Defensiveness Books

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The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You (Paperback)
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avg rating 3.86 — 3,310 ratings — published 2000
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The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You (Paperback)
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avg rating 3.83 — 53,398 ratings — published 1996
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The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing (Paperback)
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avg rating 4.08 — 614 ratings — published 2002
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White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism (Audiobook)
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avg rating 4.16 — 170,929 ratings — published 2018
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The Highly Sensitive Person's Workbook The Highly Sensitive Person's Workbook (Paperback)
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avg rating 3.98 — 595 ratings — published 1999
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Too Loud, Too Bright, Too Fast, Too Tight: What to Do If You Are Sensory Defensive in an Overstimulating World Too Loud, Too Bright, Too Fast, Too Tight: What to Do If You Are Sensory Defensive in an Overstimulating World (Paperback)
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avg rating 3.90 — 855 ratings — published 2002
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Stephen W. Porges
“The detection of a person as safe or dangerous triggers neurobiologically determined pro-social or defensive behaviors.
Even though we may not always be aware of danger on a cognitive level, on a neurophysiological level, our body has already started a sequence of neural processes that would facilitate adaptive defense behaviors such as fight, flight or freeze. ”
Stephen W. Porges, The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation

Louisa Morgan
“You were working for Army Artillery."
"These were our own aircraft, coming from Ault. Why would I report them?"
"What did they look like?"
It was Woods who asked that question. I looked directly into those flat, gray eyes. "Mr. Woods." My pretense of a fragile feminine voice evaporated as I spoke with confidence and a touch of temper. "It was a world war. We still have enemies. If I had seen experimental American planes, I certainly wouldn't describe them to two perfect strangers who showed up at my door and asked me a lot of odd questions."
Woods blinked but gave no other sign that he had taken in my insult. Harrison cleared his throat and fiddled with his notebook, but he didn't seem to know what to say next.”
Louisa Morgan, The Witch's Kind

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