“When someone implements a boundary, it's to help them feel safe, happy, and secure in the relationship. These limits aren't to be taken personally. The second (and my personal favorite) agreement from the book The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, by Don Miguel Ruiz, is "Do not take anything personally." So whatever happens around you, don't take it personally. Nothing other people do is because of you. It's because of themselves. All people live in their own dream and their own mind. Even when words seem personal, such as a direct insult, they really have nothing to do with you.”