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Unknown Reader’s nook of ✨positivity✨
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Maya
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Oct 16, 2021 11:01AM
Wow...I love how I can talk about this with all of you.
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I’m not very close with my family and friends, so I don’t tell them that much. I mean I do tell things to my friends that I obviously don’t say to my family, but honestly, I don’t think they would understand if I tell them about my mental health or smth…
Yesterday I was talking to some friends and I don’t really remember what happened, but the topic of depression came up, and one of my friends was like “depression?” “Yeah, like you could have depression” like someone our age couldn’t have depression. (she wasn’t talking to me, and I know she didn’t meant it in any mean way, but that’s why I don’t think they would understand me.)
alot of people assume young people can't have depression, but I mean have they seen the world we live in. life demands so much of us, they say we have it easy but easy isn't how I would describe modern life
Artemis wrote: "alot of people assume young people can't have depression, but I mean have they seen the world we live in. life demands so much of us, they say we have it easy but easy isn't how I would describe mo..."Yes! This is so true! My friend is a very happy person and I really admire her for that, but she can be judgy too. And I don't think she really gets it...
I try to be happy and sunny but my friends will say tell you I'm dark and emo. I'm both, I am happy to other people but I'm only happy to them because I'm not sure they are so I try to make them happy.
Artemis, you’re such a good person! I try to be nice to every person I meet, but I’m socially awkward so sometimes I don’t really know what to say…
Artemis wrote: "alot of people assume young people can't have depression, but I mean have they seen the world we live in. life demands so much of us, they say we have it easy but easy isn't how I would describe mo..."I don't think people take mental health as seriously as they should
impulsvbtch wrote: "do y'all have people whom you feel you're very compatible with?"Compatible in what kinda way?
impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "hey!"Hey Sarah!
Haven't seen you in a while"
hey! how are ya?"
Tired after babysitting 4 of my nephews
Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "do y'all have people whom you feel you're very compatible with?"Compatible in what kinda way?"
okay so although I do get along with most people, I feel like I struggle to find people who's needs and habits line up with mine? like do you have people that you feel very attached to?
Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "hey!"Hey Sarah!
Haven't seen you in a while"
hey! how are ya?"
Tired after babysitting 4 of my nephews"
gah kids *shudders*
impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "do y'all have people whom you feel you're very compatible with?"Compatible in what kinda way?"
okay so although I do get along with most people, I feel like I st..."
no :( I wish I had someone like that, but I'm not really close to anyone. Like REALLY close :/
impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "do y'all have people whom you feel you're very compatible with?"Compatible in what kinda way?"
okay so although I do get along with most people, I feel like I st..."
I thhink most people here are people who don't have the same habits and needs as mine. So I get what you're saying. But my only bsf is a person who thinks like me, has very similar interests and gossips like me and even talks like me sometimes so I guess me and her are very compatible?
impulsvbtch wrote: "I don't think i've ever met anyone and felt an instant click"I don't believe in instant clicks or any instant stuff
I think everything builds up over time and that's why I give people a lot of time and sadly most of them take advantage of it
Maya [hiatus] wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "do y'all have people whom you feel you're very compatible with?"Compatible in what kinda way?"
okay so although I do get along with most peop..."
same which is frustrating sometimes because I could spend a whole day hanging out with friends and I could have a great time but then I still somehow find a way to feel lonely? all the excitement and attachment that I see my friends feel when they meet new people or when they're with people just doesn't ever happen with me
i have one friend we are compatible but we have history and that history makes me doubt our friendship sometimes
Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "do y'all have people whom you feel you're very compatible with?"Compatible in what kinda way?"
okay so although I do get along with most peop..."
that's nice
impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "hey!"Hey Sarah!
Haven't seen you in a while"
hey! how are ya?"
Tired after babysitting 4 of my nephews"
gah kids *shudders*"
In any minute, I have, from five, to 8 year olds coming to my house *cries*
Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I don't think i've ever met anyone and felt an instant click"I don't believe in instant clicks or any instant stuff
I think everything builds up over time and that's why I giv..."
Yeah, I mean I have friends that I have known since I was 6 and although we are close, we are not THAT close.
Artemis wrote: "i have one friend we are compatible but we have history and that history makes me doubt our friendship sometimes"Damn, I can't relate at all but I understand
Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I don't think i've ever met anyone and felt an instant click"I don't believe in instant clicks or any instant stuff
I think everything builds up over time and that's why I giv..."
I don't believe in instant stuff either but that's not how I meant it. you know how you catch a vibe from people when you first start talking to them? like depending on their attitude or if they're really passionate about something and excitedly share it with people that they meet?
Artemis wrote: "i have one friend we are compatible but we have history and that history makes me doubt our friendship sometimes"ah i see
Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I don't think i've ever met anyone and felt an instant click"I don't believe in instant clicks or any instant stuff
I think everything builds up over time and tha..."
Yeah I understand that Maya
Maya [hiatus] wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "hey!"Hey Sarah!
Haven't seen you in a while"
hey! how are ya?"
Tired after babysitting 4 of my nephews"
ga..."
good luck *cringes*
impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I don't think i've ever met anyone and felt an instant click"I don't believe in instant clicks or any instant stuff
I think everything builds up over time and tha..."
OHHHH I see you noww!!!! You mean that they pass the vibe check immediately
Oh mannn I feel you on this one
Kyra wrote: "Maya, get readyThe lil ones have a ton of energy like bro??"
IKRR! Plus I there's one that is VERY spoiled, and he thinks everyone should do whatever he wants! Like dude! You're 8-years old! You barely know how to talk! you're not the king of the world!
Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Maya, get readyThe lil ones have a ton of energy like bro??"
IKRR! Plus I there's one that is VERY spoiled, and he thinks everyone should do whatever he wants! Like dude! You're 8-ye..."
big yikes
impulsvbtch wrote: "Kyra wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I don't think i've ever met anyone and felt an instant click"I don't believe in instant clicks or any instant stuff
I think everything builds up over time and tha..."
Oh, I mean, not really...
Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Maya, get readyThe lil ones have a ton of energy like bro??"
IKRR! Plus I there's one that is VERY spoiled, and he thinks everyone should do whatever he wants! Like dude! You're 8-ye..."
Dammit I know a 6 year old who talks like she owns the world
And her mother is a freaking bumhole (she's my cousin, the mother. I shouldn't trash her)
Kyra wrote: "Maya [hiatus] wrote: "Kyra wrote: "Maya, get readyThe lil ones have a ton of energy like bro??"
IKRR! Plus I there's one that is VERY spoiled, and he thinks everyone should do whatever he wants! ..."
The 8-year old is my cousin. And I LOVE his mom! She's like my favorite aunt, but she spoils her kids!
I have a question for you guys. according to your metrics, do you think:acceptance>understanding
or
understanding>acceptance?
justify your choice
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