Girl at War Quotes

“...I knew in the end the guilt of one side did not prove the innocence of the other.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Their musings about how and why people stayed in a country under such terrible conditions were what I hated most. I knew it was ignorance, not insight that prompted these questions. they asked because they hadn't smelled the air raid smoke or the scent of singed flesh on their own balconies; they couldn't fathom that such a dangerous place could still harbor all the feelings of home.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Music, I'd heard him say, was like dessert. He could live without it, but life just wasn't as good.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“لقد تعبت من الحفاظ على هدوئي في وجه كل ما هو مزعج وقبيح وغير منطقي”
― سارة نوفيتش, Girl at War

“كنت أعلم أن الوقت المخصص للحزن بالنسبة لي كان يتضاءل، وأن صبر الناس كان ينفد”
― سارة نوفيتش, Girl at War

“You should know that your food aid does not reach the people it's supposed to. In the place where I stayed, there were no Peacekeepers, and the Četniks stole the aid meant for civilians. If you drop the food and leave, you're just feeding your enemy. We had guns, but they had more. Firepower is the only thing that determines who eats.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“As a side effect of modern warfare, we had the peculiar privilege of watching the destruction of our country on television.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“In the beginning, adults operating somewhere between concern and nosiness had asked questions about the war, and I spoke truthfully about the things I'd seen. But my descriptions were often met with an uncomfortable shining of eyes, as if they were waiting for me to take things back, to say that war or genocide was actually no big deal. They'd offer their condolences, as they'd been taught, then wade through a polite amount of time before presenting an excuse to end the conversation.

Their musings about how and why people stayed in a country under such terrible conditions were what I hated most. I knew it was ignorance, not insight that prompted these questions. They asked because they hadn't smelled the air raid smoke or the scent of signed flesh on their own balconies; they couldn't fathom that such a dangerous place could still harbor all the feelings of home.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Ana—Ana, listen to me.' A shot. 'We're going to play a game, okay? We're going to trick the guards.' A shot. 'They're drunk—it'll be easy if you pay attention. All you have to do is stay close to me, very close—' A shot. 'Then when I fall down into the hole, you fall at the same time. Just close your eyes and keep your body straight.' A shot. 'But it won't work unless we both fall at the very same time, okay?' A shot. 'Do you understand? Don't! Don't look at me.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“The more I lied, the closer I came to fitting in. Sometimes I even believed myself.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Worrying isn't rational. No one makes a conscious decision to freak out about something.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“The realization that my parents, too, felt pain and fear frightened me more than any strangers could.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Perhaps a country of immigrants had never gotten around to commingling the less desirable pieces of their cultures. Either that, or life there wasn’t difficult enough to warrant an adult’s belief in magic.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“The first time, the noise that came out of the AK didn’t sound like a gunshot. It sounded like a laugh.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“It was as if it never occurred to anyone that blocking the incoming roads was the same as blocking the escape routes.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“We entered an era of false alarms.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“looked out at the gilded mountains and thought of the centuries of wars and mistakes that had come together in this place. History did not get buried here. It was still being unearthed.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“You’re sure you’re okay?” Luka looked wary as we walked to the Trg, like the sight of the city might set me off crying. We spoke Cringlish, a system we’d devised without discussion—Croatian sentence structure injected with English stand-ins for the vocabulary I was lacking, then conjugated with Croatian verb endings. “I’m fine,” I said. “I’m just having culture shock.” “You can’t get culture shock from your own culture.” “You can.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Somewhere in the dead space between house and shelter civilians became soldiers.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Their musings about how and why people stayed in a country under such terrible conditions were what I hated most. I knew it was ignorance, not insight that prompted these questions. They asked because they hadn’t smelled the air raid smoke or the scent of singed flesh on their own balconies; they couldn’t fathom that such a dangerous place could still harbor all the feelings of home.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Telling my story was supposed to be a good thing but it had just made everything worse.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“I was so tired of his being even-keeled in the face of all that was upsetting and ugly and illogical.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“The one who preferred her own sorrows to all the joys in the world had enterd the forest and broken the spell”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“The country was at war, but for most people the war was more an idea than an experience, and I felt something between anger and shame that Americans - that I - could sometimes ignore its impact for days at a time. In Croatia, life in wartime had meant a loss of control, war holding sway over every thought and movement, even while you slept.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“Some people say the Balkans is just inherently violent. That we have to fight a war every fifty years."
"I hope that's not true", I said.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“I tried to think of a singularly American superstition. I'd learned a few from the Uncles—something about not letting one's shoes touch the kitchen table—but those were all imported from the Old World. Perhaps a country of immigrants had never gotten around to commingling the less desirable pieces of their cultures. Either that, or life there wasn't difficult enough to warrant an adult's belief in magic.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“I'd studied English since the first grade but considered it a murky language, one whose grammar seemed to have been made up on the fly”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“I knew in the end the guilt of one side did not prove the innocence of the other.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“You should know that your food aid does not reach the people it's supposed to...If you drop the food and leave, you're just feeding your enemy. We had guns, but they had more. Firepower is the only thing that determines who eats.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War

“So superficial. Everyone in this fucking country gets their shit paycheck, wastes it all on clothes from Western Europe, then complains about how they don’t have any money. Idiots.”
― Sara Nović, Girl at War