Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone Quotes

“If you don’t want to change, how are you going to handle living with this limitation for the rest of your life?”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“You either do great or you learn something that helps you become great.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“The key is to share a little about who you are and what you enjoy, nothing too personal, just enough to help everyone in the conversation to establish common interests and experiences that can become the basis of an engaging conversation.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Spending time with people who like you and care about you is essential for your well being while meeting like minded people keeps you connected to all the joy, variety and wonder of life. Life is richer, brighter and more colorful with great people to share the journey.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Liking yourself is far more important than having other people like you, fortunately, if you like yourself, you are more likely to have people like you.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“lull”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“inconsequential”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“conversationalists”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“The second step is to choose to change. You don’t have to change, it’s entirely up to you. What is important is to notice you have a choice and to then decide what you want to do. Do you want to be more sociable? Do you want better conversation skills? Make a clear and definite choice to learn, grow and improve and it will drive all your behavior going forward. 2. Notice Which Negative Habits You Have For all of the negative habits in this section I’d like you to read through the descriptions of how the habits manifest themselves and then ask yourself does this habit ever apply to you, a little or a lot? This is not about beating yourself up it’s about noticing the negative habits that are in place, this is not so much about skills, it’s about patterns of inertia that can convince you that your conversation skills are poor when in fact there are other factors which are more problematic. You’ll also notice that some but not all of the habits apply to you, and some apply to a small degree while others are so prevalent in how you deal with people that it seems like that’s just the way it is and always has”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

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― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“approval,”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Simple Steps to Communication Confidence   I”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Very often shy people assume others do not want to talk to them or that they will be criticized when they share their thoughts and feelings. In other words shy people often paint such a negative picture of others that it becomes almost impossible to approach anyone.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Unless people give you a reason not to, assume that anyone you meet is likable and worth talking to.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Feelings of isolation and not being understood will become common place if you fail to embrace opportunities to enjoy the new and the possibility of meeting people you can connect with.   In”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“interests”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“innocently”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“I have a very popular training session that covers the simple steps to building communication confidence - that magnetic quality that makes people want to talk to you and keen to get to know you better. If you’d like to know how to win the approval, admiration and deep appreciation”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“much more fun talking to people and you’ll enjoy letting your personality shine.   Do bear in mind, the strategies presented here are a starting point, you’ll need to adjust your application of the individual tips to the context and people you are dealing with. Some flexibility on your part is essential.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“strategies presented here are a starting point, you’ll need to adjust your application of the individual tips to the context and people you are dealing with. Some flexibility on your part is essential.   Take it a step at a time, aim to improve just a little each day, use these strategies often and make a commitment to ongoing learning with the free resources mentioned in the next section. Before long you’ll be one of those”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Take it a step at a time, aim to improve just a little each day, use these strategies often and make a commitment to ongoing learning with the free resources mentioned in the next section. Before long you’ll be one of those people”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Make sure to use these principles and ideas out there in the real world. It may take a little trial and error but if you practice you’ll see its much easier than most people think to start a conversation with someone you are meeting for the first time. You’ll have much more fun talking to people and you’ll enjoy letting your personality shine.   Do bear in mind, the strategies presented here are a starting point, you’ll need to adjust your application of the individual tips to the context and people you are dealing with. Some flexibility on your part is essential.   Take it a step at a time, aim to improve just a little each day, use these strategies often and make a commitment”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“frivolous”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Although we might sometimes forget, the clothes you wear affect how you feel about yourself and can boost or lower your self-confidence.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“look for the good in people, enjoy meeting new people and know that, yes, occasionally they'll bump into someone they don't enjoy talking to.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Professionals are known for putting the time in when it comes to preparation, a dancer will practice for months for a two hour performance, an actor will memorize lines and rehearse for months before appearing on stage. When you see the stars perform in front of the camera it looks like magic, they are so talented, they just turn up and dazzle everyone with their performance. What you don't see is the dedication to practice and the dedication to extensive and comprehensive preparation before a big event.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Do people find it hard to get to know you? Are you slow to share personal information? Could you make a point of sharing opinions and thoughts that allow people to get to know you?”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“This is a key issue for people who get nervous about meeting new people and wonder about what to say. They think too much about what to say and how to say it when the real goal is to get to know someone or get to know someone better. The conversation is a means to an end not the end itself.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“Spending time alone is great for recharging and for finding the space to think, and for quiet people it's essential because dealing with people all day at work and at home can be draining, time alone is the antidote to all of that. However even a good thing can go too far. If you spend too much time”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone

“The reason this happens has nothing to do with not having enough time, it comes down to not making it a priority to spend time with people and a failure to appreciate how important time with good friends is for a happy life. The busyness argument is an excuse that is used to avoid facing up to the fact that you have fears and worries about getting to know people and you feel more comfortable avoiding the issue. The problem with this approach is that you become more isolated over time and it then becomes even harder to break out of your shell.”
― Peter W. Murphy, Always Know What To Say - Easy Ways To Approach And Talk To Anyone