Paranormal/Urban Fantasy series-The main character goes to a party with a friend. She's resistant to charm(I'am not sure) and attracts unwanted attention.Finding a friend who doesn't give her a sign of life gives her a great opportunity to leave the city.

[Lacaille]

She goes to a small town which turns out to be full of supernatural creatures (werewolves and vampires at least). She is not welcome there.
(view spoiler)[ Main character gets romantically involved with some important werewolf. Her friend was taken by the vampire and if I am not wrong she become vampire herself (hide spoiler)]
I read this at least 5 years ago.

[Kate]

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