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So, I wonder, Do (most) children identify with or empathize with animal characters, or do they just observe them?
Do they identify with or empathize more readily with human characters?
Does it make a difference if the story is relevant to the child's experience? (For example, cautionary tales about playing with matches were more relevant when fires in homes were more prevalent.)
Does the the likelihood that a child will 'learn a lesson' from a story depend on whether s/he connects with the character?
I'm not even sure exactly what questions I'm asking. I wish I could remember better what my sons might have expressed to me when we read together... however, I don't think we really made much more explicit than the text itself did, rather I think that I just assumed that they were getting what they needed to out of the stories, and I just chose carefully to share ones that I thought had valuable lessons or at least weren't likely to promote values that I didn't approve of.
I'd really appreciate it if parents, teachers, and librarians could chime in here about whatever thoughts they have about how children actually really do relate to the lessons that can be found in stories, especially in re' the choice of the characters' portrayals.
Do they identify with or empathize more readily with human characters?
Does it make a difference if the story is relevant to the child's experience? (For example, cautionary tales about playing with matches were more relevant when fires in homes were more prevalent.)
Does the the likelihood that a child will 'learn a lesson' from a story depend on whether s/he connects with the character?
I'm not even sure exactly what questions I'm asking. I wish I could remember better what my sons might have expressed to me when we read together... however, I don't think we really made much more explicit than the text itself did, rather I think that I just assumed that they were getting what they needed to out of the stories, and I just chose carefully to share ones that I thought had valuable lessons or at least weren't likely to promote values that I didn't approve of.
I'd really appreciate it if parents, teachers, and librarians could chime in here about whatever thoughts they have about how children actually really do relate to the lessons that can be found in stories, especially in re' the choice of the characters' portrayals.
One example that I can speak to: Don't most children empathize more with the Three Bears than with Goldilocks? I have always felt so annoyed with that girl, and so sad for the innocent bears.,,, even when I was a blond-haired child myself! I certainly didn't want to emulate her, and I didn't feel it to be a cautionary tale because I already knew that messing with other ppl's stuff was wrong.
For me, whether I simply observe and perhaps somewhat emphasize with an animal character (if it deserves this) or whether I actually also could also put myself in said animal's place depends on both the kind of animal being featured and how the story is being told (both now and when I was a child in fact). Like Cheryl, I have never really liked animals that dress in human clothing in my books, so if animals are too anthropomorphic, that is already a bit of a turn off or at least it can be. Furthermore, being a horse person and not so much a dog or cat person, I have always had more of a connection with horse main characters (such as Black Beauty) than with dog or cat main chartacters (such as the animal protagonists in The Incredible Journey).
Cheryl wrote: "One example that I can speak to: Don't most children empathize more with the Three Bears than with Goldilocks? I have always felt so annoyed with that girl, and so sad for the innocent bears.,,, ev..."
I would say that Goldilocks is one of my least favoruite fairy tale characters and mostly because she is a spoiled brat who does not even really ever experience any real consequences for her trashing the bears' home either.
I would say that Goldilocks is one of my least favoruite fairy tale characters and mostly because she is a spoiled brat who does not even really ever experience any real consequences for her trashing the bears' home either.

quoting from the article
• Research is starting to show that reading literary fiction can train you in social perception and understanding other peoples' experience of the world.
• Other research shows that you can get people to be less prejudiced if they interact with people who they don't identify with — psychologists call it "inter-group contact."

What I usually think about when I think about this topic though, is what it says about children of colour; that animals are more relatable than another human who has a different skin tone? That children dont need to be exposed to stories from varying cultures and tribes? That the stories and experiences dont matter as much?
I'm just thinking out loud here, but also trying to process how I feel about. I don't every remember seeing a brown girl featured in anything as a kid, especially if she was arab.
Thank you Phoebe. You've articulated very well what I had in the back of my mind and just couldn't bring forward. It is only recently that we've seen a significant number of child characters who are non-white.
Or, for that matter, a significant number of animal characters who weren't farm animals, lions, or bears.
Hurrah for the exceptions, like Gyo Fujikawa for Ten Little Babies and others, and for Catherine Rayner's Abigail and Ernest, the Moose Who Doesn't Fit.
But indeed, we parents and other educators probably should try to remember to check in once in a while and find out the children what messages they actually are understanding.
Or, for that matter, a significant number of animal characters who weren't farm animals, lions, or bears.
Hurrah for the exceptions, like Gyo Fujikawa for Ten Little Babies and others, and for Catherine Rayner's Abigail and Ernest, the Moose Who Doesn't Fit.
But indeed, we parents and other educators probably should try to remember to check in once in a while and find out the children what messages they actually are understanding.
Phoebe wrote: "I don't every remember seeing a brown girl featured in anything as a kid, especially if she was arab...."
The publishing world is changing these days. In my library's catalog I identified six picture books about Arab Muslims:
The Proudest Blue by Ibtihaj Muhammad
Under My Hijab by Hena Khan
Mommy's Khimar by Jamilah Thompkins-Bigelow
Yaffa and Fatima, Shalom, Salaam by Fawzia Gilani-Williams
Moon Watchers: Shirin's Ramadan Miracle by Reza Jalali
Big Red Lollipop by Rukhsana Khan
There were also middle grade books and young adult books listed as well.
The publishing world is changing these days. In my library's catalog I identified six picture books about Arab Muslims:
The Proudest Blue by Ibtihaj Muhammad
Under My Hijab by Hena Khan
Mommy's Khimar by Jamilah Thompkins-Bigelow
Yaffa and Fatima, Shalom, Salaam by Fawzia Gilani-Williams
Moon Watchers: Shirin's Ramadan Miracle by Reza Jalali
Big Red Lollipop by Rukhsana Khan
There were also middle grade books and young adult books listed as well.


As for the topic here, I think it depends upon the animal character, how it's written and the receiving child/adult. I've attempted to introduce animal characters early on to both children and grandchildren so that they have some empathy for animals, for I contend that if an individual doesn't care about animals or have some kind of pet, they're not the kind of person I want to be associated with.
Having said that, half my brood adore animal characters in books,
and tend to be kinder, more empathetic. While the others are more into more human-like, realistic characters, even if exaggerated somewhat. They want to see characters that reflect themselves.
That can be the issue. Not being exposed to other cultures they may find unrelatable. Being exposed to other people, cultures, skin color, gender, etc doesn't have to go overboard, but it's important for a child's development into a modern, civilized world.
jmo,
Gammy
Books mentioned in this topic
Mommy's Khimar (other topics)Under My Hijab (other topics)
Big Red Lollipop (other topics)
Yaffa and Fatima: Shalom, Salaam (other topics)
Moon Watchers: Shirin's Ramadan Miracle (other topics)
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Rukhsana Khan (other topics)Reza Jalali (other topics)
Ibtihaj Muhammad (other topics)
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Jamilah Thompkins-Bigelow (other topics)
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First, I've long noticed the different ways that animal characters can stand in for children or people, and the different ways readers react to that happening.
For example, I don't like animals to wear clothes; I also don't like them to portrayed inaccurately, eg a 'wicked wolf.' Some children don't like animals to take on the roles of people at all. Some authors and illustrators choose to use animal characters because they see animals as "color-blind" which, they hope, makes their book have a more universal appeal.
Second, I thought about analyses by scholars and psychologists of the effect of stories on children. I summarized one such perspective in my review of Curious George, here: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show....
One reaction to the academic perspective showed up there, as QNPoohBear commented on my review: "I never thought about the message, just the cute monkey." I believe her, of course.. But otoh some lessons are learned sub- or even un-consciously, as parents well know.