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this book is life changing and should be a mandatory read.

Really don't like it so far

“love was the good feeling you got when family treated you like you mattered and you treated them like they mattered. Love was always and only about good feeling.”

“So many of us long for love but lack the courage to take risks. Even though we are obsessed with the idea of love,”

“It took me a long time to recognize that while I wanted to know love, I was afraid to be truly intimate. Many of us choose relationships of affection and care that will never become loving because they feel safer. The demands are not as intense as loving requires. The risk is not as great.”

“I wanted to know love but I was afraid to surrender and trust another person. I was afraid to be intimate.”

“Embracing a definition of love that was clear was the first step in the process,”

“if one's goal is self-recovery, to be well in one's soul, honestly and realistically confronting lovelessness is part of the healing process.”