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  • #1
    Henry Cloud
    “We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.”
    Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

  • #2
    Abraham Lincoln
    “You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was.”
    Abraham Lincoln

  • #3
    Abraham Lincoln
    “You cannot help people permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves.”
    Abraham Lincoln

  • #4
    Rick Riordan
    “I thought maybe she'd whisk us off by magic, or at least hail a taxi. Instead, Bast borrowed a silver Lexus convertible.
    "Oh, yes," she purred. "I like this one! Come along, children."
    "But this isn't yours," I pointed out.
    "My dear, I'm a cat. Everything I see is mine." She touched the ignition and the keyhole sparked. The engine began to purr. [No, Sadie. Not like a cat, like an engine.]”
    Rick Riordan, The Red Pyramid

  • #5
    Shannon L. Alder
    “When your mind wants to bolt, but your heart hangs on, it is because you don’t know with absolute certainty what the truth is. When you waste so much time on something that you want to believe is true, you begin to overthink things. Eventually, something obvious becomes twisted into something absurd, which keeps us from believing a simpler answer. Over time, you believe your own lies and fantasies to shield yourself from hurt, when following what is logical would have been the quickest way to healing. It is through your own self-imposed delusions that you lose your perspective. The world then becomes different to you when in fact you are different. Why? Because your own ego gets in the way. Everyone wants to feel special. Everyone wants to have faith in others. Everyone wants to believe in fairytales, happy endings and have all bad interactions with others explained. It is easier to sit in denial with your delusions and pray God will intervene, not realizing he has. He gave you commonsense and intuition, but you didn’t like how it made you feel. This is what true mental illness really is: Following your gut instinct through hell because you want to prove you are right, either to yourself or others. You sacrifice choosing to do right, in order to avoid pain. However, you don't realize that you have been in pain for a really long time and believed this was how happiness felt.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #6
    Oscar Wilde
    “Every one is worthy of love, except him who thinks that he is. Love is a
    sacrament that should be taken kneeling.”
    Oscar Wilde, De Profundis

  • #7
    Richard Eyre
    “Resolution, like responsibility, is a product of ownership, and kids can't resolve a conflict until they figure out how they contributed to it.”
    Richard Eyre, The Entitlement Trap: How to Rescue Your Child with a New Family System of Choosing, Earning, and Ownership

  • #8
    Lundy Bancroft
    “The abusive man’s high entitlement leads him to have unfair and unreasonable expectations, so that the relationship revolves around his demands. His attitude is: “You owe me.” For each ounce he gives, he wants a pound in return. He wants his partner to devote herself fully to catering to him, even if it means that her own needs—or her children’s—get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he has this mind-set, he’ll never be satisfied for long. And he will keep feeling that you are controlling him, because he doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his conduct or insist that he meet his responsibilities.”
    Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

  • #9
    Criss Jami
    “The eye of true equality often seems to have some degree of disrespect for the supposedly accomplished, privileged high and lofty to the supposedly accomplished, privileged high and lofty, although in reality, it's simply irrespectiveness.”
    Criss Jami, Killosophy

  • #10
    Thomm Quackenbush
    “If you do not need something that it is still useful, give it to someone who will appreciate it before you douse it in lighter fluid in hopes Santa Odin will put a new one under your Yule tree.”
    Thomm Quackenbush, Pagan Standard Times: Essays on the Craft



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