“With the exception of the guilt-ridden and self-critical among us, we all like to think we are the central character of the Great Play of Life. Everyone else is cast in minor and supporting roles. As a result, we tend to forgive our own mistakes, but not those of others. This perspective clearly stands in the way of resolving relationship conflict.”
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John M. Gottman,
What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal