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Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Isaiah wrote: "I save up random gift cards all year from different apps, so I can go a little nuts. I can't get in trouble if it isn't real money ;)"

Smart man!! :) ;)


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Shari-amor | 166 comments I wanna add books from my giftees' wishlist so bad right now but they are the kind of books that stand out and I'm paranoid that she'd figure me out.


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Shari-amor wrote: "I wanna add books from my giftees' wishlist so bad right now but they are the kind of books that stand out and I'm paranoid that she'd figure me out."

Haha- I keep doing that stuff! I keep creeping on wishlists and adding items!


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Shin Mon Thway (shinmonthway) | 150 comments My giftee has only around 10 titles and most of them are available on KU. *wails* Please add more wishlists!!!!!!!!!!!


Shile (Hazard's Version) on-hiatus (shile) | 107 comments Shin maybe they don't have KU membership?


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Shin Mon Thway (shinmonthway) | 150 comments Shile wrote: "Shin maybe they don't have KU membership?"

I don't know. I'm just going to gift a couple books. I'm not even sure they are available on smashwords. You know KU is amazon exclusive. *wails*


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Shile wrote: "Shin maybe they don't have KU membership?"

I don't! Find them on Goodreads and then check their lists. Use their email address to locate them.


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Shin Mon wrote: "Shile wrote: "Shin maybe they don't have KU membership?"

I don't know. I'm just going to gift a couple books. I'm not even sure they are available on smashwords. You know KU is amazon exclusive. *..."


I messaged you back! :)


~ Lei ~ Reading Is An Adventure ~ (leilanilives2read) | 345 comments Isaiah wrote: "I save up random gift cards all year from different apps, so I can go a little nuts. I can't get in trouble if it isn't real money ;)"

I cash in our credit card points for Amazon cards.


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Aղցela W. | 481 comments Shin Mon wrote: "My giftee has only around 10 titles and most of them are available on KU. *wails* Please add more wishlists!!!!!!!!!!!"

my giftee has only 3 books and one of them is a lot if I get the book she may only get that one. I prefer to use the money from that 1 and get three.


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Ekollon | 35 comments I can't talk about my problems, because I would totally give myself away.

But I'm all, "Wah, this is more complicated than I had anticipated! I hope I can figure it out!"


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
You guys can PM me to chat more if you need further help!


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Shandra | 83 comments I love that people are gifting to more than just their assigned partner. I haven't got a lot to work with this year so I'm not able to do more than the max for my person. I want to save up next year though so I can go a little crazy too lol!


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Shandra wrote: "I love that people are gifting to more than just their assigned partner. I haven't got a lot to work with this year so I'm not able to do more than the max for my person. I want to save up next yea..."

Don't push yourself over what you can afford- it's all in good fun! :)


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Shandra wrote: "I love that people are gifting to more than just their assigned partner. I haven't got a lot to work with this year so I'm not able to do more than the max for my person. I want to save up next yea..."

But the gifting always gets out of control!


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Shandra | 83 comments LOL! I can believe it Heather K. I love seeing everyone sharing their gifts! Some of them are books I've read, some I've never heard of, and it's like I get to add to my own TBR since people have good taste!


~ Lei ~ Reading Is An Adventure ~ (leilanilives2read) | 345 comments Shandra wrote: "some I've never heard of, and it's like I get to add to my own TBR since people have good taste! ..."

The Exchange is always good way to add more books to the tbr pile. I've already added a couple of additions to series I didn't know were out.


message 68: by Shandra (new)

Shandra | 83 comments I've added some to my wishlist too just because I figure I'm not kidding myself: I'll do this again next year. lol

I can always remove something if I get to read it before next year!


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Melissa | 395 comments Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "We could say where we are from. Some people might have said it when they introduced themselves."

Northern Virginia, USA. Roughly 30 minutes south of Wash, DC.


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Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments Melissa wrote: "Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "We could say where we are from. Some people might have said it when they introduced themselves.".."

I'm from Germany - 2 hours away from Berlin.


message 71: by Shandra (new)

Shandra | 83 comments I'm in Tennessee, almost falling into Georgia and North Carolina in the lower corner, lol.


message 72: by Aղցela W. (new)

Aղցela W. | 481 comments I love doing these gift exchanges but I realized for every book that my secret elf sends me I make sure that I say thank u because I want them to know that I appreciate the time they took to look for a book for me and that they spent there money. I am saying this to say that the person that I have hasn't said one thing in this group that's fine, but sometimes to little words go along way.


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Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments Aղցela W. wrote: "I love doing these gift exchanges but I realized for every book that my secret elf sends me I make sure that I say thank u because I want them to know that I appreciate the time they took to look f..."

I know what you mean. I love witnessing the joy and happiness people express when they post about their gifts :)
Have you checked on Elfster? Maybe your giftee has posted a thank you note there?


message 74: by Aղցela W. (new)

Aղցela W. | 481 comments No I haven't and its ok if she didn't I posted this because the same thing happened last year and I didn't say anything but I wanted to this year.


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Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments Aղցela W. wrote: "No I haven't and its ok if she didn't I posted this because the same thing happened last year and I didn't say anything but I wanted to this year."

I get it :(
Maybe she was just busy. I had to be reminded that it was Thanksgiving in the US when I got impatient and worried because some friends hadn't redeemed their gifts yet, lol! I hope your giftee will get around to say thank you before the event is over :)


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Shin Mon Thway (shinmonthway) | 150 comments Josy wrote: "Aղցela W. wrote: "I love doing these gift exchanges but I realized for every book that my secret elf sends me I make sure that I say thank u because I want them to know that I appreciate the time t..."

How to post a thank you note on Elfster???


message 77: by Josy (last edited Nov 26, 2018 02:01PM) (new)

Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments When you go to the 'homepage' of our gift exchange (where you see who you have been paired up with) it says something like say thank you or post a thank you note or something like that under the name of your giftee. I've already done it so I don't know exactly what it says :)


message 78: by Trio (new)

Trio | 156 comments It was a big holiday weekend in the states... it's possible your giftee just hasn't had a chance to check their emails...?


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Yes, sometimes people just post on Elfster- I try to post and remind people to post here also!


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Shin Mon Thway (shinmonthway) | 150 comments Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "Yes, sometimes people just post on Elfster- I try to post and remind people to post here also!"

I didn't know how to post on Elfster but I did post all my goodies here. *smirk*


Lisa ~ Books Are My Drugs ~ (lisa44870) | 201 comments I'm one of those people who checked email sparsely over the holiday since I was out of town & I share data with my son. So I was trying to limit my use. :|


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Kacey | 208 comments So this isn’t really about the exchange itself but I want some recommendations! I’ve never listened to an audio book and I see a lot of you really like audio books and have listened to/ gifted quite a few. For someone whose never listened to an audio book what do you recommend I start with?? I really want to try one but I want to start out with something good! Any genre 😊


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Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments Kacey wrote: "So this isn’t really about the exchange itself but I want some recommendations! I’ve never listened to an audio book and I see a lot of you really like audio books and have listened to/ gifted quit..."

That's really hard to answer, I think. A narrator can make or break a story. I'd say listen to the samples on Amazon, Audible or Tantor Audio to see if you like a narrator and choose a book you are interested in.
These are some of my favorite narrators in the MM Romance Genre:
Greg Boudreaux / Greg Tremblay
Michael Lesley
Nick J. Russo
Kirt Graves
Tristan James
J.F. Harding
Michael Ferraiuolo
Sean Crisden
Derrick McClain
(not in any particular order)
A lot of people love Joel Leslie but he is hit or miss for me.

edit: Oh yes! I have a 'good narrator' shelf, too :)
https://www.goodreads.com/review/list...


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Josy wrote: "Kacey wrote: "So this isn’t really about the exchange itself but I want some recommendations! I’ve never listened to an audio book and I see a lot of you really like audio books and have listened t..."

Same here. Joel Leslie can really overact, IMO.

In the not M/M world, I have a ton of faves. You can check out my favorite narrator shelves:

https://www.goodreads.com/review/list...

https://www.goodreads.com/review/list...


message 85: by Josy (last edited Nov 30, 2018 09:17AM) (new)

Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "Same here. Joel Leslie can really overact, IMO. .."

Exactly! I know only a few people who feel the same, though, and I always wonder what is wrong with me, lol! He has gotten so popular in the MM Romance Genre that I listen more to him now than I used to (and I was trying to get used to him) but he remains hit or miss for me.


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Aղցela W. | 481 comments Kacey wrote: "So this isn’t really about the exchange itself but I want some recommendations! I’ve never listened to an audio book and I see a lot of you really like audio books and have listened to/ gifted quit..."

MF
Shayla Black
Lora Leigh
Kristen Ashley

MM
Lucy Lennox
Sloane Kennedy
To name a few


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Shin Mon Thway (shinmonthway) | 150 comments For me, my two current favorite narrators are Gary Furlong and Jason Frazier. My God, Gary has so many accents he can superbly nail. "Sweet Thing" by Isobel Starling, one MC's French and the other one is German and I was a happy happy goo listening Gary's narration. So soooooooo good. Also, I currently fell in love with Jason Frazier in "Blame it on the mistletoe" by Eli Easton. The dude can narrate the kissing scene so titillating. Also, I loved An Asian Minor: The true story of Ganymede, narrated by Jason Frazier. So soooo good. Gomez Pugh is a staple for me too. I love his PsyCop series. So good.


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Shin Mon wrote: "For me, my two current favorite narrators are Gary Furlong and Jason Frazier. My God, Gary has so many accents he can superbly nail. "Sweet Thing" by Isobel Starling, one MC's French and the other ..."

Jason Frazier is another hit or miss for me.


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Josy wrote: "Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "Same here. Joel Leslie can really overact, IMO. .."

Exactly! I know only a few people who feel the same, though, and I always wonder what is wrong with..."


Yeah, hit or miss also, but there are only a few narrators that I really dislike, and I always feel bad when I rail on them in my reviews!


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Melissa | 395 comments Kacey wrote: "So this isn’t really about the exchange itself but I want some recommendations! I’ve never listened to an audio book and I see a lot of you really like audio books and have listened to/ gifted quit..."

Do you want a romantic story, comedy, drama/angsty? Other? Personally, I would recommend you listen to The Lightning-Struck Heart by TJ Klune. It's an amazingly well done audio production, PLUS a great story. Very, very comedic. :D I would also recommend By Fairy Means or Foul This was an AWESOME audio all the way around.

If you want a more serious/romantic story, I really enjoyed listening to Josh Lanyon's All's Fair Complete Collection: Fair Game\Fair Play\Fair Chance series. The narrator does change from book 1 to 2 (but I liked them both).

As for a more traditional romance, there are several books that come to mind. The Remaking of Corbin Wale was a very nice romance (although I thought the audio production was breathy). I also liked Hearts in Ireland

I don't know what genre I would classify this one under, but I liked Openly Straight and, Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda

I could keep going but I won't. :D


message 91: by Kacey (new)

Kacey | 208 comments Thank you ladies!!!

I have so many options to go check out now. It definitely makes sense that it really depends on the narrator. So if it’s a narrator that you like are you more inclined to buy the audio book? I guess I’m a bit nervous I won’t enjoy listening instead of reading, but I’ve wanted to try one for a while.

Melissa, I’m a big romance reader but I also love fantasy stuff as well. I’ll also read contemporary fiction depending on the book but you gave me lots of options to look at! I’ve noticed that particular TJ Klune book seems to be popular on audio so I might give that a go


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Melissa | 395 comments Kacey wrote: "Thank you ladies!!!

I have so many options to go check out now. It definitely makes sense that it really depends on the narrator. So if it’s a narrator that you like are you more inclined to buy ..."


Kacey, I understand your fear about audios. I was very resistant to trying because YEARS ago I tried it and could not pay attention, my mind would wander. Now I know it was because the narration wasn't working for me. When I finally got my hands on a good audio, I haven't been able to stop and now I always have an audio going, plus reading an ebook. (I commute to/from work so I have an audiobook playing in my car on the way to the commuter lot, and when I get in a car with other people I read my ebook. :D Works for me).

To answer your question, yes, if a person really loves a particular narrator they will buy the audio for that reason alone. The narrator being part of a book by a well loved author? That book is gold. Like TJ. :D

If you are a big fantasy fan, we can definitely hook you up with more recs. ;)


message 93: by Lisazj1 (last edited Nov 30, 2018 04:46PM) (new)

Lisazj1 | 1514 comments Melissa wrote: "Kacey wrote: "Thank you ladies!!!

I have so many options to go check out now. It definitely makes sense that it really depends on the narrator. So if it’s a narrator that you like are you more in..."


I'm with Melissa. I never thought I'd like them, a friend was telling me how he listens while he drives (because Atlanta traffic is a straight up bitch) and I gave it a try. I'm never without a book when I drive and a great voice performer (because that's exactly what they are) can take a terrific book to a whole new level. I absolutely buy books just because of narrator. Nick J Russo, Greg Tremblay, Joel Leslie, Gomez Pugh, Michael Lesley, Alex Wyndham, Heather O'Neil, Tim Gerard Reynolds, Tristan James, George Guidall. Really, I could go on. *And I do. A lot. Sorry!!*

And every single one of the readers for TJ's books have knocked it out of the park, though I haven't listened to all of them yet. :)


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LOLA (friendlyfire) | 27 comments You can't go wrong with TJ's books.
Or Mary Calmes.🎅😍


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Aղցela W. | 481 comments One of my favorite narrator's is Michael Pauley he does a lot of M/M


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Melissa | 395 comments LOLA wrote: "You can't go wrong with TJ's books.
Or Mary Calmes.🎅😍"


Marcy Calmes is hit or miss. I really loved Jin (Change of Heart series) & Jory/Sam (A Matter of Time series), but most of her other stories didn't work for me.


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Lisazj1 | 1514 comments Who does Michael Pauley read for Angela? I don’t believe I’ve ever listened to him.

I’m the same Melissa, there are a couple of Mary Calmes books I absolutely love, and one that’s a comfort re-read. But mostly, Mary & I were just not meant to be, LOL.


message 98: by Josy (last edited Dec 01, 2018 10:42AM) (new)

Josy (aceofhearts83) | 668 comments Lisazj1 wrote: "I’m the same Melissa, there are a couple of Mary Calmes books I absolutely love, and one that’s a comfort re-read.."

It took a while but I learned to love most of her books :)
What is your comfort book? Mine is Acrobat by Mary Calmes and I listen to it all the time, lol!


Shile (Hazard's Version) on-hiatus (shile) | 107 comments My Favourites are:

Greg Boudreaux / Greg Tremblay, Nick J. Russo, Kirt Graves, Gary Furlong, Nick Boulton, J.F. Harding, Michael Ferraiuolo. Sean Crisden


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Lisazj1 | 1514 comments Josy wrote: "Lisazj1 wrote: "I’m the same Melissa, there are a couple of Mary Calmes books I absolutely love, and one that’s a comfort re-read.."

It took a while but I learned to love most of her books :)
What..."


Bahahaha!!! That's too hilarious, Acrobat by Mary Calmes is MY comfort read too!!! :) I love them both but Dreo is so swoony! *dreamy sigh*


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