“What is the word for the realization that your society has left you ill-equipped for a major part of the journey of your life? When a mother cries, is it also developmental?”
― Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood
― Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood
“Casting care work as easy work that anyone can do alone is a way of justifying the undervaluation, and underpayment, of carers. By naturalizing the work of caregiving and raising children, society can obscure and mystify what it actually is: the infrastructure propping up capitalism. Without workers, there is no work.”
― Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood
― Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood
“He did not see that the continuity of an oligarchy need not be physical, nor did he pause to reflect that hereditary aristocracies have always been shortlived, whereas adoptive organizations such as the Catholic Church have sometimes lasted for hundreds or thousands of years. The essence of oligarchical rule is not father-to-son inheritance, but the persistence of a certain world-view and a certain way of life, imposed by the dead upon the living. A ruling group is a ruling group so long as it can nominate its successors. The Party is not concerned with perpetuating its blood but with perpetuating itself. Who wields power is not important, provided that the hierarchical structure remains the same.”
― 1984
― 1984
“She ended every show with her signature line: “Children, set the table. Your mother needs a moment to herself.”
― Lessons in Chemistry
― Lessons in Chemistry
“Being told to "enjoy every minute," while undertaking such psychologically and physically demanding work, is a peculiar type of societal gaslighting.”
― Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood
― Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood
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