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Mark O'Connell

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Mark O'Connell, LCSW, is a NYC-based psychotherapist in private practice. He is author of the books "The Performing Art of Therapy" and "Modern Brides & Modern Grooms." He writes the Psychology Today column Quite Queerly, and contributes regularly to Psychotherapy Networker, The Huffington Post, among other popular sources. His clinical writing has been published in a number of scholarly journals. He is also a husband, father, actor, cat lover, sometimes cake decorator, a bit of a gender anarchist, and a professional multi-hyphenate. ...more

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Mark O'Connell The idea for this book came from conversations with friends who are women and had been to my wedding to my husband. After seeing mine, they were encou…moreThe idea for this book came from conversations with friends who are women and had been to my wedding to my husband. After seeing mine, they were encouraged to have weddings of their own. Weddings that were creative and on their own terms (ones that would not contain the historical/traditional implications of women as property). They wanted their weddings to feature their story--as individuals and as a pair--as well as the equality they share in their relationships, more than any traditions (This isn't to say they did not have traditional elements at their weddings, or that I didn't either). It occurred to me, through these conversations, that the marriage equality movement has created fresh ideas about weddings and marriage that could be useful to all couples at this time, gay straight, or what have you.(less)
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The Performing Art of Being A Couple

I recently had the privilege to be interviewed by Psych2Go–a website that aims to raise awareness about mental health in an accessible and relatable form.  Below is my conversation with Gabi Morales of Psych2Go, about the performing art of relationships.  (Here is the link to the original article).





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P2G: You work as a psychotherapist but you’re also an actor. Do you think one field he

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“Sometimes by simply sharing ourselves we become pillars for other people”
Mark O'Connell LCSW

“Sometimes by simply sharing ourselves we become pillars for other people”
Mark O'Connell LCSW

“Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night.”
Edgar Allan Poe, Eleonora

“I write to find strength.
I write to become the person that hides inside me.
I write to light the way through the darkness for others.
I write to be seen and heard.
I write to be near those I love.
I write by accident, promptings, purposefully and anywhere there is paper.
I write because my heart speaks a different language that someone needs to hear.
I write past the embarrassment of exposure.
I write because hypocrisy doesn’t need answers, rather it needs questions to heal.
I write myself out of nightmares.
I write because I am nostalgic, romantic and demand happy endings.
I write to remember.
I write knowing conversations don’t always take place.
I write because speaking can’t be reread.
I write to sooth a mind that races.
I write because you can play on the page like a child left alone in the sand.
I write because my emotions belong to the moon; high tide, low tide.
I write knowing I will fall on my words, but no one will say it was for very long.
I write because I want to paint the world the way I see love should be.
I write to provide a legacy.
I write to make sense out of senselessness.
I write knowing I will be killed by my own words, stabbed by critics, crucified by both misunderstanding and understanding.
I write for the haters, the lovers, the lonely, the brokenhearted and the dreamers.
I write because one day someone will tell me that my emotions were not a waste of time.
I write because God loves stories.
I write because one day I will be gone, but what I believed and felt will live on.”
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