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Feeling of inferiority are subjective assumptions.

Fascinating chapter title

Happiness is an inside job.

Need confidence, love thy self and step into your life. Encouragement is the alderman psychology

Easier to remain the same, to maneuver a new life style not easy. Hard to see the future.

Easier and more secure to remain

Argument for trauma is etiology which is the cause for something.
Adlerian psychology is teleology explanation of phenomena purpose they serve rather than cause bulky which they arrive.

‘Individual psychology’ Adlerian

There is no escape from your own subjective. If you change the world will appear more simple.
This issue is not the world, it is how you take the world in.

You wear Dark glasses, makes the world look dark, remove the dark glasses. Perspective change.

“Be equal in consciousness and to assert that which needs to be asserted”

Adlerian psychology is the psychology of changing one’s self not psychology for changing others. Take the first step, others around you will change too, they have no choice.

Separation of task: emphasizes distinguishing between your own tasks and the tasks of others.

Whose task is this? (Natural consequence)

“Take away lens of competition…that we can begin to correct and change ourselves.”