Steve Brady

“So when you perceive a positive quality in yourself, turn Fritz Heider’s Fundamental Attribution Error on its ear and assume that your partner possesses it too.”
― John M. Gottman, What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal

“With the exception of the guilt-ridden and self-critical among us, we all like to think we are the central character of the Great Play of Life. Everyone else is cast in minor and supporting roles. As a result, we tend to forgive our own mistakes, but not those of others. This perspective clearly stands in the way of resolving relationship conflict.”
― John M. Gottman, What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal

“Peering succeeds because it leverages self-organization—a style of production that works more effectively than hierarchical management for certain tasks.”
― Don Tapscott, Wikinomics: How Mass Collaboration Changes Everything