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“In the not having, it remains absolutely perfect, in my imagination it would fulfil all my needs, I would never need anyone again. I want it so that in the luxury of having it, I can ruin its perfection and then reject it when I am sure it means nothing. I want to succeed where all the other women failed, and it is not so much to win him as it is to defeat everyone else.”
— 11 hours, 39 min ago
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Raisa Teeuw
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“At what point do I get a return on my investment? My people-pleasing, my co-dependency, my lack of boundaries which on the surface looks so giving, nurturing and self effacing is actually controlling, ego-driven and emotionally demanding.”
— 12 hours, 4 min ago
Raisa Teeuw
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“It’s so archaic and humiliating to realise nothing has changed despite all the rhetoric suggesting it has.”
— Mar 16, 2026 01:06PM
Raisa Teeuw
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“He is hypnotised by his addiction to conflict, to the fraught and desperate attention of women pleading with their lives to be with him or to make up his mind, to the push/pull mechanics of flirting with and then refusing intimacy. He can hardly believe that women react to him this way and it fascinates him. We are all of us engaged in a collective selfharm by trying to love him, seeking to be loved by him.”
— Mar 13, 2026 07:30AM
Raisa Teeuw
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“Over time, I’ve learnt I need to ask very specific questions because the truth fractures in his mouth.”
— Mar 13, 2026 12:20AM
