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  • #1
    Grace Lin
    “Because stories are how we share our lives and what we truly mourn when they are lost. Stories are what connect us to our past and carry us to our future. They are what we cherish and what we remember.”
    Grace Lin, When the Sea Turned to Silver

  • #2
    Jenny  Lawson
    “When you come out of the grips of a depression there is an incredible relief, but not one you feel allowed to celebrate. Instead, the feeling of victory is replaced with anxiety that it will happen again, and with shame and vulnerability when you see how your illness affected your family, your work, everything left untouched while you struggled to survive. We come back to life thinner, paler, weaker … but as survivors. Survivors who don’t get pats on the back from coworkers who congratulate them on making it. Survivors who wake to more work than before because their friends and family are exhausted from helping them fight a battle they may not even understand. I hope to one day see a sea of people all wearing silver ribbons as a sign that they understand the secret battle, and as a celebration of the victories made each day as we individually pull ourselves up out of our foxholes to see our scars heal, and to remember what the sun looks like.”
    Jenny Lawson, Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things

  • #3
    Jenny  Lawson
    “A friend is someone who knows where all your bodies are buried. Because they're the ones who helped you put them there."
    And sometimes, if you're really lucky, they help you dig them back up.”
    Jenny Lawson, Let's Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir

  • #4
    Jenny  Lawson
    “Don’t make the same mistakes that everyone else makes. Make wonderful mistakes. Make the kind of mistakes that make people so shocked that they have no other choice but to be a little impressed.”
    Jenny Lawson, Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things

  • #5
    Jenny  Lawson
    “I AM GOING TO BE FURIOUSLY HAPPY, OUT OF SHEER SPITE.”
    Jenny Lawson, Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things

  • #6
    Albert Einstein
    “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.”
    Albert Einstein

  • #7
    Frank Zappa
    “So many books, so little time.”
    Frank Zappa

  • #8
    Jenny  Lawson
    “Depression is like … when you don’t want cheese anymore. Even though it’s cheese.”
    Jenny Lawson, Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things

  • #9
    Gail Honeyman
    “In principle and reality, libraries are life-enhancing palaces of wonder.”
    Gail Honeyman, Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine

  • #10
    Emily X.R. Pan
    “Here is my mother, with wings instead of hands, and feathers instead of hair. Here is my mother, the reddest of brilliant reds, the color of my love and my fear, all of my fiercest feelings trailing after her in the sky like the tail of a comet.”
    Emily X.R. Pan, The Astonishing Color of After

  • #11
    Emily X.R. Pan
    “Memory is a mean thing, slicing at you from the harshest angles, dipping your consciousness into the wrong colors again and again. A moment of humiliation, or devastation, or absolute rage, to be rewound and replayed, spinning a thread that wraps around the brain, knotting itself into something of a noose. It won't exactly kill you, but it makes you feel the squeeze of every horrible moment. How do you stop it? How do you work the mind free?”
    Emily X.R. Pan, The Astonishing Color of After

  • #12
    Emily X.R. Pan
    “Hold your finger to the sky with so much force it lengthens like a spine. Look up to the point of it and beyond. There. That tiny patch of the world, no bigger than the tip of your finger. At first glance, it might look like one flat color. Blue, or gray, or maybe even orange.

    But it's much more complex than that. Squint. See the daubs of lilac. The streak of sage no wider than a hyphen. That butterscotch smear and the faint wash of carnelian. All of them coming together to swirl at the point just above your finger.

    Breathe them in. Let them settle in your lungs. Those are the colors of right now.”
    Emily X.R. Pan, The Astonishing Color of After

  • #13
    Emily X.R. Pan
    “The purpose of memory is to remind us how to live.”
    Emily X.R. Pan, The Astonishing Color of After

  • #14
    Ted Chiang
    “unconditional love asks nothing, not even that it be returned.”
    Ted Chiang, Stories of Your Life and Others

  • #15
    Ted Chiang
    “Nothing erases the past. There is repentance, there is atonement, and there is forgiveness. That is all, but that is enough.”
    Ted Chiang, The Merchant and the Alchemist's Gate

  • #16
    Ted Chiang
    “My message to you is this: pretend that you have free will. It's essential that you behave as if your decisions matter, even though you know they don't. The reality isn't important: what's important is your belief, and believing the lie is the only way to avoid a waking coma. Civilization now depends on self-deception. Perhaps it always has.”
    Ted Chiang, Exhalation

  • #17
    “I survived because I remained soft, because I listened, because I wrote. Because I huddled close to my truth, protected it like a tiny flame in a terrible storm. Hold up your head when the tears come, when you are mocked, insulted, questioned, threatened, when they tell you you are nothing, when your body is reduced to openings. The journey will be longer than you imagined, trauma will find you again and again. Do not become the ones who hurt you. Stay tender with your power. Never fight to injure, fight to uplift. Fight because you know that in this life, you deserve safety, joy, and freedom. Fight because it is your life. Not anyone else’s. I did it, I am here. Looking back, all the ones who doubted or hurt or nearly conquered me faded away, and I am the only one standing. So now, the time has come. I dust myself off, and go on.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name: A Memoir

  • #18
    “In fact I need you to know it was all true. The friendly guy who helps you move and assists senior citizens in the pool is the same guy who assaulted me. One person can be capable of both. Society often fails to wrap its head around the fact that these truths often coexist, they are not mutually exclusive. Bad qualities can hide inside a good person. That's the terrifying part.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #19
    “When a woman is assaulted, one of the first questions people ask is, Did you say no? This question assumes that the answer was always yes, and that it is her job to revoke the agreement. To defuse the bomb she was given. But why are they allowed to touch us until we physically fight them off? Why is the door open until we have to slam it shut?”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name: A Memoir

  • #20
    “Most of us understand that your future is not promised to you. It is constructed day by day, through the choices you make. Your future is earned, little by little, through hard work and action. If you don’t act accordingly, that dream dissolves.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name: A Memoir

  • #21
    “When I listened to her, I understood: You have to hold out to see how your life unfolds, because it is most likely beyond what you can imagine. It is not a question of if you will survive this, but what beautiful things await you when you do. I had to believe her, because she was living proof. Then she said, Good and bad things come from the universe holding hands. Wait for the good to come.
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #22
    “I did not come into existence when he harmed me. She found her voice! I had a voice, he stripped it, left me groping around blind for a bit, but I always had it. I just used it like I never had to use it before. I do not owe him my success, becoming, he did not create me. The only credit Brock can take is for assaulting me, and he could never even admit to that.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #23
    “Most people say developing is linear, but for survivors it is cyclic. People grow up, victims grow around; we strengthen around the place that hurt, become older and fuller, but the vulnerable core is never gone.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #24
    “I used to shrink at harsh tones, used to be afraid. Until I learned it takes nothing to be hostile. Nothing. It is easy to be the one yelling, chucking words that burn like coals, neon red, meant to harm. I have learned I am water. The coals sizzle, extinguishing when they reach me. I see how, those fiery coals are just black stones, sinking to the bottom.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #25
    “What was unique about this crime, was that the perpetrator could suggest the victim experienced pleasure and people wouldn't bat an eye. There's no such thing as a good stabbing or bad stabbing, consensual murder or nonconsensual murder.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #26
    “Little girls don’t stay little forever, Kyle Stephens said. They turn into strong women who return to destroy your world.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name: A Memoir

  • #27
    “And finally, to girls everywhere, I am with you. On nights when you feel alone, I am with you. When people doubt you or dismiss you, I am with you. I fought everyday for you. So never stop fighting, I believe you.”
    Chanel Miller

  • #28
    “I always wondered why survivors understood other survivors so well. Why, even if the details of our attacks vary, survivors can lock eyes and get it without having to explain. Perhaps it is not the particulars of the assault itself that we have in common, but the moment after; the first time you are left alone. Something slipping out of you. Where did I go. What was taken. It is terror swallowed inside silence. An unclipping from the world where up was up and down was down.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name

  • #29
    “The slivers we show, the mountains we hide.”
    Chanel Miller, Know My Name



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