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[iimpulsvbtch]

do you think it's more important for your friends and family to understand you or accept you?

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a question for you guys. according to your metrics, do you think:
acceptance>understanding
or
understanding>acceptance?
justify your choice"

I really wish Mary was here cause I am not the type who has amazing reasons for her answers. But I'll try my best here

Acceptance>understanding
(An example I gave. I might have overshared a lil.)

Hence, accepting someone is superior to understanding someone.

Hope I made sense

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Okay unpopular opinion time

Some people who have kids shouldn't have kids"

I agree"

Thank God someone does

[Artemis]

I agree with Kyra. accepting a person is more important because in some cases the person does not even fully understand themselves but by accepting them you show that you are there for them no matter what.

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a question for you guys. according to your metrics, do you think:
acceptance>understanding
or
understanding>acceptance?
justify your choice"

I really wish Mary was here..."

I agree! acceptance> understanding, because your family and friends may never understand you or your choices, but they can accept your complexity and they can also accept you for the happiness that you add to their life

[Aazra]

Y'all dead?

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a question for you guys. according to your metrics, do you think:
acceptance>understanding
or
understanding>acceptance?
justify your choice"

I really wish ..."

Exactly! Wow I'm so proud of myself for explaining this by making sense

[Aazra]

Artemis wrote: "I agree with Kyra. accepting a person is more important because in some cases the person does not even fully understand themselves but by accepting them you show that you are there for them no matt..."

Exactly that!

[iimpulsvbtch]

Artemis wrote: "I agree with Kyra. accepting a person is more important because in some cases the person does not even fully understand themselves but by accepting them you show that you are there for them no matt..."

agreed
while feeling understood is nice, and it can be frustrating to feel misunderstood all the time, I think acceptance is more valuable

[Aazra]

Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, doesn't it?)

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a question for you guys. according to your metrics, do you think:
acceptance>understanding
or
understanding>acceptance?
justify your cho..."

I understand what you're getting at most of the time, don't worry about it :)

[iimpulsvbtch]

you don't give yourself enough credit, kyra

[Maya]

Artemis wrote: "I agree with Kyra. accepting a person is more important because in some cases the person does not even fully understand themselves but by accepting them you show that you are there for them no matt..."

Yes, I agree too. I know that sometimes it can't be that easy to understand someone, but if you accept them like who they are, you're showing your willingness to try to understand them.

[Maya]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I have a question for you guys. according to your metrics, do you think:
acceptance>understanding
or
understanding>acceptance?
justify your choice"

I really wish ..."

yes!

[Maya]

Kyra wrote: "Y'all dead?"

Lmao, I was just thinking how to explain my answer.

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "you don't give yourself enough credit, kyra"

Aww...thanks luv♥️😚

[Aazra]

Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Y'all dead?"

Lmao, I was just thinking how to explain my answer."

Hahaha 😂

[Aazra]

Kyra wrote: "Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, doesn't it?)"

Me giving Marcus vibes here low-key

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, doesn't it?)"

it does not sound creepy
and calling someone a critical thinker is actually a great compliment.
there's so much that goes on in my head tbh I just like thinking about things and I like hearing other people's opinions because I think its really important to understand yourself and the people around you

[iimpulsvbtch]

Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Artemis wrote: "I agree with Kyra. accepting a person is more important because in some cases the person does not even fully understand themselves but by accepting them you show that you are there ..."

precisely!

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, doesn't it?)"

Me gi..."

not Marcus LMFAO

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, doesn't it?)"

it do..."

I like being around people like you cause I don't have opinions on a lot of things so I feel like whenever I get to know others' opinions, I develop my own.

[iimpulsvbtch]

Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Y'all dead?"

Lmao, I was just thinking how to explain my answer."

sometimes I get way too carried away when thinking about a question and I just get stuck in my head

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, ..."

hearing other people's perspective on things helps me develop my own as well so I get this

[Maya]

Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Sarah, I'm wondering what goes through your head cause you seem like a very critical thinker. I'm really interested in who you really are (DAMN that sounds creepy, ..."

Same! I really like the way you think, Sarah!

[Aazra]

Also Sarah, I've noticed this everytime we've had a conversation.
You never dry things up. You either pop up with a question or a debate. It's good to be around you <33

[Aazra]

Meeting new people is fascinating
There's so much stuff you need to know about them and it's so mysterious and exciting at the same time

[iimpulsvbtch]

awe thank you, I try :) you guys are so fun to talk to as well!

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "Meeting new people is fascinating
There's so much stuff you need to know about them and it's so mysterious and exciting at the same time"

yesss

[Aazra]

Have y'all ever noticed how, just like books, there are people who don't have 3D personalities but irl?
Like you know how we complain that the characters of a book had no depth? Ever noticed people like that irl?

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "awe thank you, I try :) you guys are so fun to talk to as well!"

<3 thank you 😚

[Maya]

Kyra wrote: "Have y'all ever noticed how, just like books, there are people who don't have 3D personalities but irl?
Like you know how we complain that the characters of a book had no depth? Ever noticed people..."

If I were a character, people would complain I have no depth...

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "Have y'all ever noticed how, just like books, there are people who don't have 3D personalities but irl?
Like you know how we complain that the characters of a book had no depth? Ever noticed people..."

I don't think I've ever met anyone with character depth irl. my biggest ick is that some of the most simple minded people always at some point tell me "I know i'm really complicated so you might not get it" like dude. dude. have you met yourself???? who are you even describing rn? :0

[Aazra]

impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Have y'all ever noticed how, just like books, there are people who don't have 3D personalities but irl?
Like you know how we complain that the characters of a book had no depth? Ever n..."

Hahaha I think I kinda say that. I don't call myself complicated, I call situations complicated even when they aren't. I like people who have deep layers to them. So much to learn and observe. I have interests on how different people react in different situations. It always fascinates me

[Aazra]

BRO WHY DO I LOWKEY SOUND LIKE SOME SORTA PSYCHOPATH????

.(. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) I swear I'm not

[Aazra]

Oh well, I guess no one's here
Goodnight ♥️

[iimpulsvbtch]

Kyra wrote: "BRO WHY DO I LOWKEY SOUND LIKE SOME SORTA PSYCHOPATH????

.(. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) I swear I'm not"

you donttt dw and yeah I get you

[iimpulsvbtch]

goodnight!

[fish]

Kyra wrote: "GIVE ME A STANDING OVATION BECAUSE I TOOK CARE OF HALF-HUMAN BEINGS FOR 18 GODDAMN HOURS AND I'M FINALLY BACK"

CONGRATULATIONS!! YOU'RE FINALLY FREE FROM TAKING CARE OF LITTLE DEMON SPAWNS U DESERVE IT!! <333

[Aazra]

Eden wrote: "Kyra wrote: "GIVE ME A STANDING OVATION BECAUSE I TOOK CARE OF HALF-HUMAN BEINGS FOR 18 GODDAMN HOURS AND I'M FINALLY BACK"

CONGRATULATIONS!! YOU'RE FINALLY FREE FROM TAKING CARE OF LITTLE DEMON S..."

THANK YOU EDEN♥️

[Unknown]

Hello everyone
Thanks for not letting my nook die.

Also, I’m back from the wedding and completely exhausted.
And I have to go back there for After party

[Elena]

Oh wow great

[Unknown]

ELENAAA

[Elena]

We would NOT HAVE LET THIS NOOK DIE NO MATTER WHAT MARY
also the public forum thing is actually a reference to ancient Rome
Ppl would come to the forum to hang out and chat, there would be shops and gladiator fights also the Senate House was in the public forum

[Unknown]

Elena wrote: "We would NOT HAVE LET THIS NOOK DIE NO MATTER WHAT MARY
also the public forum thing is actually a reference to ancient Rome
Ppl would come to the forum to hang out and chat, there would be shops an..."

Thanks a lot Elena 😭

[Elena]

WE CANNOT LET OUR PUBLIC FORUM DIE AS RESPONSIBLE CITIZENS OF THE GOODREADS COMMUNITY

[Unknown]

It’s fine if you just greet too.
It makes me sad to see my nook with zero new messages 😩

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Elena wrote: "We would NOT HAVE LET THIS NOOK DIE NO MATTER WHAT MARY
also the public forum thing is actually a reference to ancient Rome
Ppl would come to the forum to hang out and chat, there wou..."
Welcome ✨

[Unknown]

A quick question
If I do a face reveal.

Like. How do I do it with maximum security because you know…

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "It’s fine if you just greet too.
It makes me sad to see my nook with zero new messages 😩"

Hehe yes you won't see zero messages cuz you got JOBLESS friends