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Why do you think people hate twilight so much?

And u r supposed to be afraid of them not go aroung falling in love with them.



Of course its just my opinion.



The main reason for the series' bad reputation is almost certainly the immature and often disturbing portrayal of "love." A deliberately bland protagonist has all the guys throwing themselves at her for literally no explained reason, and the main two are literally inhuman wet fantasies of an immature girl, who exist only to feed into the shallow sexual desires and egos of the young female readers. The fact that said fantasy involves these guys acting overly controlling to a point that in real life would raise red flags for abuse doesn't help.
To say nothing of Sam and Emily's relationship, which IS violently abusive (he mauls her face when she suggests they break up and as a result she stays with him, because he's "sorry" and they're "soul mates," much like the abusive parents of a friend I had in high school).
The fact that Bella is incompetent to the point of passing out because she "forgot to breath" (direct quote) while kissing Edward also makes the series extremely difficult to take seriously.
EDIT: I somehow also forgot the fact that Bella is overall a shallow, selfish person. She only cares about people who are physically beautiful and "special." She manipulates Jacob's feelings in "Twilight" to get information on the Cullens, and later in the series she leads him on romantically because she's too immature to break up with one boyfriend before experimenting with another. *To be fair,* I do recall her showing a glimmer of empathy in the first part of "New Moon," as she worries about Jacob when the other boys seem to be indoctrinating him into some mysterious cult; but that's about it. She has no problem with the Vultori killing tourists in Italy and makes no effort to warn or save anyone who isn't a personal friend of hers. And with the exception of Jacob at the start of "New Moon," even that group doesn't receive any thought from her unless they are physically beautiful and magically special. She is dismissive of every average human who tries to befriend her, while hounding the Cullens to let her join them in their everlasting beauty and immortality. Bella is materialistic and selfish.
That said, I personally like some aspects of Meyer's vampires (the unique mental powers) and many of her side characters.

This has got to be it. Women are jealous that they can't have a brooding, perpetually depressed man who obsesses over them to the point of psychological abuse, and men are jealous that they can't have an emotionless girl who passes out when kissing because she literally forgets to breath when doing something else with her mouth.





For me it doesn't make sense that the entire Cullen Clan risks their life for someone like Bella.

For me it doesn't make sense that the entire Cullen Clan risks their life for someone like Bella. "
That's a curious statement. What kind of changes would have to happen to the character before you could see others risking their lives for her? How would she be different?


That trait of Bella's is awful to be sure, but it's really just the icing on the cake of why she's not well liked. Look
how she plays poor Jacob. Look how she treats her Dad and classmates and basically anyone who isn't a beautiful vampire or werewolf. Look at how she judges people to their looks or minor actions and her shallow, immature idea of love.
Don't get me wrong, I prefer strong heroines. But I can think of plenty of damsels who are still likable, unlike Bella (Snow White, Princess Buttercup, etc) because st least they're decent people.

And Bella was the flimsiest self-insert character ever too, so there's that.

Bella is definitely a modern-day rule-breaker. This is part of her charm. I think women growing up now have gotten used to heavily idealized BAMF characters and "role models" that they don't know what to do with a regular person in a story if she is a female. (What do you means she's not the strongest/smartest/fastest? Then she's worthless!) What I don't think a lot of them realize is that in holding female characters to standards actually devalues female characters. Saying that a woman who can not physically compete with vampires and werewolves is a "damsel in distress" and is a "bad character" is putting an extra hurdle on female characters to jump.
An "everywoman" character being a problem shows that the culture has a problem with the idea of female weakness. By encouraging and creating unrealistic "strong" females, people get the message that it is acceptable to denigrate other women who do not fit the "strong" template. This shows up more in a YA setting because younger women don't have enough experience to understand the reality of the situation and are more susceptible to thinking there are "rules" that women are supposed to follow such as "They aren't supposed to be "all about their men"." Or "They should put their career first". This has been really common around here, and it is something that you don't see much on grown-up boards about grown-up books.


That is why people hate twulight and I'm sure there are more reasons but I can't think of them rn. X


Except it's not just a personal preference of yours. It's something that is being taught- when girls are taught and encouraged to see "damsels in distress" as lesser characters. This isn't some deeply reflective and highly personal position you are taking but one that is very mainstream.
This book actually challenges the necessity for a BAMF female and the idea that girls are not worthy on their own but must display certain characteristics (strength, independence, intelligence) for people to care about them. It gets heat because it is so far from the usual template we are given: a physically dominating female who impresses everyone. I think it's a good idea to have female characters who are more nuanced. I'm in favor of everywomen characters and female characters who have faults and blindspots. I would like to hear a defense that adequately discusses how women are served by limiting the characters we read in books to unrealistic BAMF characters.

I meant poor Jacob in the first two books. I know he becomes a creep later on. I stopped being Team Jacob when he fell in love with an infant.
Anyway, the suicide threat is another thing wrong with the series. The whole thing is packed with psychological abuse and at least one case of physical abuse. (I had a friend in high school whose mom wouldn't divorce her abusive father because he was her "soul mate," much like Emily staying with Sam after he mauled her face.)
The sad thing is that Meyer has some good stuff with her vampires' mental powers, and interesting characters like Alice and Rosalie. Had the characters' glaring flaws been addressed as such that too could've been very interesting. Edward's past even gives him reason to be creepily controlling; what great character development there could've been had that been addressed. The whole series is wasted potential IMO.

Yes and no. I find the movie easier to get through because it cuts out a lot of the pointless crap from the book and pulls the events from the book together better in a way that makes more sense. Meyer always seemed like she only remembered that her books needed a plot last minute, so she haphazardly threw something together. Like with Eclipse, the movie establishes Riley as a character early on as someone who went missing who used to live in Forks — that's a smart move on the movie's part because it makes his presence later at the end less random like it was in the book. In the book as I said it seems like she remembered that there was an actual plot last minute due to the climax/action not occurring until the last 2 or 3 chapters from the book, and in Eclipse Riley seems like a character she just threw in randomly. So in places like that the movie is superior.
However the movies work off the assumption that the viewers have read the book so though a lot of unnecessary crap was taken out, so was actual necessary crap. Whenever someone would review the movies and point out logical fallacies, the comments would always be filled with people saying it's explained in the books, and that thinking is very wrong because a movie is supposed to be its stand alone entity — the explanations should be in there, reading the book shouldn't be a requirement for seeing a movie. Plus it's not like there really was that much going on in the books for such necessary exposition to be cut out.
That's pretty much the movie's failing, that and the acting it's seriously horrendous. Out of the main three the best actor was Taylor Lautner and that's only because he played himself, nothing to do with his acting skills, in fact everytime he had to portray something that was outside of himself such as anger it was cringy to watch. The actors for Bella and Edwards were just painful to watch — seriously how long does it take to get out a sentence. A lot of the movie run time could be cut if they get out full sentences with out the brooding and stuttering, but then again that crap is actually in the books so...
Overall I can get through the movies again, I can't get through the books again, so I guess they're better?

The one aspect in the last book I liked were the different types of vampires. Out of the whole series the only characters I liked were Alice, Jasper, and Rosalie somewhat.

I have only fully read and watched the first two books/movies, but I agree the movies are far better, because they aren't limited to Bella's POV. Just for one example, it was far more interesting to see Charlie hunting for the strange giant "dogs" and trying to solve the mysterious murders than the books, where it was just pages of Bella Edwarding-out with offhand mentions of her dad's work.
I also watched the battle scene from "Breaking Dawn" on YouTube, and from what I understand about the book, they did a good job working in a climax that was both satisfying to watch as well as true to the books.
My friends and I did kind of lose it when Edward's floating upper body appeared in the movies. Those scenes were impossible to take seriously.

I just really loved how a person's mental strengths became supernatural powers as a vampire. That was really cool.




I'm a 70 year old male retired college professor and published novelist and I absolutely love this series. Taylor Swift did a song that is a simple truth that works here, people love to throw rocks at things that shine. Envy is the leading cause. How could any hate worthy series have addicted so many readers and sold so many millions of copies other than it was well done and timely.


So you've never disliked a book or movie that was popular with other people, unless you were jealous of it's success?

Thank you Carrie. I really can't stand that joke about how everything is a better love story than Twilight. People need to move on. I do get the dislike as it's not the greatest love story, the two love interests aren't that great either, it's not the best written story, and Bella is not the best heroine in world--and no, I don't dislike her because she's flawed or because she's not a tough girl. Scarlet O'Hara from Gone with the Wind and Nesta from ACOTAR are two of my favorite characters. Belle from Beauty and the Beast and Jane Eyre are also two my favorite characters, with the exception of possibly Nesta, none of these characters are tough girls and are flawed. I also think people have a problem with her approach to vampires. I still have a soft for the story, especially since it was the second series that made an impression on me after Harry Potter.

Then again, some people who actually watched the films and read the books still disliked it because of a number of things. Mainly because vampires aren't supposed to sparkle but Meyer did it in her own view anyway, the seemingly abusive relationship Edward and Bella have and Bella's main character. I'm a fan, I admit, but I've been very on-and-off for years. I didn't like it much when it first came out, but I was barely a teenager so of course I ended up being into it too. That's who the films were aimed at, right?
Anyway, people can like, love, dislike and hate it for whatever reasons they want to. At the end of the day, it's only a franchise, something meant for entertainment and not to be taken seriously. It's only serious if the young female fans don't mature and start seeking an abusive relationship or pretending to be a vampire or something, but most of them have.

Then again, some people who actually watched the films and read the books still..."
You hit the nail right on the head. At the end of the day, I don't think it's actually the series itself many people have a problem with; its the bad side of the fandom. The girls and women who think Edward and Bella's behavior would be A-OK in real life, who accuse anyone who dislikes it of being "jealous" or "brainwashed by feminists" or what-not. If all the fans were like you, seeing it just as silly fun and not taking it so seriously, the hate-dom would likely shrink very quickly.
I used to love twilight. It was the series that got me into reading again in Jr. High. It was the best thing ever and it made me want to be alive. It saved me from so much pain. I felt everything they felt and wanted what they had for real. The thing is. That type of love isn't real. And that type of power struggle and "SAVE ME" type of stuff when it happens in a real life relationship it ends up ruining relationships.
While I used to absolutely love the series and I wanted a love like theirs It blew up in my face. When I decided to go back and watch the movies after having lived real life and been in enough relationships. It hurt so bad. I wanted to cry because I realized that its not real. That realization was so sad to me because I knew no matter how much the little 13 year old in me wanted that type of love it was never going to happen.
There was also a part of me that doesn't even want love like that because its really painful. Love like that while it burns hot in the beginning it always blows up later on. And that's never fun. It always hurts worse. Plus relationships like that aren't worth it.
Anyhoo. that's why I hate the books and movies now.
While I used to absolutely love the series and I wanted a love like theirs It blew up in my face. When I decided to go back and watch the movies after having lived real life and been in enough relationships. It hurt so bad. I wanted to cry because I realized that its not real. That realization was so sad to me because I knew no matter how much the little 13 year old in me wanted that type of love it was never going to happen.
There was also a part of me that doesn't even want love like that because its really painful. Love like that while it burns hot in the beginning it always blows up later on. And that's never fun. It always hurts worse. Plus relationships like that aren't worth it.
Anyhoo. that's why I hate the books and movies now.

The super devoted kind of love probably does exist, but it usually does NOT happen at first sight, and it probably won't happen with a super-popular celebrity of a guy with great abs. It's the combination of extreme love and extreme lust that is so unrealistic in "Twilight." If you just look for love and put lust on the back-burner, you'll probably be much happier in the long run.


Maybe at first, the people that hated the book actually had read it. And after a while it seemed like everyone who had read the book hated it (even though it wasn't). And there were people out there that didn't even know what the book was about and wanted to stand up for the book but they were afraid they would be criticized or judged severely or people out there who had read the book and liked it but they would never say because they knew they would severely be judged or criticized. And after a while that snowballed and almost everyone said they hated the book.
I'm a fan of Twilight and it was the book series that changed my life because it really got me into reading. It help made me realize that reading wasn't only for entertainment and amusement. It shows you how to love and basically feel with all those fictional characters and words. It taught you something, no matter how hard you resisted to learn. Yea. There are people that say the basic overall message was that you can't live without a man. But that message is petty and stupid. No. That wasn't the message. In order to actually see the message you had to look deeper. "You can't live without a man." was the surface message. It was a basic mask. And you shouldn't judge the message by it cover, but rather what lies beneath the cover.
People get mad at the fact that she was a boring character. But she really wasn't. She was reality. Sadly, she seemed very depressed. But thats cause she was. Her only friend was her mother. She wasn't very self-confident. She had low self-esteem. She didn't exactly have a proper mother figure (she had to be the mom). She didn't exactly have a father figure (yea she did have Phil but he wasn't so much a father and she did have Charlie but it was awkward between them so bonding was difficult, especially when she was only there for two weeks and after that all progress was gone). I think we need to applaud Bella. Most character would have committed suicide at this point. But she didn't. She lived through it day after day with a few threads of hope. I think in the book, Bella tries to be as optimistic as possible. She tries to make her situation sound a little bit nicer. Yea. She was shown love but it was never enough.
And then she walks into this town and finally meets someone who (at first tries to hate her but eventually) wants to do everything to show her how much he loves her. He want to protect her at all costs. And when Bella saw this love, she quickly took it like a hungry child who sees food. Her depression was slowly leaving as the love came in. And she grew so accustomed to this love and happiness, that when it suddenly vanished she quickly fell back into the hole of depression. And then she found a way to make the pain of depression go away for a little bit. And she used it. Maybe her jumping off a cliff was like suicide, but she had a breaking point. Can you blame her? Her depression was worse than ever because of the love she was neglected.
Yea. People say she is boring and the book is terrible. But the book is more realistic than boring. Yea. Its a book about vampires and werewolves but if there weren't vampires and werewolves in this book, then this book would be about the realities of life. Meyer used fictional fantasy creatures in order to get across a deep message of reality.This books depicts a lot of thing people dont want to talk about because they feel if they ignore the problem, it will disappear. But it will only become bigger.

Oh, yes, I am going to throw up. :)

The movie was literally two awkward teenagers who clearly had not read the book to be inspired by playing in the movie but were inspired and were flustered by their own unprofessional attractions to each other. (My point was proven when they started dating) The movie was absolutely horrible and seemed as if the director ran out of money and patience to correct the horrible acting skills of the two actors. Robert Pattinson got a bit better in other movies but I still don't like Kristen Stewart. Especially, after cheating on the guy. Like, wow, all right. I knew you weren't to be trusted but Robert never returned my warning calls and letters. (Just a joke guys)

I'm no fan of sparkly vampires, but have you read "Dracula?" The Count from "Sesame Street" would eat him for breakfast.

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In the timeline of thing she'd only been dating him for about 6 to 7 months and most of that relationship we didn't really see since about 5 of those months were summarized in first two pages of New Moon. And then you realize the entire series takes place in about a two year span. Stephenie Meyer didn't pace these books well at least in a believable manner — the entire series hinges upon us believing they're soulmates without really writing much for us to believe that besides declarations of love from an immature teenaged girl and a vampire who often talks down to her due to such which makes that SUPER believable right?
And, also, isn't it just Bella's luck that she somehow got a vampire AND a werewolf in love with her? Well isn't that realistic.
The entire book is a Mary Sue fantasy which if you didn't know that when you signed up to read it, boy were you in for a rude awakening. There's nothing of real substance in this book which I guess is why it once was well liked — if you weren't looking for substance then the book was satisfying, but if you were and looking for some answer as to why the phenomenon occurred to begin with then the book disappointed. All in all it's a wish fulfillment fantasy nothing more.