Princess Sultana's Daughters Quotes

“How true is it that humanity refuses compromise during prosperity, and reaches out for arbitration when weak.”
― Jean P. Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Like many a modern parent, I had no clear notion of how to help my most troubled child.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Beware of those who look like rose, for even roses have thorns.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“A wise man was once asked what was the most difficult truth in life to uncover. His reply was: 'to know thyself'.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Only when you drink from the river of silence, shall you indeed sing. And, when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb. And, when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.
-Khalid Gibran”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Every straight line can be forced into a curve!”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“In my land, in the event of a divorce, the mother has the right to retain her children if they are still suckling. But in most cases, a mother maintains custody of daughters until a girl child reaches puberty. In the case of male children, the boy should be allowed to remain with his mother until he is seven. When he reaches his seventh birthday, he is supposed to have the option to choose between his mother or father. Generally it is accepted that the father have his sons at age seven. A son must go with his father at the age of puberty, regardless of the child's wishes. Often, in the case of male children, many fathers will not allow the mother to retain custody of a son, no matter what the age of the child.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“When the normal is forbidden, people fall into the abnormal.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“only the men and the wind are completely free”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“I told my family that, in my opinion, the remaining traditions of that era were what kept us women in bondage, and not the Koran. Few people know the facts, that the Koran does not call for veiling, nor the restrictions women endure in the Muslim world. It is the traditions passed down that so hinder us from moving forward.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“My voice thick with frustration, I declared that if men and women could only meet each other under normal circumstances, that delusions of instant love would be more infrequent. While I do believe that great attractions lead to genuine love, such as it had with my sister, Sara, and her husband, Assad, such a happy outcome is rare. When men and women rarely have the opportunity to enjoy the other's company in ordinary social occasions, spontaneous emotions are quick to rise to the surface, often ending in terrible personal tragedies.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Only when you drink from the river of silence, shall you indeed sing. And, when you have reached the mountaintop, then you shall begin to climb. And, when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“A fly will never be able to enter a mouth which knows when to stay shut,”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Not forever can one enjoy stillness and peace. But misfortune and obstruction are not final. When the grass has been burnt by the fire of the steppe, it will grow anew in summer.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“I thought to myself, beware of those who look like a rose, for even roses have spikes.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Recalling a wise Arab proverb spoken often by my gentle mother, ‘A fly will never be able to enter a mouth which knows when to stay shut’,”
― Jean Sasson, Daughters Of Arabia: Princess 2

“Not for ever can one enjoy stillness and peace. But misfortune and obstruction are not final. When the grass has been burnt by the fire of the steppe, it will grow anew in summer.”
― Jean Sasson, Daughters Of Arabia: Princess 2

“Then I brought up the obvious, that the physical vulnerabilities of a woman can be traced to that most important function of human accomplishments, the absorption of her strength in carrying, nursing and rearing children. I have always known that this one fact doomed females to a subordinate status in all societies. Instead of attaining honour for being producers of life, we are penalized! To my mind, this fact is the scandal of civilization!”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Choking back sobs, I tried to remember a verse from Kahlil Gibran on the question of death. I first whispered it, and as a my memory of it returned, I slowly raised my voice, until all could hear me. 'Only when you drink from the river of silence, shall you indeed sing. And, when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb. And, when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.' My sisters and I joined hands, remembering that we were like a chain - as strong as the strongest link, weak as the weakest link. As never before, we belonged to a sisterhood more powerful than that of our own blood. Never again would we sit back and wonder at the cruelty of men and the obscene arbitrariness of innocent female death, brought about by men's evil.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Under Muslim law, a man's freedom to divorce his wife is justified in the Koran. This system of the threat of divorce looming over a woman's security is most unsettling to women in my land. It is intolerable that many men stretch this ruling to the utmost of its flexibility, demanding divorce for the most trivial causes, ending with the continuous social degradation of their women. Women do not have the same options, since a divorce in a woman's favour is given only after a thorough investigation into her life. More often than not, women will not be allowed to divorce, even when there is just cause. This female lack of freedom so enjoyed by males creates onesided, often cruel methods of male control and power over their women. The words of divorce slip most easily off the tongue of a man who wishes to punish his wife, 'I divorce thee', or 'I dismiss thee', sending the woman into exile from her married home, often without her children.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Infant mortality in Saudi Arabia was among the highest in the world, for there was no money, doctors, or hospitals to treat the sick. Saudi diets consisted of dates, camel milk, and goat and camel meat.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“Their walking relationship was unnatural, but they were too fearful to seat themselves at a restuarant to share a meal, for they knew that restaurants in our country are the principal target of the active and increasingly familiar morals committees that harass people of every nationality who live in Saudi Arabia. Such committees are composed of menancing men who unexpectedly surround and enter eating establishments, demanding identification of the restaurant patrons. If proof is not forthcoming that the men and women sharing a table are not husband and wife, brother or sister, or father and daughter, these frightened people will be arrested and escorted to a city gaol, with punishment freely given. The legal penalties vary according to the nationality of the 'criminal'. Muslim offenders can be flogged for their social misconduct, while non-Muslims are gaoled or deported.”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters

“to be valued and esteemed is beyond the expectation”
― Jean Sasson, Princess Sultana's Daughters