Now You're Speaking My Language Quotes

“The more passionate the defensive response, the more deeply self-worth has been threatened.”
― Gary Chapman, Now You're Speaking My Language: Honest Communication and Deeper Intimacy for a Stronger Marriage

“Name one event in your marriage you wish you could revisit. Why? Think of two couples—one recently married, one married more than thirty years—whose company you genuinely enjoy. What do you admire about them? Do you long for the playfulness of the younger couple? Do you love the dignity the older couple extends to each other? What makes each couple such enjoyable company? If you could peer into the hours you are not together, what do you wish you knew about your spouse? Name one thing you will do this week to encourage your spouse.”
― Gary Chapman, Now You're Speaking My Language: Honest Communication and Deeper Intimacy for a Stronger Marriage