“Once you can write an alphabet, you can write a book of 100 million pages. It's just a matter of believing it as possible, and taking the cross millimetre by millimetre.”
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“We believe we are seeking happiness in love, but what we are really after is familiarity. We are looking to re-create, within our adult relationships, the very feelings we knew so well in childhood and which were rarely limited to just tenderness and care. The love most of us will have tasted early on came entwined with other, more destructive dynamics: feelings of wanting to help an adult who was out of control, of being deprived of a parent’s warmth or scared of his or her anger, or of not feeling secure enough to communicate our trickier wishes.
How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little too right—in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding, and reliable—given that, in our hearts, such rightness feels foreign and unearnt. We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration.”
― The Course of Love
How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little too right—in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding, and reliable—given that, in our hearts, such rightness feels foreign and unearnt. We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration.”
― The Course of Love
“Dear Future You,
Hold on. Please.
Love, Me.
Dear Current You,
I’m holding on. But it hurts.
Love, Me.
Dear Past You,
I held on. Thank you.
Love, Me.”
― I Wrote This For You
Hold on. Please.
Love, Me.
Dear Current You,
I’m holding on. But it hurts.
Love, Me.
Dear Past You,
I held on. Thank you.
Love, Me.”
― I Wrote This For You
“You will know how far you can go, when you pursue your passion and never stop trying.”
― Think Great: Be Great!
― Think Great: Be Great!
“Are you proud of yourself tonight that you have insulted a total stranger whose circumstances you know nothing about?”
― To Kill a Mockingbird
― To Kill a Mockingbird
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