Darrell

“A cultured, self-respecting person cannot be vain without making unlimited demands on himself and without at other times despising himself to the point of hatred.”
― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground & The Double

“34. If you’ve immersed yourself in the principles of truth, the briefest, most random reminder is enough to dispel all fear and pain: …leaves that the wind Drives earthward; such are the generations of men. Your children, leaves. Leaves applauding loyally and heaping praise upon you, or turning around and calling down curses, sneering and mocking from a safe distance. A glorious reputation handed down by leaves. All of these “spring up in springtime”—and the wind blows them all away. And the tree puts forth others to replace them. None of us have much time. And yet you act as if things were eternal—the way you fear and long for them….”
― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

“In every man’s memories there are certain things that he will not reveal to everyone but only to his friends. And there are things that he will not even disclose to his friends, only to himself and even then under a veil of secrecy. But, finally, there are things that he’s afraid of divulging even to himself and every decent man has quite an accumulation of these. It might even be the case that the more respectable a person is the more he will have of them.”
― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground & The Double

“35. A healthy pair of eyes should see everything that can be seen and not say, “No! Too bright!” (which is a symptom of ophthalmia). A healthy sense of hearing or smell should be prepared for any sound or scent; a healthy stomach should have the same reaction to all foods, as a mill to what it grinds. So too a healthy mind should be prepared for anything. The one that keeps saying, “Are my children all right?” or “Everyone must approve of me” is like eyes that can only stand pale colors, or teeth that can handle only mush.”
― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations