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Be careful not to monopolize a conversation by talking too much about what interests you. Take note of what others are talking about and focus on those subjects instead.

There is a great story about how Sophia Loren got her first break in movies. She managed to get an invite to a party where she knew there would be many producers and directors. It was a swanky affair and all the women were dressed to the nines, complete with expensive jewelry. Wanting to be noticed, Sophia chose a simple white cotton dress and wore no jewelry. Every man in the room noticed her. The rest is history.

Being playful and lighthearted makes the flirting safe but allows for a little naughtiness. Using fun attracts peole, they are drawn to the energy. Taking notice allows the flirt to learn about the other person and show an interest, making them feel special and appreciated. Our research has shown that great flirts have a lot of friends of the opposite sex. Great flirts love people.