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don’t like to let him drive when I’m a passenger. His idea of traffic safety is going too fast for the cops to catch up. “You sure?” I tossed him the keys. Usually, I don’t like to be in the car when he’s behind the wheel,
I highlighted this because it illustrates, in one paragraph, one of the reasons I found the writing in this novel insufferable. There was so much repetition in the narrative. Every few pages, the writer explained something she'd already explained. "I don't like to let him drive when I'm a passenger..." "I don't like to be in the car when he's behind the wheel..." The whole book is like that.
“the instructed noble disciple knows of an escape from painful feeling other than sensual pleasure. Since he does not seek delight in sensual pleasure, the underlying tendency to lust for pleasant feeling does not lie behind this. He understands as it really is the origin and the passing away, the gratification, the danger, and the escape in the case of these feelings. Since he understands these things, the underlying tendency to ignorance in regard to neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling does not lie behind this.”
― In the Buddha's Words: An Anthology of Discourses from the Pali Canon
― In the Buddha's Words: An Anthology of Discourses from the Pali Canon
“In Buddhist psychology identifying with and clinging to desire are said to result in your “taking birth.” In other words, you have created an illusory self whose happiness and well-being depend on getting what it wants.”
― Dancing With Life: Buddhist Insights for Finding Meaning and Joy in the Face of Suffering
― Dancing With Life: Buddhist Insights for Finding Meaning and Joy in the Face of Suffering
“The Desert Fathers believed that the wilderness had been created supremely valuable in the eyes of God precisely because it had no value to men. The wasteland was the land that could never be wasted by men because it offered them nothing. There was nothing to attract them. There was nothing to exploit. The desert was the region in which the Chosen People had wandered for forty years, cared for by God alone. They could have reached the Promised Land in a few months if they had traveled directly to it. God's plan was that they should learn to love Him in the wilderness and that they should always look back on the time in the desert as the idyllic time of their life with Him alone. The desert was created simply to be itself, not to be transformed by men into something else.”
― Thomas Merton
― Thomas Merton
“We must do away with any shred of denial, minimization, justification, or rationalization. To recover, we must completely and totally understand and accept the truth that addiction creates suffering.”
― Refuge Recovery: A Buddhist Path to Recovering from Addiction
― Refuge Recovery: A Buddhist Path to Recovering from Addiction
“It is not true to say that there is no self at all or that everything is empty or illusory, but it is true that everything is constantly changing and that there is no solid, permanent, unchanging self within the process that is life.”
― The Heart of the Revolution: The Buddha's Radical Teachings on Forgiveness, Compassion, and Kindness
― The Heart of the Revolution: The Buddha's Radical Teachings on Forgiveness, Compassion, and Kindness
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