Healthy stress happens when we take on new challenges, such as giving a speech to a large audience, or do things that feel psychologically threatening, such as finally confronting a hostile peer.
“Wealthy white suburbs continued the trend of actively excluding black families in implicit and explicit ways, sometimes by using existing natural landmarks. Rock Creek Park in Washington, D.C., the largest urban park in the National Park system separates Chevy Chase, a wealthy white enclave “from the increasingly black neighborhoods” proliferating on the nearby landscape of Maryland (Loewen 2005, 124).”
― Black Faces, White Spaces: Reimagining the Relationship of African Americans to the Great Outdoors
― Black Faces, White Spaces: Reimagining the Relationship of African Americans to the Great Outdoors
“Hate can be helpful to certain causes. It unites a group quickly, it gives a person identity—even if it is a negative one—and, most of all, it takes away doubt and all free-floating anxiety. It gives us a place to stand that feels superior and in control. Hate settles the dust and ambiguity that none of us like. Hate is much more common, and more immediately effective, than love. Hate, as we will sadly see below, makes the world go ’round.”
― The Wisdom Pattern: Order, Disorder, Reorder
― The Wisdom Pattern: Order, Disorder, Reorder
“Imagine if your office and your home were in the same building.”
― The Art of Simple Living: 100 Daily Practices from a Zen Buddhist Monk for a Lifetime of Calm and Joy
― The Art of Simple Living: 100 Daily Practices from a Zen Buddhist Monk for a Lifetime of Calm and Joy
“It’s critical to remember that by the time teens are telling us that they feel anxious or angry or sad or any other emotion they choose to put into words, they’re already using an effective strategy for helping themselves cope with it. As a psychologist, I know this through and through. As a parent, though, I often forget it.”
― The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents
― The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents
“There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval.”
― The Moon by Night
― The Moon by Night
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