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Sorry I've been missing in action. I've been really ill with a chest infection for the last couple of weeks and am only just starting to feel human again. Haven't picked up a book or my Kindle in nearly two weeks!!!
Hope you're all well.
Sorry I've been missing in action. I've been really ill with a chest infection for the last couple of weeks and am only just starting to feel human again. Haven't picked up a book or my Kindle in nearly two weeks!!!
Hope you're all well.

This has been a solemn week for me. My husband lost his grandfather and my boss lost his wife. And the this weekend I get to celebrate my grandmother's 90th birthday. So many emotions going on.



Same here, Pat. No school closings, but hospitals have restricted visitors.


What a sweet post, Aymen! People like you are what make this group special! God bless you too :)


That was a really nice thing to say Aymen. I feel the same way. God bless you too!
Thanks Aymen for your post.
Lovely thoughts, and often I get PM's from members with the same comments. It is so good to here comments like this.
It makes all worth while.
It is great if we can make members happy and feel better with their lives.
Lovely thoughts, and often I get PM's from members with the same comments. It is so good to here comments like this.
It makes all worth while.
It is great if we can make members happy and feel better with their lives.
David Cassidy announces retirement and confirms suffering from Dementia.
From the Patridge Family
From the Patridge Family

From the Patridge Family"
Very sad... but, on the bright side, he'll be able to forget Danny Bonaduce.

Aymen, that is a beautiful post and you are a beautiful person. People on here feel like family. When life doesn't let me connect on Goodreads as often as I'd like, I miss it.

From the Patridge Family"
He is young for dementia, only 9 years older than me. Really makes you think about what it might be like for those of us with family with a history of dementia.



Yes I also remember years ago, keeping two jobs for the first 20 years of my marriage, it sure helped buying our first and now our second house.
Also working full time, and also running a nutrition business, and doing 27 hours of tennis coaching a week.
Now help my wife do the jewellery stalls, but have taken a step back as I have got older.
Also working full time, and also running a nutrition business, and doing 27 hours of tennis coaching a week.
Now help my wife do the jewellery stalls, but have taken a step back as I have got older.
Also I must mention that this week have been a tough week.
I correctly diagnosed myself and was suspicious that I had DVT again.
I am off work this week and next, as now for the last two weeks my left calf, ankle swelled up became hard and bigger and warm.
The shock for me yet again, is I have had DVT confirmed by the hospital, although I walk 14-16 miles a day, and played 3 hours singles on Sunday, but somehow still got a massive DVT in my upper thigh, in my main artery. On blood thinning tablets, already had in the last two days... X rays on my chest and lungs, X rays on both shoulders, ultrasound on my legs.
To see blood consultant 7th March (away till then)
Tests to be done for any cancers, that maybe effecting my blood flow.
Doctors are shocked as well.
Going to check everything, but the thought is that I am be just at risk for DVT after suffering previously in 2010.
The good news, is I am off work, and can watch my garden coming on, working for 5 weeks now, and next week the kitchen starts.
I can go out walking, as on blood thinners, not back to work till the 6th March.
I correctly diagnosed myself and was suspicious that I had DVT again.
I am off work this week and next, as now for the last two weeks my left calf, ankle swelled up became hard and bigger and warm.
The shock for me yet again, is I have had DVT confirmed by the hospital, although I walk 14-16 miles a day, and played 3 hours singles on Sunday, but somehow still got a massive DVT in my upper thigh, in my main artery. On blood thinning tablets, already had in the last two days... X rays on my chest and lungs, X rays on both shoulders, ultrasound on my legs.
To see blood consultant 7th March (away till then)
Tests to be done for any cancers, that maybe effecting my blood flow.
Doctors are shocked as well.
Going to check everything, but the thought is that I am be just at risk for DVT after suffering previously in 2010.
The good news, is I am off work, and can watch my garden coming on, working for 5 weeks now, and next week the kitchen starts.
I can go out walking, as on blood thinners, not back to work till the 6th March.
Fate has had an enormous part of my life.
Last week we should have flown to a wedding in England.
We did not go (in the end no flights because of fog anyway)
Next week we were meant to also go on a plane to England.
Not going.
Either one of those flights could have killed me with DVT, would have gone to my lungs or heart.
Plus on Sunday I played tennis singles for 3 hours with a DVT, and my fitness saved me again !!
That is fate , the same as 7 years ago.
Last week we should have flown to a wedding in England.
We did not go (in the end no flights because of fog anyway)
Next week we were meant to also go on a plane to England.
Not going.
Either one of those flights could have killed me with DVT, would have gone to my lungs or heart.
Plus on Sunday I played tennis singles for 3 hours with a DVT, and my fitness saved me again !!
That is fate , the same as 7 years ago.



Last week we should have flown to a wedding in England.
We did not go (in the end no flights because of fog anyway)
Next week we were meant to also go o..."
Couldn't you have taken a ferry boat? Just curious. Might have been slower than a flight but a hell of a lot SAFER. I mean once the fog cleared up.
We said no to the weddings anyway, before.
Last week no planes for four days, no boats this week last few days, heavy winds.
Getting off Jersey can be hard.
But I was lucky we did not go on a plane, the DVT would have moved to my lungs or heart.
Seven years ago I somehow survived with 16 blood clots on my lungs, discovered one day before I was going to fly to London to see my ankle surgeon specialist, again I would not have survived the flight.(some blood vessels in my right leg have died due to DVT)
So fate has helped me. Knowledge from last time has helped me, and fitness has helped me, especially playing tennis this last weekend with DVT in my left thigh !
As a child and as an adult, this fate has helped me three times.
One aged three, when I was left at my families home with my nanii(staff) while my brother and sister went in the car with my mum and dad. They had a head on collision. I would have been on my mums lap, and been thrown out.
Age nine years instead of going in my "favourite" landrover with my mum and dad's navy friend officers in Bahrain, I went in my dads car. The land rover was involved in a head on collision, all three in the from were killed, and my brother and sister were thrown from the open top landrover(filled with coke bottles) and again survived.
In 1985 my wife and I bought our first house, and told my mum and dad in law we could not go away in the car to the UK with them, they were killed in a horrific car accident, with also Tracey's auntie. Tracey and I always went away with her mum and dad, I was so close to them.
Sadly, our godchild, and nephew died at the age of 24 years old, in a car accident in Jersey, from a DVT that went straight to his heart !!
So, I am believe in fate, and how lucky I have been.
Last week no planes for four days, no boats this week last few days, heavy winds.
Getting off Jersey can be hard.
But I was lucky we did not go on a plane, the DVT would have moved to my lungs or heart.
Seven years ago I somehow survived with 16 blood clots on my lungs, discovered one day before I was going to fly to London to see my ankle surgeon specialist, again I would not have survived the flight.(some blood vessels in my right leg have died due to DVT)
So fate has helped me. Knowledge from last time has helped me, and fitness has helped me, especially playing tennis this last weekend with DVT in my left thigh !
As a child and as an adult, this fate has helped me three times.
One aged three, when I was left at my families home with my nanii(staff) while my brother and sister went in the car with my mum and dad. They had a head on collision. I would have been on my mums lap, and been thrown out.
Age nine years instead of going in my "favourite" landrover with my mum and dad's navy friend officers in Bahrain, I went in my dads car. The land rover was involved in a head on collision, all three in the from were killed, and my brother and sister were thrown from the open top landrover(filled with coke bottles) and again survived.
In 1985 my wife and I bought our first house, and told my mum and dad in law we could not go away in the car to the UK with them, they were killed in a horrific car accident, with also Tracey's auntie. Tracey and I always went away with her mum and dad, I was so close to them.
Sadly, our godchild, and nephew died at the age of 24 years old, in a car accident in Jersey, from a DVT that went straight to his heart !!
So, I am believe in fate, and how lucky I have been.
Blimey, Sean! Scary stuff. Doing well to trust your instincts. Stay well and get those DVTs sorted.

Last week no planes for four days, no boats this week last few days, heavy winds.
Getting off Jersey can be hard.
But I was lucky we did not go on a pl..."
Sorry to hear about deciding not to go to the weddings and sorry about the family members who have died. Better safe than sorry, I guess, right?


Hope your doing better Sean.
At work we do not sit for more than 1-2 hours per day, not at all at once.
The rest of the day we walk, a lot 14-16 miles per day, inside and outside, we lift 40-50 boxes of paper, empty over 60-70 full size shredding bins a day, and deliver over 200 litres of milk per day.
That is between four staff.
And walk to two different buildings, a mile apart.
Then come home and play tennis.
Doctors and specialists believe it has nothing to do with movement.
While I am off work, that will check if diabetes is not helping the movement of blood, If it is because I had DVT and PE seven years I am more prone to DVT's. Or the worst case, if any tumours that is effecting blood flow.
In myself I feel okay, just the high dosage blood thinners, they make you light- headed and dizzy, and pins and needles in feet and calfs and the worry if the DVT is going to move to my lungs are heart.
But as the specialist said, my fitness has saved my life again.
But good not getting up at 5.00 Am everyday. Watching my garden coming on and nearly finished after 5 weeks, one more week to go. The kitchen is started this week.
Pictures of garden on Facebook, and kitchen from the middle of next week (4-6 weeks work)
Thanks for all your kind thoughts, but I am a tough nut.
Also difficult as have to keep mobile, with short walks, but cannot get out of breath or do too much as the DVT can move!
Also not get stressed, the doctor says, that is easy when you have a DVT that can move !
The rest of the day we walk, a lot 14-16 miles per day, inside and outside, we lift 40-50 boxes of paper, empty over 60-70 full size shredding bins a day, and deliver over 200 litres of milk per day.
That is between four staff.
And walk to two different buildings, a mile apart.
Then come home and play tennis.
Doctors and specialists believe it has nothing to do with movement.
While I am off work, that will check if diabetes is not helping the movement of blood, If it is because I had DVT and PE seven years I am more prone to DVT's. Or the worst case, if any tumours that is effecting blood flow.
In myself I feel okay, just the high dosage blood thinners, they make you light- headed and dizzy, and pins and needles in feet and calfs and the worry if the DVT is going to move to my lungs are heart.
But as the specialist said, my fitness has saved my life again.
But good not getting up at 5.00 Am everyday. Watching my garden coming on and nearly finished after 5 weeks, one more week to go. The kitchen is started this week.
Pictures of garden on Facebook, and kitchen from the middle of next week (4-6 weeks work)
Thanks for all your kind thoughts, but I am a tough nut.
Also difficult as have to keep mobile, with short walks, but cannot get out of breath or do too much as the DVT can move!
Also not get stressed, the doctor says, that is easy when you have a DVT that can move !
Also trying to read more and watch some films, which I will.
An slowly empty 20 boxes of goods/food from my kitchen as it will be all gone on Wednesday...everything out!
An slowly empty 20 boxes of goods/food from my kitchen as it will be all gone on Wednesday...everything out!


Aymen, I recommend Duma Key. It was very good. Couldn't put it down good.
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