The Secret of Letting Go Quotes

“You must learn to stop thinking in terms of beginnings and endings, successes and failures, and begin to treat everything in your life as a learning experience instead of a proving one.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Our greatest strength isn't our ability to imagine brighter days ahead, it is that we are empowered-in every present moment-to effortlessly dismiss any dark thought or feeling that, left unattended, diminishes our happiness.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“But you can't be saying I should walk away from everything I have worked for all my life?"
"No, I am not. What I am saying is that we need to take a much closer look at what we have been calling our life."
"To what purpose?"
"To see if it is really ours. Once we know what is authentically our own, then we also know what to keep and protect and what to let go.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Never again help anyone to feel as though they have a right to feel badly.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Our problem is that we’re sure we have to do something to be free. Strangely enough, the only thing between us and a life without limits is this mistaken idea.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“My son, a true king is never concerned with what his subjects bring him, whether bags of silver or bags of straw, because he knows he possesses the entire kingdom. Look beyond this stage: everything is yours; it always has been.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Secret Self knows the anguish of our attachments and assures us that letting go of what we think we must have to be happy is the same as letting go of our unhappiness.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Begin with the higher fact that you are not here on earth to live up to anyone’s expectations—including your own. There is something much higher for you to be in this life than to spend your days doing what only strains and drains you. Your True Self knows that there is only one supreme command: you need never answer any demand that causes you pain or that asks you to sacrifice your integrity.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Then, rather than trying to change others to suit our needs, our choice would be to simply drop this false idea that someone else is responsible for our fulfillment.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Notre besoin d'être forts nous pousse à chercher quelque chose ou quelqu'un qui puisse nous aider à ne pas être anéantis chaque fois que notre vie commence à d'effondrer.
Notre besoin de signification nous oblige à nous inventer un but stérile après l'autre et à investir nos énergies dans des tâches inépuisables.
Notre besoin d'être aimés nous contraint à accepter la cruauté des autres en échange d'une parcelle de leur gentillesse.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“What we must always remember is that the only work we do of lasting value is the work that we do for ourselves within ourselves.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Bir yerden ayrılmaktan korkma, oraya bağlı kalmaktan kork, alışkanlıklarından kork. Hep aynı kalmaktan kork.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Geride bırakmak için, önce bağlanıp kalmanın artık işe yaramadığını kavramamız gerekir.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“The fear of being alone is born out of keeping company with parts of yourself that want you to feel incomplete so that they can lead you into one self-compromising relationship after another!”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Umutsuzca mutluluğu aramak, mutsuzluğun devamıdır.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Geride bırakmak için, önce bağlanıp kalmanın artık işe yaramadığını kavramamız gerekir”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Mutluluk, karabulutlar kaybolduğunda, gün ışığının doğal olarak dünyayı ısıtması gibi, stressiz bir yaşamın doğal ifadesidir.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Geride bırakmak için, önce bağlanıp kalmanın artık işe yaramadığını kavramamız gerekir!”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“There is one last thing I would wish for you to know, and to know this truth without any doubt. It will save you, literally, from endless years of futile search and struggle. And it is certain that you will come to know this rescuing power as long as you choose it before all else. Here it is: You have the right to live without being compromised by any negative state.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Secret Self is your royal nature. Like the kingly condition that it is, it knows about you what you have yet to learn about yourself. Let it reveal to you its secret kingdom. It belongs to you. You receive a portion of this kingdom each time you refuse to be captured by the common and choose instead in favor of the celestial. The stars are your birthright. We must look beyond the sparrow to the skies through which it wings.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“It is the common man who measures himself by the things that pass through his life, for it is only the common man who judges his own value according to what this life accidentally awards or denies. Your birthright is that of a king, but today you have acted quite common.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Living under the defeatist directions of the false self, we wrongly assume that the only way to reach real independence, real safety, is to look to someone else to take us there. It isn’t in another’s power to do for you what you must do for yourself. It never has been.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“When you fall, you must remember to let go of the rope!” They both laughed out loud at this lighthearted lesson because the need to let go was so obvious. I remember this incident well because of the long-lasting impression it formed in me.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Les gens sereins, sages, heureux et prospères voient leur vie et les événements sous un angle différent. Un homme sage ne peut se laisser duper ni induire en erreur. Les "mauvaises nouvelles" n'ont pas d'emprise sur une femme sincèrement heureuse. Une personne prospère ne se laisse pas affoler par une nouvelle télédiffusée ou par une manchette sensationnelle du journal. Ces personnes sont habitées de façon permanente par une sagesse, un contentement et une richesse intérieurs et non extérieurs.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Quiconque est authentiquement heureux ou sage le demeure dans chaque situation. Il apporte cette qualité avec lui partout où il va. La sagesse et le contentement font partie de sa nature.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Toutes les choses qui me causent de l'anxiété ou de l'inquiétude n'ont, en soi, rien de bon ou de mauvais, sauf dans la mesure où mon esprit est perturbé par elles.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Toute relation soumise à une pression, même si son but est d'essayer de raccommoder les choses, finit toujours par se disloquer. Nous pouvons apprendre à faire mieux qu'à nous laisser diriger par cet esprit du moi malavisé. Nous pouvons apprendre à nous distancer de ses manigances autodestructrices.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go

“Le vrai besoin qu'il avait éprouvé tout ce temps-là était de goûter un moment de silence qu'il ne pouvait trouver à l'endroit où son esprit ordinaire le gardait occupé à chercher.”
― Guy Finley, The Secret of Letting Go