The Manual Quotes

“You should talk to a woman as if she already is your lover and sexual partner, not a stranger or friend.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“You should never, ever settle and lower your standards, because when you do, you actually make your life harder.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“My point, however, is that a male should treat a female he wants like a woman; he should make her feel feminine. That includes protecting her and shielding her from discomfort (since a female is more vulnerable than him after all), but he should not sacrifice himself while doing so — as women do not want that. Only society does.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“The best way to get girls is actually not to play the game or to think outside the box; it is to avoid playing games and to step outside the box completely. It involves changing your mindset from being indirect with women to being direct, from being feminine to being masculine.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“When you are able to confidently hold the gaze of women with the intent of waiting for them to nonverbally submit and look away first, you will notice that some women simply never do. Some even start smiling or blushing, and some look away for a split second only to resume the eye contact immediately. When a woman does this, it is because you just gave her a very powerful nonverbal compliment; you told her that she is attractive and interesting to you, an attractive (confident enough to keep eye contact) person yourself. This is perhaps the oldest form of compliment available to mankind. It is entirely universal, and it conveys the same message all over the world.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“However, to persist does not mean to cling on forever, to stalk, or to come back despite a woman requesting otherwise — only desperate males do that — but it does mean to keep going until you either get what you want or are rejected.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Just do not give up at the first signs of resistance because you can break through many barriers with persistence.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“The reality is that all females enjoy doing so-called slutty things, but no female wants to be perceived as a slut.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“I already mentioned that we are not born with many, if any, fears, and that includes the fear of failure. If babies were born with a fear of failure, they would never learn anything and the human species would never have survived as one inevitably fails toward success. Young children are not even aware of the concept of failure, as they intuitively know they are learning from trial and error, through practice and perseverance. That is the mindset you must recover. That you fear failure as an adult is because you have learned it through bad socialization.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“All women, no matter how certain they appear, want to hear from someone else that they look sexy and beautiful, which is the combination of looking feminine, fertile, young, and healthy.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“In reality, females like sex as much as males do, and they absolutely love to be seduced by men, as it gives them what they want without having to take the responsibility for making it happen. It is what women dream of, what some wait for all their lives to experience, and what millions of romance novels that are sold each year are all about. Thus, there is no point in trying to hide it.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“If a female is attracted to a male, pretty much everything he says will be interesting to her, especially if he is talking about her, since it is charming for him to care. To be interesting enough for a woman is quite easy, because all it really takes is to be charming; to show her that you are interested in her.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“A direct approach takes enormous balls, and you will be oozing with confidence right away because of it. Women will feel this instantly and respond completely differently than if you started talking to them using an excuse, as any coward could do and as many cowards already do.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“First, women in general will not approach men. They will not plan dates, they will not call first, and they simply will not make anything interesting actually happen until you have had sex with them and have officially formed a relationship that is socially recognized.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Too often males focus on being funny around women, acting like clowns, telling jokes, and performing pranks, to make the woman they want laugh instead of making her feel any useful emotion, such as attractive or horny.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“The next time you catch yourself thinking that you do not deserve a woman; remind yourself that you are absolutely right, but you are right because you do not have to deserve them. You still have to seduce them, but that requires time spent directly with them, not long hours at the office or trying to save the planet”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“In every couple, only one of the two can be dominant, and one of them always is. Therefore, to be a dominant male automatically means to treat women as submissive and expect them to be submissive. This is inevitable.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“All men are dominant as dominance is a requisite for confidence, which is the primary expression of masculinity.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Make it a habit to be shameless. Do not be embarrassed to follow a woman with your eyes the entire time she is walking toward you or to turn your head and even your entire body to check out a woman as she walks past you.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Anyone who contracts his or her body will seem more feminine — more vulnerable, more afraid, and more submissive. They will communicate that they lack masculinity, confidence, and dominance. The lack of these traits makes females appear more attractive. However, it does not make males appear more attractive, but less so. When males do it, they seem gay.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“They reject themselves. It is what you do when you see a gorgeous girl but then think to yourself, “I could never get a girl like that” and walk away even though the woman did not actually reject you.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“In addition, a woman is not interested in a male who gives up easily. A male willing to spend some time and effort is obviously very interested in her and thinks she is worth it, but also confident that he can eventually get her. Thus, persistence is a necessary part of making women feel special, but it is also necessary to be congruent as an attractive male. If you really feel that she is a beautiful and unique woman (as you should have been telling her all evening), but then are willing to give her up just because she is a bit shy, dislikes kissing in public, likes to take it slow, her boyfriend is watching you, or whatever, then you are not congruent. She will think you are not that interested in her after all or that your confidence is low, which are both turnoffs for her.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“the fewer people who can see and hear the two of you, the less social pressure a woman will feel to be a “good girl.” She may be worried about what other people are thinking of her if they overhear that you are boldly flirting with her or see that you have your hand on her thigh in a matter of minutes while she is both allowing and enjoying it. Such pressure should never affect you, but you cannot expect women to be unaffected by it, so you should always consider it.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Women are more comfortable if males make all the moves, particularly since whenever you try to advance the relationship, you risk facing resistance.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Women do not just want to feel attractive, they want to feel more attractive than other females.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“Females prefer males who are successful with females, but not necessarily successful with anything else.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“This is essential to understand because you will not be successful with women if you hide your sexual interest in them, if you are unable to make them feel sexy, and if you are unable to arouse them sexually — things you will have a hard time doing if you believe that sex is not something women want or if you are ashamed of your sexual desires.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“However, the point is not to become domineering or to control women; it is only about putting your own interests first, being selfish most of the time. It is also unnecessary to be dominant with all females or even all women; it is only necessary to be so with the women you date or want to date. But, of course, if you want to be attractive at all times, you would always be dominant, no matter the circumstances.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“The big problem is that when males believe they are not good enough as they are, they chase success and money, and their masculine confidence vanishes. If you believe females are attracted to something that you do not have, you will feel inadequate and lose your confidence. This is a self-fulfilling prophesy because confidence is crucial to your success with women as it is the primary expression of masculinity, necessary to appear less vulnerable than females.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

“You should look at women’s eyes most of the time before you approach and whenever you talk to them. It is perfectly okay to look at their breasts for a moment if you wish, and many males instinctively focus on a woman’s chest before looking at her face, but make sure to return to her eyes when you talk to her or when she is talking to you. The fact that you admire her entire body is nothing but flattering to her, as long as she does not get the idea that you are inexperienced and have never seen a woman’s body up close before or if you talk to her chest instead of her face.”
― W. Anton, The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them