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Becoming by Michelle Obama

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When things were bad, she gave us only a small amount of pity. When we’d done something great, we received just enough praise to know she was happy with us, but never so much that it became the reason we did what we did.

Here she is talking about her Mother. I find it amazing to see such balanced parenting, and the daughter appreciating that.

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18 Sep 20 · Flag

Kanika

This very statement resonated with me too and I’m now working on changing my ways as I tend to shower praises even on slightest good job done!

18 Sep 20 · Flag

Divya

Kanika that is true for most of us (coming from a culture of nonverbal upbringing) who are trying to make our kids feel seen and appreciated; but this reminds me that it is a fine line as you don’t wa…

24 Sep 20 · Flag

Supriya Pandhre

I heard this on a podcast once - "Don't praise the kids for being smart rather praise them for their efforts" - It's a Danish way of parenting. That struck a chord with me because I too tend to over p…