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Chrissie wrote: "Greg, when I started it I had no idea I was in for such a difficult read. Could you put in a spoiler what you didn't like about the end? I am curious."
Chrissie, I was annoyed by (view spoiler)
This is my very personal & philosophical problem with that one aspect of the ending. As a whole, the book itself is extraordinary. No doubt she's a gifted writer!
Chrissie, I was annoyed by (view spoiler)
This is my very personal & philosophical problem with that one aspect of the ending. As a whole, the book itself is extraordinary. No doubt she's a gifted writer!

https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...

It wonderfully captures another time and place and will get you thinking.
My review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
BTW, iIf you haven't read The Bastard of Istanbul read that too. It's by the same author.


Chrissie, I was annoyed by ..."
I know I'm not going to read this book, so I was very interested to read your spoiler, Greg. Thanks
Gill wrote: "I know I'm not going to read this book, so I was very interested to read your spoiler, Greg. Thanks ..."
My pleasure Gill! - and this book is most certainly not for everyone. It's so very graphic & disturbing in some of the depictions.
My pleasure Gill! - and this book is most certainly not for everyone. It's so very graphic & disturbing in some of the depictions.





Raul wrote: "I have been meaning to read A Little Life but I didn't yet. It's great to see your insight, I had heard of the disturbing scenes, I still hope to read it."
Thanks Raul! :)
Thanks Raul! :)

Chrissie, I was annoyed by ..."
Thanks for explaining your reason for withdrawing one star. For me Jude simply couldn't understand. That is the sad truth. Perhaps not a helpful "message", but how life really can be. I don't want a lesson. I want reality.

I enjoyed this one too, Chuck, something a little different, but then again I enjoy books set in Alaska.

My English review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...


I think I might, too. We'll see. I seem to sometimes get on a roll where when I read a book I like, my next 1 or 2 books will be either set in the same place or about the same topic in some way; I just started reading this one I came across on the NYT's Book of the Times: The North Water.
http://www.nytimes.com/2016/04/01/boo...

Thanks Chuck. This is one I'd like to read.

I think I might, too. We'll see. I seem to sometimes get on a roll where when I read a book I like, my next 1 or 2 books will be either set in..."
I finished The North Water recently. I found it very gory and harsh, and also very good.
Chrissie wrote: "Greg wrote: "Chrissie wrote: "Greg, when I started it I had no idea I was in for such a difficult read. Could you put in a spoiler what you didn't like about the end? I am curious."
Chrissie, I wa..."
I understand Chrissie, but for me, it's not believable, given all that has occurred in his adult life throughout the book. I think it's an unrealistically pessimistic view. That's just my personal opinion.
Chrissie, I wa..."
I understand Chrissie, but for me, it's not believable, given all that has occurred in his adult life throughout the book. I think it's an unrealistically pessimistic view. That's just my personal opinion.

OK, we just see it differently. Thanks for explaining. I was terribly curious to understand what upset you.

https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...


I just think that Jude was so traumatized and there just wasn't anything that could heal him in spite of the love of all of these people. Greg , I can see where you are coming from re: your spoiler but I just think that there was nothing that could have changed things for him. Stark reality for sure . While I was reading this book , I would wake up thinking about Jude and he's a character I continue to think about .



'wounds that lie too deep for tears' sourced from Wordsworth's INTIMATIONS OF IMMORTALITY FROM RECOLLECTIONS OF EARLY CHILDHOOD.

Simply underwhelmed and very frustrated at points but the writing was decent.
B the BookAddict wrote: "Chrissie and Greg, while I was struck dumb by Jude's final action, I felt it was believable, especially after [spoilers removed]. I knew from that point on, Jude's story would not go well. Some peo..."
Oh absolutely Angela & Bette, I 100% believe that (view spoiler) - unfortunately that seems all too likely.
But I do not find (view spoiler) credible; I don't have experience with surviving sexual abuse specifically, but in my experience of abuse, the sorts of friendships he has with Willem, Harold, Andy, etc, do have an effect. It's amazing what people can survive if they have that sort of unconditional love. In such an extreme case, it might not have been enough to prevent (view spoiler) , but the (view spoiler) mean that all of those things had no effect at all. I just can't believe or accept that. It doesn't match my experience, and it doesn't match the experience of close friends who also survived abuse.
There's a big difference between full healing and the merest spark of movement. I didn't expect full healing (that would be too sentimental), but I did expect at least some spark - that (view spoiler) should've shown at least some difference.
But Angela and Bette, I do completely agree that the experiences weren't exaggerated. It is staggering the things that have happened in some cases, almost impossible to comprehend but they do. Jude's various compulsions were beautifully and perceptively described throughout.
Oh absolutely Angela & Bette, I 100% believe that (view spoiler) - unfortunately that seems all too likely.
But I do not find (view spoiler) credible; I don't have experience with surviving sexual abuse specifically, but in my experience of abuse, the sorts of friendships he has with Willem, Harold, Andy, etc, do have an effect. It's amazing what people can survive if they have that sort of unconditional love. In such an extreme case, it might not have been enough to prevent (view spoiler) , but the (view spoiler) mean that all of those things had no effect at all. I just can't believe or accept that. It doesn't match my experience, and it doesn't match the experience of close friends who also survived abuse.
There's a big difference between full healing and the merest spark of movement. I didn't expect full healing (that would be too sentimental), but I did expect at least some spark - that (view spoiler) should've shown at least some difference.
But Angela and Bette, I do completely agree that the experiences weren't exaggerated. It is staggering the things that have happened in some cases, almost impossible to comprehend but they do. Jude's various compulsions were beautifully and perceptively described throughout.

Angela M wrote: "I think we all agree this is one book we will not forget . As I mentioned I still think about his character and every time I read a review or see a discussion as Bette said. I just feel all the emo..."
His character is beautifully rendered Angela, for sure. His predicament is unforgettable & heartbreaking!
I recommend the book for most people, but I strongly encourage any abuse survivors with triggers to avoid A Little Life because of the pessimistic bent!
His character is beautifully rendered Angela, for sure. His predicament is unforgettable & heartbreaking!
I recommend the book for most people, but I strongly encourage any abuse survivors with triggers to avoid A Little Life because of the pessimistic bent!

Shamefully, it was a book I was told to read as it was a summer reading book for school. I can't believe I hadn't heard of it earlier for all the praise I see it has! Summer reading of not, I'm glad I've read it. It's an eye-opener to what the definitions of family, and dysfunction, stand for.
I highly recommend this book to anyone and everyone who loves/enjoys the "roller-coaster" type of books where the reader is always on their toes.

The story takes place during Sri Lank's recent civil war and Ondaatje's spare style and language are well suited to the tale, which despite its brutal background, is told is a subtle and elegiac manner.


and just finished reading

Johanna wrote: "Just finished Anil's Ghost by Michael Ondaatje. I really liked the book, particularly because it enabled me to 'discover' Sri Lanka, a remarkable country with a history and culture go..."
Sounds like a great book Johanna!
Sounds like a great book Johanna!

A really good read. 4 stars, Review is here
https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...

5★ for a new favourite, the acclaimed People of the Book by Aussie author Geraldine Brooks.
Tracing the imagined history of a real 700-year-old book through the centuries. The real Sarajevo Haggadah was discovered only in modern times, having survived The Spanish Inquisition, among other harrowing experiences. Brooks weaves fiction around the facts.
My review
https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
PattyMacDotComma wrote: "If you really want to know all about books, you must have a look at this one. Just wonderful!
5★ for a new favourite, the acclaimed People of the Book by Aussie author [author:Geral..."
Sounds interesting Patty! I noticed this book for sale at the library bookstore for 50 cents last week - hope it's still there on Monday!
5★ for a new favourite, the acclaimed People of the Book by Aussie author [author:Geral..."
Sounds interesting Patty! I noticed this book for sale at the library bookstore for 50 cents last week - hope it's still there on Monday!

My review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...

5★ for a new favourite, the acclaimed People of the Book by Au..
Sounds interesting Patty! I noticed this book for sale at the library bookstore for 50 cents last week - hope it's still there on Monday!."
Fingers crossed for you! It would sure be a well-spent 50cents!

It is clear that we all agree A Little Life is a book none of us will forget. It is not for those who are looking for a quick easy read. I happen to agree with Angela when she states, "I think the damage was just too deep to be healed."
I am keeping an eye on both Hanya Yanagihara and Hannah Kent. Two promising authors.


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I haven't read either one yet, Burial Rites or A Little Life and I've been trying hard to just skim the preceding conversation with narrowed eyes and hands over my ears going La-la-la so I wouldn't see any spoilers.
The trouble is, the spoilers are not hidden when these comments are sent as emails, which is how I get most of mine! I'm afraid I caught a glimpse of one spoiler, but I will still try to read both anyway.

I didn't like Year of Wonders as much as this one, but there's no accounting for taste, eh? :)
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