Where I Was From Quotes

“I closed the box and put it in a closet.
There is no real way to deal with everything we lose.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“The past could be jettisoned . . . but seeds got carried.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“There is no real way to deal with everything we lose.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“Madness, it became convenient to believe quite early on, came with the territory, on the order of earthquakes.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“One difference between the West and the South, I came to realize in 1970, was this: in the South they remained convinced that they had bloodied their land with history. In California we did not believe that history could bloody the land, or even touch it.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“New people could be seen, by people like my grandfather, as indifferent to everything that had made California work, but the ambiguity was this: new people were also who were making California rich.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“Discussion of how California has 'changed,' then, tends locally to define the more ideal California as that which existed at whatever past point the speaker first saw it: Gilroy as it was in the 1960s and Gilroy as it was fifteen years ago and Gilroy as it was when my father and I ate short ribs at the Milias Hotel are three pictures with virtually no overlap, a hologram that dematerializes as I drive through it.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“They who came to California were not the self-satisfied, happy and content people, but the adventurous, the restless, and the daring. They were different even from those who settled in other western states. They didn’t come west for homes and security, but for adventure and money. They pushed in over the mountains and founded the biggest cities in the west.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From: A Memoir

“Raised to believe that her life would be, as her great-grandmother's was said to have been, one ceaseless round of fixed and settled principles, aims, motives, and activity, she could sometimes think of nothing to do but walk downtown, check out the Bon Marche for clothes she could not afford, buy a cracked crab for dinner and take a taxi home.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“Remember, never take no cutoffs and hurry along as fast as you can.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“Not much about California, on its own preferred terms, has encouraged its children to see themselves as connected to one another.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“All that is constant about the California of my childhood is the rate at which it disappears.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“Through most of my life I would have interpreted the growth of the prison system and the diminution of the commitment to public education as evidence of how California had "changed." Only recently have I come to see them as quite the opposite, evidence of how California had "not changed," and to understand "change" itself as one of the culture's most enduring misunderstandings about itself.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“This process, one of trading the state to outside owners in exchange for their (it now seems) entirely temporary agreement to enrich us, in toher words the pauperization of California, had in fact begun at the time Americans first entered the state, took what they could, and, abetted by the native weekness for boosterism, set about selling the rest.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“You couldn't pay for her hats,' her father, a ship's captain, had told her suitors by way of discouragement, and perhaps they had all been discouraged but my grandfather, an innocent from the Georgetown Divide who read books.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“The redemptive power of the crossing was, nonetheless, the fixed idea of the California settlement, and one that raised a further question: for what exactly, and at what cost, had one been redeemed? When you jettison others so as not be “caught by winter in the Sierra Nevada mountains,” do you deserve not to be caught? When you survive at the cost of Miss Gilmore and her brother, do you survive at all?”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From

“one more piece of evidence that assigned reading makes nothing happen.”
― Joan Didion, Where I Was From: A Memoir