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Live Video Chat with Susan Cain
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Jun 05, 2013 10:34AM
Hi Susan, do you see any differences in percentages of introverts/extroverts by gender? Do you think or have you found that society finds it more acceptable for one gender to be introverted than another
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I LOVED this book. You lifted 50 years of self-doubt off my shoulders by making me realize the value of my quiet and introspective personality. Thank you!!
BTW Susan, I think you would enjoy Transatlantic, the new novel by Colum McCann. In an author interview on the BBC he spoke about how he tried to capture Senator George Mitchell's persistent quietness, which Tony Blair saw as key to finally ending "The Troubles"
How will they make this work with all these questions..filed up from days ago?? I'd go crazy if I was editing the questions for her to answer.
I too, am interested in a writing career but struggle with pitching myself and my work. I'm sure this is a common scenario. Writing appeals to introverts, but the sales aspect is challenging. Do you have any advice? Thank you.
people, people, put the letter 'Q' infront of your questions, otherwise they won't be considered and will be ignored.
Q Describe some of the reactions to your book, e.g., "Thanks for giving me permission to be who I am without feeling abnormal."
Q What is your advice for a lovely introvert who is about to go on vacation for the first time with her new husband, his two kids, her parents from France, her two brothers and the entire side of her mother's family for a week... Can you sense my growing sense of panic? :) How do you deal with a chaotic moment which will be full of joy and excitement but totally draining for someone who needs her own space to recharge?
Q Are you an introvert? I know I am!
We'll be starting in just a minute everyone? If the video doesn't start up for you, just refresh the page. See you shortly!
What can I say? I just love this book - I'm so tired of being told there is something wrong with me and so glad that Introverts are becoming empowered now to fight back : )
I never realized I could be an introvert until I read this: http://www.buzzfeed.com/erinlarosa/31...
how do we help a child who is both introverted and socially awkward (uncomfortable with greeting others, has difficulty establishing play or getting involved in play with other kids, has difficulty expressing needs/desires), AND is further ostracized because of a need for some alone time?
What suggestions would you have for introverts interacting with other introverts? The book has some focus on introverts interacting with extroverts, but I think an introvert and an introverts have trouble interacting with each other because everything is so bottled up.
I type as an INFJ - knowing about myself as allowed me to learn about others and understand how the misunderstandings can be negoiated with peace - Q Susan, Do you think that the % given for types are still true ? I read my type is 1% or less which, it a lot of people worldwide, but I have only met one other INFJ .
Is the chat going to start soon?
q: Can you please recommend how introverts might effect a change in how evangelical churches receive them?
Maggie, same here! I'm an INFJ too!
q What are some tips you have for an introvert to make the most of a business conference?
Q: Has all mainstage public speaking made you more comfortable in front of audiences?
Q Who is one of your favorite characters in the books you have read; whether fictional or real.
I haven't read the book - what's INFJ?
I facilitate a local business book club, and this is the next book we are discussing in just a few days. The live chat is timely. I have already finished the book and loved it! Thank you.
How do you feel when people describe your book as an "Instant bestseller"? Can you speak about your writing process, and now the publicizing process?
q: Any advice for dealing with extrovert bullies? Just as you discussed "the new groupthink," I sometimes struggle with those who are louder drowning out my ideas and opinions, especially if they differ from the extroverted majority.
q What is your next book going to be on?
Faith Morrill: INFJ? introversion intuitive feeler judegemenal
q how do we help a child who is both introverted and socially awkward (uncomfortable with greeting others, has difficulty establishing play or getting involved in play with other kids, has difficulty expressing needs/desires), AND is further ostracized because of a need for some alone time?
Faith, it's not in her book. INFJ is one of thepersonality types/ 16 types of Myers-Briggs type indicator, based on theories of Carl Jung.
Thank you, Patricia - just quickly Googled it.
I read the book some time ago and enjoyed it immensely (even cried in some parts!) Is there any indication that forcing introverts into behaving as an extrovert can cause psychological damage of any kind? I was the type of child that hid behind my mom's skirts if someone said "hello" or even looked my way. Then my parents bought a business & I had to work there; I was forced to talk to customers & get to know people (small town) by my business-minded parents. Now that I'm retired, I find that it takes all of my strenght & courage to go out. When given a choice I will stay in my apartment, rather than go out. I also do not do anything in a group, or on a "team" anymore.
Q Why did you chose the act/topic of 'talking' to relate to fellow introverts?
Technical issue. Is the sound echoing for everyone else, too? Or is it jut my computer?
Technical issue. My video says "offline". How do I fix this?
q is there a way to cultivate introversion or extroversion in children and is it wise to do either?
Q: I'm a student and an introvert, I've considered homeschooling but my parents are against the idea, what do you think of homeschooling for introverts?
@Melanie Chen Just press the play button and the stream will start!
Sorry forgot. q Is there any indication that forcing introverts into behaving as an extrovert can cause psychological damage of any kind?
Maggie and Joakim, I am an INFJ too : )
OK, my q doesn't seem to be working.
Q I've heard several of your interviews and podcasts, etc... and a lot of the same questions get repeated. What is one question you WANT to be asked, but haven't, and what is the answer?
Gayle: needs to be the first thing on the line :-)
Are there any relationship issues that can happen when husband and wife are both introverts who have different interests?
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