, but reinforces how dearly he loves me. It strengthens my already tough resolve to remain as a positive influence in his life, despite the geographic distance between us.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood

“I would encourage any absentee fathers to consider, for the sake of their children, the following:
– maintain the bond of love;
– seek the silver lining;
– provide guidance as best you can;
– and have fun together!

These rewards of fatherhood are entirely in YOUR hands.”
― Rob Kozak, Finding Fatherhood