Aciman, André-- Call Me By Your Name informal buddy read starts August 1, 2018

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This thread is open to discuss Call Me By Your Name by André Aciman



Synopsis
Call Me by Your Name is the story of a sudden and powerful romance that blossoms between an adolescent boy and a summer guest at his parents' cliff-side mansion on the Italian Riviera. Unprepared for the consequences of their attraction, at first each feigns indifference. But during the restless summer weeks that follow, unrelenting buried currents of obsession and fear, fascination and desire, intensify their passion as they test the charged ground between them. What grows from the depths of their spirits is a romance of scarcely six weeks' duration and an experience that marks them for a lifetime. For what the two discover on the Riviera and during a sultry evening in Rome is the one thing both already fear they may never truly find again: total intimacy.

The psychological maneuvers that accompany attraction have seldom been more shrewdly captured than in André Aciman's frank, unsentimental, heartrending elegy to human passion. Call Me by Your Name is clear-eyed, bare-knuckled, and ultimately unforgettable.

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[SandyL]

Hey Elen
I'm not going to be able to start this until later in the month...I've got a hold on it through Overdrive but I won't get it by the 1st. If there is anyone else that wants to read with you before then, go for it, otherwise I'll let you know when I get the book. Sorry!!!

[Elen]

@SandyL - I don't mind starting this book later in the month, I am not in a rush with this book :)

[Alison]

Hi both, I listened to this on audio a few months ago and am always intrigued by any discussion of it. Do you mind if I hang around and join the chat?

[Claire]

Let me know when you start. I have it on my tbr list for august

[Elen]

Alison wrote: "Hi both, I listened to this on audio a few months ago and am always intrigued by any discussion of it. Do you mind if I hang around and join the chat?"

Sorry, I only just now noticed your comment. Of course, you can join us. More opinions, better for us :)