This Chair Rocks Quotes

“It’s not loving a man that makes life harder for gay guys, it’s homophobia. It’s not the color of their skin that makes life harder for people of color; it’s racism. It’s not having vaginas that makes life harder for women, it’s sexism. And it’s ageism, far more than the passage of time, that makes growing older harder for all of us.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“The sooner growing older is stripped of reflexive dread, the better equipped we are to benefit from the countless ways in which it can enrich us.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“We don’t ask when people age out of singing, or eating ice cream; why would we stop making love?”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“My first interview was with eighty-eight-year-old folk artist Marcia Muth… ‘Your life does change as you get older,’ she told me. ‘You get into what’s important and what’s not’.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“Fear of dying is human. Fear of aging is cultural.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“Discrimination on the basis of age is as unacceptable as discrimination on the basis of any other aspect of ourselves that we cannot change.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“The myth of self-sufficiency demands optimism without end, downplays life’s challenges, and shames us when, inevitably, we fall short.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“Women not only bear the brunt of the equation of beauty with youth, we perpetuate it—every time we dye our hair to cover the gray or lie about our age, not to mention have plastic surgery to cover the signs of aging.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“Nowhere is ageism more sexist, and vicious, than in the domain of sexuality.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

“Why not, above all, learn to look more generously at each other as well as at ourselves?”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks

“Since the only unobjectionable term used to describe older people is “older people,” I’ve shortened the term to “olders” and use it, along with “youngers,” as a noun. It’s clear and value-neutral, and it emphasizes that age is a continuum. There is no old/young divide. We’re always older than some people and younger than others. Since no one on the planet is getting any younger, let’s stop using “aging” as a pejorative—“aging Boomers,” for example, as though it were yet another bit of self-indulgence on the part of that pesky generation, or “aging entertainers,” as though their fans were cryogenically preserved.”
― Ashton Applewhite, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism