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I haven’t read a book since October but I knew to come here today to start this year’s challenge.
I became a Grandma in October ( little girl named Amara) and have been on Grandma duty. My DIL is from Malaysia and because of Covid her mom couldn’t come out so I’ve been doing double Grandma duty. My DIL is in medical school and my son is working so I stayed with them for a couple months to help everyone get sorted. It was exhausting and wonderful but did I mention exhausting. Lol
Anyway, I’m home and ready to read. Happy New Year.

I have had a lot of friends have kids this year with their parents overseas who can't get into the country. I know a lot of them would have loved such an invested and excited MIL as yourself. So I am sure your DIL and son have really appreciated you around!






Since I have memory (and a GR account) January 1st is a nightmare here. The site is overloaded and showing error all the time. The app hasn't work since very early in the morning.
My theory is that everyone is at home and setting GR annual challenge goals, etc. I don't really know the reason, but I happens every single New Year day.

That is very exciting! Bet, after you get rested, you'll be missing that baby.



Congrats Marnie!

We went see Spiderman last week too. We really enjoyed it. (I'm not the superheroes type of person, but with 6 boys... it is unavoidable). Now we are watching the previous ones, to refresh our memories about the multiverse.

I made only one, and it will probably take me the whole year to accomplish it. The only thing I proposed myself to do during 2022 is adding some enjoyment to my life. Just that. I sadly realized that currently there are not many things that bring pleasure to my life. The pandemic only did this even more extreme. I am so bad in this department that I can't even mention 5 things that I would enjoy doing. But I will get there.

No resolutions for the new year, I'm afraid. Just hoping that the pilgrimage that I was supposed to do two years ago will happen.

2- financial goals
1- health goal
and last... and the only one I actually feel like sharing.
I will not do nice things for my kids while they are being mean to me.

I didn't make any official resolutions, but I started these virtual challenges which got me moving more, so I want to keep that up. I'm also doing some challenges with my health watch, like now in January try to do 300.000 steps. And I also set myself the goal to go out for a walk or run for at least 15 minutes every day (just walking to the shop doesn't count, it has to be a deliberate walk). It's easy on weekends and in holidays and I easily do long walks then, but on workdays when it's cold or grey or rainy or busy it's sometimes easier to stay in and work some more. 15 minutes isn't much but I know once I'm out it will often turn into a longer walk.
I printed a calendar like this and I can colour in a bit of it every day I reach my goal.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/4457156...

Other than the standard health and financial goals I usually have, I decided I needed to branch out into something more interesting this year. So I also have 2 other resolutions, to take photos everyday and post 1 on Instagram. Kind of a minimal 365 day photography project. And to make a new recipe every week, to expand my horizons.

Wow! No. Not happening. Lol. I hope the restrictions don't last long, Camilla.

That calendar is very neat! I might steal it. I've been trying to encourage one of my boys to practice violin more often. We printed a calendar for him, but this one is way cooler.

I hear you. I had to do this a few months ago with one of my kids. I understand he is frustrated in many ways, but he has to understand being mean to me is not the way to solve anything. It has helped. He is getting it.

That is a great idea. Taking pictures can be so therapeutic, and there is also beauty in it.

This is a good resolution!

I like these and considered doing this as well, but need to find one I can print for free and without logging in. I have a Pinterest, but I never use it and don't remember my login info.

I like these resolutions.



Kids. They can really get to you. I've always figured they turned mean and nasty, saying things they know they shouldn't because it's safe. We're parents, not their friends. Our door is always open, they'll always be fed and have a place to sleep, clothes on their backs. As angry as we may get with them, they know we love them unconditionally. Of course, that doesn't mean they should take advantage of that and turn mean. I used to have to stare mine done and warn them to back up and not to stand so close to the edge of the cliff. Actually sometimes I still have to remind my younger one (37), but less often.

I haven't made any resolutions, as I don't fullfill them. I think 'no resolutions this year, just do it.'


I get a bit snarky and snappy when I'm stressed and that's something I don't like about myself. This year will be all about keeping my head above water and not killing anyone 😵

I want to work less, be stressed less, and therefore nicer to those around me, and able to spend time with those I care about rather than those I am paid to care about.
I also still need to loose a lot more weight, so taking time to do more than sit in front of a computer doing the above is the aim. Move more, do more physical work, eat better (and waste less!!), drink less.
As I write it all down sounds all interlinked a bit...

I like these and considered doing this as well, but need to find one I can print for free..."
Kristie, I found it here:
https://ysabetwordsmith.livejournal.c...
It is the one named "Calendar Full Year with Mosaic Months"

That is a great summary.

That is a great summary."
We should all live by it really.

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