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Oct 2018 READER Pick: Forever War by Haldeman
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I first read this novel when I came back from my first deployment. I had struggled with finding a way to articulate exactly how it felt to come home, to relearn how to integrate, and how to connect with those closest to me. Haldeman's use of relativistic physics exaggerates these effects using relativistic physics. Each time Mandella comes home, he effectively has to start his life over before leaving again because so much time has passed for those left behind while he expects to return home to something familiar.
You can't pick up where you left off after going to war, and no novel of any gene describes that impact better than this one.
I read this when it first came out and liked it. I reread it a time or two but it’s been a couple of decades since my last full reread. I got the ebook more recently and started it but lost interest about halfway. Odds are good this is due to my changing tastes in books. There are a lot of books I loved twenty years ago that I can’t reread now.

I was stunned. I mean, of all the innovations to take from SF in general and Forever War in particular, *that’s* the one they chose. 😯

I was st..."
It was very much a 'slap in the face' part of the book. I'm in a country with universal health care, and although our system isn't perfect, I still struggle to understand some of the US attitudes to health care - and I can't imagine how that would be 'reform.'
Ulysese wrote: "I read Forever War decades ago and loved it. Can anyone recommend similar books?"
Well there are two sequels: Forever Peace and Forever Free
Well there are two sequels: Forever Peace and Forever Free

I think that both Old Man's War and Sten will fill the bill. There’s a scene in Sten about combat suits that feels like it could be right out of Forever War.
If you like those books, they each have numerous sequels.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_M...
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_S...


also the Vorkosigan saga, especially the first 5 books, by Bujold


It should creep you out; it's creepy. The story takes every opportunity to show a military that thrives on a culture of dehumanization. When you hit chapter 10, be ready to throw your book across the room. Then pick it up and continue reading, if you still can.

Well gee ... thanks?? I can now rest assured that I really should be feeling creeped out because as you so obviously parroted my earlier comment - its creepy. Patronizing much ...

I hope that states my comment more clearly. Again, apologies.
We should probably move the discussion of the Vorkosigan series to the thread for one of those books such as the Shards of Honor thread
https://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/...
For anybody skimming this thread, the creepy comments are NOT referring to Startide Rising.
https://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/...
For anybody skimming this thread, the creepy comments are NOT referring to Startide Rising.

I hope that states my comment more clearly. Again, apologies."
It has clarified your comment, and thank you for that, its much appreciated. Really glad to know it was unintentional.
That part you mentioned in Ch 10 was pretty awful. I got past it after a bit of a breather, and am about halfway through now.

It’s interesting to see how the language is shifting in real time because of the cultural changes happening, echoing what we see in the book.
I feel confident in saying that the intent of Daniel’s statement was innocuous, but the “men give permission to the women” subtext is built into the phrasing. Not because of the words themselves but rather because of the condescending way that sort of phrasing has been employed for generations.
It becomes an unconscious way of saying things that is freighted with meaning which most white men are completely unaware of. Because the entire planet is currently engaged in a pitched battle between extremist conservative views who would love to see The Handmaid's Tale come to life and rational progressive beliefs that everyone deserves a voice, it has sensitized both sides, causing triggers to be inadvertently tripped constantly.
Which is pretty much what we see in The Forever War. Because of Mandella’s skipping through time due to relativity, he gets snapshots of culture as it changes. He is often left bewildered by those changes and frequently commits a faux pas.

I understand Haldeman wrote this partly in response to Heinlein's Starship Troopers and the way that glorifies military service, so at odds with his own Vietnam experience.
I also recommend Haldeman's Vietnam war novel 1968. I've never been able to get hold of his earlier book War Year.

There are a number to chose from at abebooks.com. Looks like shipping to the UK is about US$7.
https://www.abebooks.com/servlet/Sear...

Thanks, Trike; I've not looked for it in some time, when last I did it was a bit more pricey

I feel confident in saying that the intent of Daniel’s statement was innocuous, but the “men give permission to the women” subtext is built into the phrasing. Not because of the words themselves but rather because of the condescending way that sort of phrasing has been employed for generations.
It becomes an unconscious way of saying things that is freighted with meaning which most white men are completely unaware of. Because the entire planet is currently engaged in a pitched battle between extremist conservative views who would love to see The Handmaid's Tale come to life and rational progressive beliefs that everyone deserves a voice, it has sensitized both sides, causing triggers to be inadvertently tripped constantly.
Which is pretty much what we see in The Forever War. Because of Mandella’s skipping through time due to relativity, he gets snapshots of culture as it changes. "
I get what you're saying. I've encountered a spectrum of sentiment behind this sort of thing, from the unintended to the downright nasty.
I finished it last night and here's my review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
I mention some of what you're talking about which in the novel impressed me as well. How the author uses these points of difference or friction like language and sexuality to show that culture and society are fluid. There's so much going on here. I'm not sure how justified I am in wanting a more in-depth picture of the Taurans but the lack of it did detract from the experience as a reader. And it took until the third part for me to really get a sense of William the person.

This is my first novel by the author but I'm definitely interested in reading more. I ordered the 2 other books in the Forever series though as I understand it only the third is a true sequel. Thanks for bringing those up, more to check out! That's always good.
I haven't read Starship Troopers either but its on the list.

I can appreciate his attempt at showing us the fluidity of cultural norms in playing with the acceptance of heterosexuality and then homosexuality but the other thing just seems pervy to me.
Any thoughts?
I'm reading The Stars My Destination now and in this one a technological discovery (as it were) sets the women back centuries in terms of agency. I do wonder why sf authors can't be a bit more creative in their subjection and denigration when it comes to gender.

But the overall point of that stuff was how the army in particular and society in general takes something that arises naturally and co-opts it. Kinda like when you see rap music in shampoo commercials and such.

You know, I did wonder during that episode you mentioned if he said no. I got the impression he knew he had a choice though which wasn't something I got when the narrator would talk about this especially when pertaining to the women as in ch.10.

For instance, when the army decides to force soldiers to respond to officers with “Fuck you, sir!” as a way to improve morale, but it’s just stupid and destroys a release valve. It’s like grandpa trying to be all cool and street.
The sex thing doesn’t exploit the women any more than it does the men; it’s just this fun activity that the army has ruined by making it mandatory.
I suppose a less-socially-charged analog would be to force soldiers to play Candy Crush for 45 minutes every night. The army is like, “Hey, some of them like playing this game to unwind and it helps them get to sleep, so let’s require all of them to do it.”
There aren’t any consequences to the sex, and the reaction to “regulation intimacy” is as varied among the men as it is the women. Later on it goes the other way when the government forces everyone to be homosexual as a means of birth control: it’s yet another dunderheaded example of the state approving a solution to a problem the wrong way.

Its a wonder that they don't see it as having any actual consequences. Or maybe its just the nature of a cold-blooded and/or socially inept bureaucracy..

Forever War is part of that pantheon of books which expose the cruel absurdity of war and governments, like Catch-22, 1984 and Slaughterhouse-Five.

It’s not grimdark or anything, but it is rough going in some places. That said, it does have funny parts and the ending is hopeful. But as I said earlier, you have to go through the tunnel before emerging into the light.

I had a couple of moments of feeling quite repulsed and this was all due to the incidences Trike and I were talking about (the ambiguity around choice, at least for me). The way it was written into the story though makes for some interesting questions and I've enjoyed the discussion.

Ok, I see what you're saying now!
Slaughterhouse-Five was a much better novel and what Vonnegut was doing was a lot easier to grasp. This isn't sf but you mentioning this one also brought to mind All Quiet on the Western Front in terms of the absolute waste.
I haven't read the other two yet but I've seen the films.

Yes I'd agree.
Banging the war drum and trying to sound sincere about the cost of war is tricky ...
I had a look at your shelves to see if you'd read The Stars My Destination and you have. It started off good but I'm not enjoying it now (halfway through).


Phillip, would you mind sharing what other texts are on the West Point reading list? What class is the list meant to serve?

For the record, I never went to West Point. I was commissioned through OCS. I tried to look up a list, but didn't find one that still had Starship Troopers, perhaps it was removed. Most books on the list are non-fiction (Art of War, On War, etc.) but their are also classical stories (e.g. Once and Eagle, and The Illiad).
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No worries, I was just curious as to what that sort of place would consider essential reading from a literature standpoint. Thanks for looking!

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The Earth's leaders have drawn a line in the interstellar sand—despite the fact that the fierce alien enemy that they would oppose is inscrutable, unconquerable, and very far away. A reluctant conscript drafted into an elite Military unit, Private William Mandella has been propelled through space and time to fight in the distant thousand-year conflict; to perform his duties without rancor and even rise up through military ranks. Pvt. Mandella is willing to do whatever it takes to survive the ordeal and return home. But "home" may be even more terrifying than battle, because, thanks to the time dilation caused by space travel, Mandella is aging months while the Earth he left behind is aging centuries.